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I snooped in my hubby's cell phone and found 2 phone # of wo
Should I tell him I snooped? And should I be suspicious? I have no reason to think he'd cheating, but still, I wonder... This #'s were in his contacts list.
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well they could be good friends as in girls its ok for guys to have #'s of women or just a boy thats a good friend that you dont know and if you really think he is cheating then talk to him
~bree~
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ok that is a touchy one dont let him know you saw the numbers he might b cheating you dont wanna let him know you r on to him and all call the numbers see who it is but dont let him know you r on to him it might b a business act,so b careful how you go about it, there r ways to find out what you wanna know you just gotta b really inventive ,and not sem like a snoopy wife write the numbers down and hold on too them you will know if it is more than business lok atr his phone bill the amount of calls will tellit all.... anissa
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I think the worse thing you can do is to tell him you snooped! I could backfire and he'll have every right to be upset with you if he found out. Then you'll have to explain in your defense why you did it? It all comes down to a matter of trust. Those two number could be there for any number of reasons. Could be work associates or work contacts. If you're worried that he might be cheating on you, do a little more investigating into his wherabouts when you're apart. Be smart because just when you think you have nothing to worry about, that's when you're the last to know!
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i think you should sit down and tell him the truth that you snooped. BUT maybe you should somehow follow him to work or follow him wherever he goes just keep a sharp eye on him before asuming anything
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Believe me there is no need to snoop! If he is cheating it will eventually it will get to easy for him and he will start caring less about how he does it or where he does it and you will catch him or you can be absorbent and pay attention to his actions. You could just ask him you have the right Slip the question in sneeky as in sit down and be like would you truly ever cheat on me, ask him why he loves you Just be honest with him dont snoop it will piss him off and he'll think your the one who has something to hide.
Sincerely,
Angel & her man
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its alright to be worried and snoop around tell him not to get mad and tell him what your worried about if he tells you their friends then leave it at that but if he is sneaking out then you have a problenm or if they call him a whole lot
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Say you were lookin for a # and came across them...Dont assume he's cheating untill you notice anything weird
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Marriage is all about love and trust which does not appear to be working with your goodself.
If you can sit down and admit to yourself that he has not given you any reason to snoop on his mobile then you must have an unreasonable jealous streak which if not corrected could lead you to sorting out his pockets next.
Put it all behind you Gal and forget it you know it makes sense.
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Do you have a reason to be snooping? Has your husband given a reason not to be trusted? If not, brush it off and don't let it bother you. But if you have suspisions, ask him about it. How can you expect him to be truthful to you, if you are not true to him?
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First snooping is never good because he might just break up with you. And second he might break up with you if you tell him and he has a damn good reason to for your lack of trust. So Naturally its your call but if you do tell him get ready for fireworks, and if you don't don't ever tell him to trust you if you can't return that favor. And just because the numbers are there doesn't mean a think. Most males have many female numbers in the contacts. I have more the 12
Chris
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OMG!
I had better get rid of all the women's names in my cell phone, email, and palm device!
I have to ask first why you were snooping to begin with? Are you trying to find something wrong?
If you have no reason to think he's cheating, yet you follow that up with "but still, I wonder"... that sounds to me that you are the one with a problem of insecurity. Maybe you should talk this over with your husband - but don't expect him to be very happy about it at first. Should you decide to do this, make sure you make it clear that the issue is NOT him, but is more your insecurity.
The other thing would be this idea: marriage is about trust... so where is it? You are telling us that you're not trusting of your husband. So why is that?
From my opening remarks, I hope you get the point I'm trying to make. I work with a LOT of people. I have their names, phone numbers, addresses, emails all over the place. Some are people I'll call, so I have their numbers in my cell phone. Yes, some are men, some are women, some are people my wife knows, some are not. I don't expect to know everyone she knows, nor do I expect her to meet all my coworkers and clients.
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You should not be suspicious, but be honest and ask him about them if its really bugging you. The numbers are probably just work collegues or somthing.
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