My boyfirned of 3 years has just passed away. He was doing heroin with me and he took an over dose and his heart failed. I don't know what i can do without him I just loved him so much and I want to die right now. He was only 19 years old and just got out of highschool last year. I loved him so much I even lost my virginity to him and i can't imagine my life without him. What can I do this is the only person I have ever loved because I have serious issues at home. Someone please answer I rate 5's
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? allie92 answered Monday March 20 2006, 7:23 pm: i feel awful about your boyfriends death and i wanted 2 say that doing srugs is NEVER the colution.It must b hard wth the problems at home and i know that drugs might have seemed liek the way out. I hope that you can learn from your boyfriends death and learn what drugs can do to you. I must be sounding so mommyish rite now but its true.I cant stop you from doing what you do but you have to live your life to the fullest and do your boyfriend proud. If he loved you as much as you loved him, he wouldnt want you to give up or end your life for him.
sammysamtoohott answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 9:55 pm: ok first of all i know you're devastated right now but you shouldnt jump to conclusions like killing yourself. i know you miss him like soo much right now but in a way its like a wake up call. This should make you realize that life can be taken away from someone so fast and suddenly that you have to live your life good. You must be goign through a really rough time but doing drugs is NOT going to help. It might make you feel good while doing it but eventually horrible things can happen to you as you can see what unfortunately happened to your boyfriend. STOP DOING DRUGS NOW. before its too late. this tragedy will make you stronger and give you the motivation to start over and be open to other things. do a school activity and meet new people.
AbbyMichelle answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 8:39 pm: I swear...if you die, I'll go to your grave and Dig you up. Look little missy, his death is going to make you a thousand times stronger than what you have been. All you have to do is make your life in his name. CLEAN YOUR ASS UP! No more herion. No more drugs PERIOD. Clean up and do something with your life. Write a book on the bad things that happen when you do drugs. YOU know first hand what can happen. So write one. Dedicate it to him. Dedicate your whole life to making his short life mean something to someone, if just yourself. There's support groups you could go to and do a collaboration book. Just..whatever you do, don't die and don't give up. You'll always love him, and the pain will NEVER go away, but as long as you live your life to it's fullest and in his name, you will be so much happier and proud of yourself. [ AbbyMichelle's advice column | Ask AbbyMichelle A Question ]
kailey answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 8:32 pm: Make some good of your boyfriend's death. Learn from his mistakes & quit the drugs before its too late. He'd want you to be happy.
Time heals all wounds. Nothing we say can ease the pain. Take some time to mourn, but don't dwell on it for too long. Live for his memory. Turn his life around, get help, & be happy for him. [ kailey's advice column | Ask kailey A Question ]
Gabriel answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 8:00 pm: You just recieved a very hard and very real lesson on what drugs will, not can, WILL, do to you if you do not stop immediately. Nothing I can say or do can help ease the pain of your loss and all you can do is wait it out. I've lost more friends and loved ones than most people and all I can tell you is that in time you will be able to move on. I would recommend you talk to someone such as a family member or an older friend of the family about your drug use and get help. If you need to talk to someone and don't feel like talking to someone you know then you can e-mail me any time and I'll be glad to listen. Best wishes. [ Gabriel's advice column | Ask Gabriel A Question ]
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