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I need some help. I am going downhill in school because I am very lonely and i can't concentrate on my school work. The problem is that I desparately want a girlfriend and watching other people besides me dating makes it worse. There is no body special that I am attracted to in school, and even if I was i dont think i would know what to do (i am quite shy when it comes to starting conversations with girls and i dont know what to say.) Please if anyone can help me with my problems; how i can learn to be less shy around women, where i can find the girl for me, and what it will cost me to have a girlfriend. Thank you so much. (link)
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to be honest with you when you really dont look for it you will find someone with your same interest,dont rush into anything you might regret being in a rush relationship most start with friendship anyway do you have any good female friends? that might be a good start you never know who might have a interest in you,and also be too shy to cross that friendship barrier take a closer look @some of your girl friends and see what is really there...
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hi my husband says he loves me when he chats on the computer he likes to see other womens tits and ask hhem to say dirty thing he shows his pics of you know what but we fight about it all the time but he says it doesnt get trun on by other women but hes always looking at porn and stuff makes me feel unwanted what should i do (link)
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well to be totally honest with you i think your husband gets off by porn. a lot of men like to talk to strange woemen,look at pics,etc... you should really be careful if he is spending too much time on the computer chatting there are lots of internet affairs going on these days no mater the distance,and its not strange for men to hook up with these ladies for the action and the fantacy of it all,talk with him or check behind him see what he has been doing but be careful you might find out some thing you really dont wanna know...
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My parents smoke pot and I've always known that but I have been taught in school that POT IS BAD. I want them to stop but I'm afraid to tell them. Is it really that bad?
~gir with pothead parents~ (link)
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well what you could do is talk to your parents let them know how you feel about the pot subject,and let them know that you are uncomfartable with them smoking it for so long,letting them know is one way they may look into what they r doing ,if you dont talk to them they will think what they r doing is ok with you it is really refreshing to see someone so young talking with so much sence your parents should be proud of you for your decisions to stay drug free good for you...
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i tryed to kill my self and told my bf and now he wont leave me alone wat do i do ? (link)
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ok what do you expect? you do a cry for help so.. what do you expect?if he loves you he will be there to see that you dont do it again ,the best way to get him off your back is to get your act togeather and show him that you r no threat to yourself....
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how do you know if you have a std or weather your partner has one ?
Is the only way to catch one if your partner has sex with you????
Pleeze help (link)
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sometimes you can have a std. and have no effects somtimes thats why its known as the silent killer, some diseases have effects you can see, others there are none, not unless detected by a doctor or physician,so the best thing to do is get a checkup and be safe always protect yourselves and be safe...
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i was wondering if i recently had sex on my period will i get pregnant still? (link)
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anytime you have un protected sex there is always a chance you might get pregnant so be careful protect your self from that and getting a std,
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Here is my scenario: I'm 18 and I have only had my period for less than 2 years. I have never had sex. My period has never been normal or regular and it pretty much comes and goes as it pleases. Sometimes I don't have it for months and months at a time. As of now, I havent had it for at least 3 months now. My problem is that I think that when I was fooling around with someone (not having sex) that semen may have managed to go through a layer of clothing and maybe make its way inside me.
Since I havent had a period since god knows when - I have no idea if the little soldiers got in or not. After that night in question I encountered the tiniest bit of blood - barely considered a 'drop' and that was it. That was the main reason I thought it might have been conception.
Recently, I have been eating a lot more but I haven't really gained any weight. My breasts may have gotten bigger but they were sore for at least a week straight.
I'm wondering if these things could mean that I am pregnant. I have been under a lot of stress so I am thinking maybe that is the reason why I haven't had my period for a long time and that maybe my body is just finally deciding to develop which accounts for the breasts thing.
I'm very worried because not only would being pregnant ruin my life and a baby's life, but my boyfriend would clearly break up with me because we have never had sex and he will probably assume I was with some other guy behind his back. Not to mention the cazillion other reasons why its bad.
Are there any tell-tale signs that might help me to know or at least put my mind at ease before going to see a doctor? (link)
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the body is a strange thing , sometimes stress can make a person not have a period.or it could be a number of other things,you might need to consult your family doctor, to see about getting on birth control to get regular, and i never heard of semen going through clothing and wounding up inside a person,i think your pretty safe there.
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I placed my parents in a highly recommended nursing home in Ohio. The care they got was excellent. The billing and financial affairs were not. Over the course of their stay (they are both now dead) the nursing home forged my fathers signature on his social security funds removing them from his bank account and depositing them in the home. Questions about the billing never made sense and all inquiries went unanswered. After mother died they sent me a bill for almost $22,000 with no detail and then went into court in Ohio (I live in Colorado) and got a judgement against me for same. When my father died, they sent me a form asking my permission to be administrator of dads estate which I refused. They did it anyway. Then sent me a demand for $42,000 on "behalf of my fathers estate," and demanded payment. Subsequently got a judgement against me in Ohio courts for the $42,000. They have now hired an attorney here in Colorado to collect these monies. In all, they have been unrelenting and vicious. It never ends. I have said repeatedly that if I owed them money I would pay it, but all requests for explanation have gone unanswered. The judge out here says that it does appear a bit strange but that he is bound by Colorado law to enforce the judgements. I am told that legal expenses to fight this would run as high as $60-80,000. I am at wits end. They have tormented us, embarrassed us and stopped at nothing to collect without giving any reasons. I am at wits end as to what to do. (link)
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what you need to do is check with the head of the company,request to see the papers and request all the moneys that were taken and for what they were used for, dont take no for a answer, there should be receipts for all transactions or better yet get a lawyer your parents were ripped off right the wrong that was done to your parents, and im sure if you request a lawyer the company wil take a second look at the papers and the moneys that are gone..
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Is using a condom totally necessary if you are giving a guy head? If you don't swallow the semen and rinse out your mouth afterward what are the risks? (link)
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i would definately use a condom when giving oral sex you never know what that person has you can still get a std. in your mouth area and that can be very emberassing and uncomartable .
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IS a gigolo the same thing as a prostitute but it's a guy? (link)
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a gigalo is a male that gets paid for his time weither it be sexual or just spending time with a woeman but he is definately compensated with moneys
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Whats a dildo ( is the spelling correct ?? ) I'm sorry for this weird q , but some of my friends talk about it and i don't know what it is , and i don't want to seem dumb . =) thanks .... (link)
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a dildo or in better terms is called a vibrator if it is mechanical, or it just could be rubber well to put it in lamemens terms it is a fake penus ,some thing used to improve sex,or just as a prop,lesbians use them so do some gay males and couples also use them as do single ladies... hope that answers your question.
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I did it with my dog last week. He's good at it, but can I get pregnant from doing it with a dog? Could my babies be deformed? Could I get sick from doing this? (link)
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ok, now you might really need to get some help,having sex with animals is imoral and just wrong ,its ok to experiment with sex ,but thats just not acceptable ,i would really get some help because thats not a normal mthing for someone to do to a animal,really look at what you are doing and think about it,and hopefully call someone for the help that you need good luck...
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i'm 14 and i've had sex 15 times with 16 different people(threesome) and 13 of them are members of my family(aunts, uncles, cousins, mom, dad, sister, brother, dog, etc.) and now i might be pregnant and i don't know who the father is(obviously not girls) what if it's like half dog? is that possible? HELP ASAP
thanx
write back asap (link)
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ok, to answer your question no it will not be half dog, but there is always some chance for mental retardation, or birth effects you are definately playing with fire sleeping with relatives,thats just not acceptable these times and days , dosent your town have more men than that? you might need to get some counsling for incest thats not somemthing you want to live with for the rest of your life.
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We haven't had sex for a couple months and quiet frankly im horny. Last time i asked him for some he told me i wasnt gunna get layed anymore unless i got a gigilo (male prostitute).hes my husband and i want his body?! i wonder if he finds me
do u think i should leave him or ask him to treat me better.
Mrs. iwanttogetlayed (link)
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ok what does it take for you to see your husband is getting it from some where else ,he dosent want to b bothered with you while he is in this new relationship, thats the way most men work when they r cheating on there spouses,do your self a favor get a life, find a new friend and get yours,he sees you are not begging anymore he's going to wonder what is going on with you it will either better your relationship or you will be freed up to do what you want good luck.. anissa
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I have been married to a man I consider my soul mate for eighteen years. We have a 5 year daughter. My father died about a year ago. My husband loved him more than his own father (who is a selfish, egotistical, non-caring male). The loss touched us all greatly. I turned to taking care of my mom (my father's dying wish) and my daughter. I didn't realize that my husband had turned to drugs. On Feb 17, 2003 he was arrested and sentenced to 15 years. His tenative release date is Oct 2013. On Valentine's day (3 days before his arrest) his present to me was a broken leg. I still love this man. He seems to have changed since he has been in jail from the letters that he sends. Ironically it will be Valentine's day before I can see him. He was never violent during the times previous to my father's death. But he built a persona of me in his mind that he seems to hang on to. 10 years is a long time to wait. I have been told by others that he will be a harder person when he gets out. I had returned to school and will get my degree in Spring of 2005. I am not sure if I should remain married to him or not. I am afraid that all the lovely words he is writing is because he is afraid of abandonment. There are a lot of other details too numerous to mention but pertinent to the situation. But because of what he has done I have lost my home, my transportation, and my life. Should I give him a second chance or not? (link)
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ok thats a easy one be careful of jail house talk, they will tell you anything to get money letters and visits,and then flip on you when they get out be careful of his motives sounds like a relatonship better left alone ,or better off dead,dig a hole and put it there because thats where it belongs find a new love and go on with your life good luck .. anissa..
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I'm about as butch as the next girl. I don't shave anything, I hate make up, I have a mean left hook, I don't take any crap on the street. My husband is a sweetheart, I found a rare gem in him, but his bull dyke best friend hates me. I have tried EVERYTHING to befriend her. I have tried ignoring her, I don't know what else to do. She HATES me. She tells total strangers what a seething bitch I am (well, I am) and she has tried to break us up many times. She has even threatened me with physical violence. I don't tell him who to be friends with or not, but she just won't let up. It's making him take a 2nd look at his friendship with her, and I'm afraid he's going to leave her behind. What can I do? I think she may be jealous of me. Does she want him, or me, or both of us. She has a history of sleeping with his other girlfriends, but I'm not bi. I'm letting him sort this one out for himself, but I feel kinda bad about it.
Violet (link)
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ok you might not want to hear this well, first maybe she is jealious but not the way you think, evoryone has a past and did you look into your husbands past good enough? gays dont hang around straits unless they r related,maybe they were party buddies or just clubbed togeather and she picked up girls and him guys and now since you that has all changed that will definately wake a lot of waves believe me, she wants you gone so it can go back to the ols way you really need to check with your husbands past ill bt you find a lot of skelletons watch out... anissa
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What do you do if you know a family member is having an affair and the wife has no idea why he is ending a 30 year marriage. Do you tell her or do you keep your mouth shut and let him hang himself? (link)
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ok thats a easy one, one you could mind your business and be eating up with gilt or two, be honest,the relationship is over go ahead and tell what you know ,itll come out in the end and then you will look like the bad guy becaue you knew and did not say anything it always seems to back fire on the one that never says anything so what do oyu have to lose with a relaionship that is already over dont destroy two be honest... anissa..
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My husband is a sweet guy but sometimes I think he has his priorities mixed up. He was going to bring his friend flowers for her B-day, which I was fine with, but he found out she is having a few stressful problems and now wants to give her a spa package, which is like $60-$80. We are not poor, but money is a little tight, we already went to an expensive dinner with her, isn't that enough?
I would never spend that much even on my family. What makes me mad is that he is so determined to do something nice for her, but he wouldn't go out and get his mother a card for Mothers Day. Or for Valentines Day I got flowers a week before just because, but on the actual day, I was home sick with the flu and I got nothing, and we never did anything later. I know his heart is in the right place, but I wish he would put the people that really love him up higher on his priority list. Am I being selfish, or jealous, or am I right to be upset? (link)
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well you really need to look at what your husbands motives are or maybe he dosent really undertsand the hidden agenda that he has going on seems like he has some hidden attraction for his friend and dosent know how to represent it besides the obvious giving gifts i would relly talk to him and see what his motives are, or if he is just plain blind to what is going on in his life sometimes you need to wake up a person that has issues being honest with htemselves....anissa
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I have 2 questions. First, I know my husband will never do anything to hurt me, but i've been through so much in my past relationships and I've put my husband through so much in the past four years. And I am so insecure, I know he won't hurt me, but how do i get over being insecure and let myself be happy and learn to trust him?
second, is it right for a married man to talk to other women via email? (link)
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ok first question if you r too nedy that wil make a man run out on you being a little nedy is ok but if you seem to be a burden it will push him away,like with any relatonship needy is ok but if you r over the top and always about yourself it will make him not want to b around you and no its not ok for a man to talk via e mail to females a lot of internet cheating goes on there... b careful with that...anissa
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Should I tell him I snooped? And should I be suspicious? I have no reason to think he'd cheating, but still, I wonder... This #'s were in his contacts list. (link)
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ok that is a touchy one dont let him know you saw the numbers he might b cheating you dont wanna let him know you r on to him and all call the numbers see who it is but dont let him know you r on to him it might b a business act,so b careful how you go about it, there r ways to find out what you wanna know you just gotta b really inventive ,and not sem like a snoopy wife write the numbers down and hold on too them you will know if it is more than business lok atr his phone bill the amount of calls will tellit all.... anissa
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