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If for some reason you do not want to ask me a personal question where people can read it you can always e-mail me at bigmocsgurl@netscape.net.
I am 15 years old and I want to help other people's lives my life is great and everyone should enjoy life and not have to deal with stressful situations. I am engaged to my long time boyfriend who I just truly admire. Well hit me up. I will answer anything you need advice on no matter what it is. Drugs, sex, realtonship, friendship,online things anything im hear to listen and to help.
E-mail: Thuglada@yahoo.com
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Location: Pennslyviana
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Age: 16
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Member Since: April 6, 2004
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is it posible to date two friends at a time?people said it is bad can i believe this? (link)
It is wrong to be dating two friends at once it can mess things alot and i mean there your friends and friends dont dick other friends over.
How would you feel if a friend did that to you?


SINCERELY,
ANGEL


I am 19 and i have a boyfriend. Im thinking of going on the pill. BUT I want to find out the side effects. Does anyone know of any? Ive tried searching on the net but I didnt really get anywhere. (link)
I am on the patch and here is some information:
1) You apply once a week on the same day each week for 3 weeks in a row
2) During 4 week, do not wear the patch. Period should come.
3) Following 4th week, repeat the same routine each month.

It contains the same hormones simliar to the birth contol pills.Serious risks, include blood clots, stroke, heart attack are increased if you smoke cigarettes.THE CONTRACEPTIVE PATCH DOES NOT PROTECT AGAINST HIV OR OTHER SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES.

ORTHO EVA WORKS?
Contains estrogen and progestin. These two hormones prevent pregnany in two ways:
1) As you go through your normal cycle every 28 days or so, your pituitary glands releases certain hormones. The hormones signal your ovaries to develop an egg that gets picked up by one of your fallopian tubes, where it could become fertizled. However,the hormones in ORTHA EVA prevent this process. no egg will be released.
2)The hormones also thicken the mucus secreations from your cervix, making it difficilt for sprem to enter your uterus.

IT'S 99% EFFECTIVE in preventing pregnancy when used correctly.

WHERE DO YOU WEAR IT?
1) YOUR BUTTOCK, ABDOMEN, UPPER TORSO (INCLUDING BREASTS) OR OUTSIDE OF UPPER ARM.
2) can select different place each week remain there for 7 days
3) you can wear it in the same location each week if you wish in the same exact spot just different side of the body.
4) dont apply to red, irritated, or cut skin.
5) Only 1 patch should be worn per week,
6) Make sure it sticks properly.

WHEN DO YOU CHANGE YOUR PATCH?
1)Wear the patch for 7 days (weekly) day 8 change your patch
2)Put new patch on at day 8 and again day 15.
3) On day 22 do not wear your patch( period should start)
4) NEVER WEAR PATCH FOR MORE THAN 7 DAYS.
5) Be sure to apply the first patch at the beginning of your 4th week cycle.

IF YOU CHANGE YOUR PATCH DAY?
1) Complete your current cycle
2) During your patch free week, you must select an ealier patch change day by applying a new patch on the desired day
3) REMEMBER NEVER GO MORE THAN 7 DAYS WITHOUT PATCH.

HOW DO I APPLY MY PATCH?
1) Always apply your patch to clean, dry skin. Avoid lotions, creams, oils, powder, make-up on or near the patch.
2) Open the foil patch by tearing it along the top edge and one side edge. Peel the foil pouch apart and open it flat.
3) Patch is covered with a layer of clear plastic, remove patch from foil patch.
4) Using fingernail, lift one corner of the patch and peel the patch and plastic off the foil liner.
5)Peel away half of the clear plastic.
6) Apply the sticky part to your skin make sure skin is clean and dry first then remove the other half of plastic.
7) press firmly on the patch with the palm of your hand for 10 seconds. make sure the edge's stick firmly. Run your finger around the edge of the patch to make sure it is sticking properly.

HOW DO YOU REMOVE IT?
1) Simply lift one corner and quickly peel back. Carefully fold the used patch in half so that it sticks to itself before throwing away.
2) If a small rinf of adhensive is left on your skin remove it by rubbing a small amount of baby oil on the area.
3) Remember to apply your new patch to a new area of skin that is clean, dry and free of lotions, oils and creams.
4) Used patches still contain some active hormones make sure to throw in garbage.

WHAT IF YOU FORGET TO CHANGE PATCH?
1) To avoid becoming pregnant, you MUST use backup contraception for 1 week
2) Apply first patch of your new cycle as soon as you remember.
3) You will have a new Day 1 and a new Change patch day.
IF YOU FORGET TO CHANGE YOUR PATCH DURING 2 OR 3 WEEK:
1) You are only 1 or 2 days late, remove the used patch and apply a new one immediately.
2) the next patch should be applied on your normal patch change day.
3) No backup contraception is needed.
4) If it has been more than 2 days past your last change day to avoid becoming pregnant you MUST use backup contraception for 1 week.
5) Remove the used patch and apply a new patch as soon as you remember to start a new 4 week cycle.
6) You will now have a new Day 1 and a new change day.
IF YOU FORGET TO TAKE YOUR PATCH OFF DURING WEEK 4:
1) Take the patch off as soon as you remember
2) Start your new cycle on your normal patch change day
3) no backup contraception is needed.

IF PATCH SEEMS LOOSE?
1) press down firmly on the patch with palm of hand for 10 seconds.
2) if your patch does not stick well, apply a replacement patch.

IF PATCH FALLS OFF?
1)if been off for less than 24 hours try to reapply or apply a new patch immediatley.
2) been off for more than 24 hours or if you are unsure how long your patch has been loose or off, apply a new patch immediately to avoid becoming pregnany. Start a new 4 day cycle. You will now have a new patch change day and must use backup contraception for first week of new cycle.
3) To ensure adhension, make sure the application sit is clean and dry. Avoid putting creams, lotions, oils, powder on or near the patch.

CAN I DO EVERYDAY THINGS?
Yes, you can do the same things you do everyday. It doesnt come off while swimming, bathing, exercising, sweating,wet, or mositured.

WILL YOU GET YOUR PERIOD EVERY MONTH?
Yes, you will get it the 4th week. if you are using the patch right.

WILL YOU NEED TO TAKE A BREAK FROM THE PATCH?
No, your body doesnt need a break from the patch.

SIDE EFFECTS?
Most common side effects include breast symptoms, headache, skin irration at the application site, nausea, upper respiratory illness, and cramps.

OTHER STUFF TO KNOW:
1)Dont skip patchs-even if not having sex often
2) Should need an extra, single replacement patches are available.
3) Tell doctor if using other medications.


SINCERLEY,
ANGEL

I USE THE PATCH AND NEVER HAD AN SIDE EFFECTS.


i have a bf who is cheating on me and wat shold i do (link)
DUMP HIM... NO GIRL OR GUY DESERVES TO BE CHEATED ON JUST DUMP HIM AND GET OUT THAT IS IF YOU SURE HE IS CHEATING MAKE SURE YOU HAVE EVIDENCE BEFORE YOU GO AND BREAK IT OFF.

SINCERLEY,
ANGEL


Everyone says I am really rpetty, (if you wanna see me, then go to http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=winona1992

but Ive done everything to look different. When I have a new boyfriend, he only wants to have sex...help

(PLEEZ SEE MY COLUMN SO U CAN HELP ME MORE) (link)
I have been through that before believe me get out of the realtonship it isnt good for you.. You are way to important in life to be with a guy just so he can get some pussy....if you aint into the realtonship for dick then i would dump him and move on to a guy who isnt just looking for some bitch to screw(not callin you a bitch). I hope i helped believe me get out it's for the best.

Sincerely,
ANGEL


Is it healthy for a guy to want to have sex like 3/4 times a day? Is there a healthy average amount for a couple to do...both aged 37?


Just curious. He says I don't fulfill his needs. (link)
yeah it is there has been times i have wanted 6-9 times a day and its just that if u get a gurl thats good enough and knows how u want it ( like my g/f ) u will not want as much u will just want to go longer.

Sincerely,
Angel's man

Hun maybe you need to ask him what you can do to fullfill his needs. It's alittle embrassing not knowing how to please your man.

Sincerely,
Angel


how does the penis fit in the vagina? the hole is small does it open up or something and get bigger?i really want to know this help! (link)
The vagina hole stretches enough for the penis to enter. The penis get luburcated and it will be easy to enter the vagina.

Sincerly,

Angel's man and Angel


Is there any chance at all of a woman getting pregnant if the man wears a condom, without actual intercourse?
The penis would still be quite close (touching, probably) to the vagina, but not inside. (link)
no the seman has to go threw a tube and has to fight threw the females seman and very few makes it in and then they have to be fertile enough to fertilize the egg

Sincerley
Angel's Man


My friend got fingered by a guy, and she has had her period. I was wondering can you get pregnant from being fingered. Does that also mean ur a no a vergin anymor?? PLease write back thanx (link)
No you can not get pregnant from being fingered. You are still a virgin... the only way to lose your virginty is when the guy puts his penis in the vagina for the first time and he pops your cherry some girls bleed when they lose their virginity others dont.


Sincerely,
Angel


Hello peoples,
well i was just wondering what happens when a guy goes through puberty, like i know about girls (duh cause i'm a girl) like they bleed but what happens to a guy? Do they have to wear anything? Like I know girls have to wears pads and tampons, do boys have to wear anything!!! Please please please please tell me!!!thanks (link)
no a guy just get acne and gets hair down by thier penis and their balls drop and they start to have blood flow threw their penis and we start to get wet dreams and want to get off all the time hes always horney lookin at all gurls in sexual ways


Sincerely,
Angel's Man


I have 2 questions. First, I know my husband will never do anything to hurt me, but i've been through so much in my past relationships and I've put my husband through so much in the past four years. And I am so insecure, I know he won't hurt me, but how do i get over being insecure and let myself be happy and learn to trust him?
second, is it right for a married man to talk to other women via email? (link)
ok the only way u can become secure of your self is try to give him some space and trust him. See how he acts and cuttle wit him every chance u get and let him know how u truly feel so he will recognize what he has to lose and he won't mess up and He will wanna be wit u and let him come to u. Do something to yourself as in buy a new dress or get a new hair style, make him dinner and dress up and do something romantic and see if he compliants you it always feels good to get complaints cause this way you know what he thinks of you.


Sincerely,
Angel & Her man


Should I tell him I snooped? And should I be suspicious? I have no reason to think he'd cheating, but still, I wonder... This #'s were in his contacts list. (link)
Believe me there is no need to snoop! If he is cheating it will eventually it will get to easy for him and he will start caring less about how he does it or where he does it and you will catch him or you can be absorbent and pay attention to his actions. You could just ask him you have the right Slip the question in sneeky as in sit down and be like would you truly ever cheat on me, ask him why he loves you Just be honest with him dont snoop it will piss him off and he'll think your the one who has something to hide.


Sincerely,
Angel & her man


im almost 17 and my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time and when he went to put his penis
in he went limp we tried again and the same thing
happened does this happen often? he got embaressed
about it what can we do about this? (link)
Give him some head or play with it first... Find his horny spots usually the back of the neck and the ear are a good spot. Find a way to get him really horny then you are set to go.



love angel


What do people meen when they say, masturabate? (link)
For a girl masturabate they finger theirselves and a guy plays with his penis with is a handjob.


i have been with my boyfriend for about 10 months and the sex has been normal, however recently for some reason i have gone off sex, i just dont feel like it as much as i used to, is that normal, cause my boyfriend doesnt think so and he's getting frustrated about it, we keep arguing all the time because off this, help......... (link)
Hi im angel i think it is totally normal i mean all you have to do is find what you want and what makes him happy spice it up some do something different try another poistion. Or maybe you two just need to take a break or while and just cuddle and know how much each other mean to you.


i have been sleeping with 5 guys for the last 3 months and they dont know about each other. Recently my best friend and i got into a fight and she told 3 of them about each other. Now i am 1 month pregnant and i dont know who the father is. The guys that know about each other now dont want anything to do with me and i am really hurt. I dont know why they wouldent want a beautifull sexy girl like me in their lives. Please help me in deciding what to do. (link)
To me it seems you got caught up in your little game. Im sure the guys are hurting to nobody likes to be played. You just made yourself seem alittle sluty and right now you need to focus on your child and being there for the child and quit running to all these guys if your such a beatiful girl then why you wasting your life on some many men you desevere better but they did desvere way much then what you gave them. Friends can do that but you just have to get past it.. I mean it's better a friend tells them then one guy telling the other and then the whole town knows. I dont know dont worry about how they dont want anything to do with you cause you brought that apon yourself now you just have to deal with worry about who the father is, how you are going to support your child and you? What about were you are going to live? Work? Get money until you can find a job? QUIT WORRYING ABOUT THE 3 GUYS YOU CHEATED ON WHEN YOU JUST WILL MAKE YOURSELF IN A BIGGER HOLE.

Sincerely,
Angel


what can i do to make my boyfriend more interested in sex i never had this problem in the past all i had to do was kiss a guy and it was there my boyfriend is older than me but he is not the first one that was older than me and i never had any problems before so please help not sexy lingerie or any suggestions like that i mean something sexual if anyone knows especially guys if they something they like feel free to reply (link)
Hello I am angel i think that well i know most guys are into you feeling comfortable and thinking your sexy and not being scared to make a move or put their hand somewhere or tell them what you want to happen. Most guys dont want to put moves on a girl if she is shy or if he thinks she isnt really into him. If you are ready to have intercourse or sex with him just make a move or just sit down face to face with him and talk about it. It works believe me!




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