i am a person that gives advice, so ask away! I believe that when you help, you save. its easy to do when you know what your ganna say, or ask. i am justtt doing what God has asked me to do, help someone, save someone; give more, ask for nothing on return.
ask me and i will deffinatly get back to you ASAP.
how did i know i wn=anted to do this my friends always ask me for advice then say i should get my own advice column, so i did, this is just one more step to helping and saveing.
E-mail: chatgurl10@msn.com
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I started drinking in 6th grade and ever since my friends hated me .How can I get them to be my friends agin (link)
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To get your friends to like you, you have to stop. Your "frineds" are concerned for you, why wouldnt they, they dont want to hang out with the wrong person, and neither would i, infact i have to talk to my friends about the exact same thing.
give me some feedback and tell me if this helps
***PLEASE***
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my mother died a couple years ago and i feel like it's my fualt. as a child i didn't get a lot of attention from my friends so i kept wishing that someone in my family would die! and it happened and i regret everything i wished! is it my fualt my mom died? (link)
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its not your fualt at all. Dont be hard on yourself. just ppray and talk to her evry night, ask for a sign to tell you if it was your fualt or not.
thats what i would do.
im sorry
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ok, i have a BIG problem. i am the one with the pink sparkley dildo involving the cap. of the football team. so that whole thing is passed and know me and the cap. are going out. we have been dating for a couple weeks now and he wants me to quit using my dildo cause it interferes with our GREAT sex life. but i don't want to stop cause it's so enjoyful. what should i do about it. pleaz help asap!!
thanx
pleaz help (link)
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you should just tell him and evryone that you stopped but instead keep pleasuring yourself till/ you die. Or atleast get married!
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im 15 and my penis is about 5 inches long
is that about the average? (link)
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i guess so, but im not a guy you should really ask a guy about theese things. (LOL) Ummmm If it seems normal to you. (?¿?¿?¿?¿?)
sry hopw this helps,
give me some feedback.
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some people say flirt or ask him out but its more than that im afraid of rejection and i cant get over it what if my friends or his make fun of me?
i need advice fast !!! (link)
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ur stuck i think that instead of being nervous you shouldnt be nervous becasue thats why you wont make a move. get one of your friends to ask him for you see if he likes you then make your move, or ask himout online and if he says no just tell him not o tell any one. hope this advice helps you!!
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What is the best way to pleasure myself without a guys help? (hint i am a girl) (link)
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USE:
1.a shampoo bottle
2.a football
3.a dildo
4.a baseball bat
5.a baseball and half
6.tennis ball its nice and bouncy
7.a broom
8.a computer mouse
9.a pole
10.....WE SAVED THE BEST FOR LAST....YOUR SISTERS HEAD!!!!
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how do i ask a girl out on line (link)
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if i were you i wouldnt ask a girl out online, believe me i am one but I think that you should ask her how she feels about you and then say will you go out with me¿
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At first, this problem seems simple. In my Journalism class, we have a Journalism website. A girl in the class had 5 weeks to write her column. At the very last minute, she asks someone to write it for her. Simple solution for me, right? Just rat her out! Wrong. The girl who wrote the column for the slacker happens to be one of my friends--I sit next to her every day at lunch. What do I do? Do I rat her out, or just keep my peace? (link)
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if i were you i would tell your friend not to do someone elses work, dont rat her out if sh'e your friend, then if you do she wont be your friend any more. Just tell you friend that she shoudnt help slackers on there work, she could show them how to do it but dont do it for them.
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Greetings, it's me, the advicenator_admin. Lately I've been receiving more requests to have people monitor the site for unsuitable content. Some people would rather give bad advice. I haven't cared much before, I mean, annoying questions are a problem because everyone reads those, but not everyone reads every advice column so who cares how bad it is? I look at advice columns like your own websites... unless it's really hateful, I see no need to try to ban people. Plus, so far when a columnist joins and decides it's funny to slam everyone and be mean, they've gotten sick of it after ten questions or so. No need to pick a fight when they're dropping out anyway.
What do you all think? Should we ban people with really awful columns? Not display columnists with really low ratings? Ignore everything, and just let the site run free? I want to know what everybody thinks. (link)
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i dont really mind if you monitor columns just dont get into someone elses buisness, im not trying to be rude or nothin but just dont.
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I have 2 questions. First, I know my husband will never do anything to hurt me, but i've been through so much in my past relationships and I've put my husband through so much in the past four years. And I am so insecure, I know he won't hurt me, but how do i get over being insecure and let myself be happy and learn to trust him?
second, is it right for a married man to talk to other women via email? (link)
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for 1st question:
This is a tough question. I think that if you are sure that you have put him in this spot take a day off sit down talk to him and apologize im not quite sure
-hope this works!!-
for 2nd question:
i think that it isnt right but im only 13. If you think he is doing on=hter things snoop around like while he's at work talk to the people he talks to online.
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Should I tell him I snooped? And should I be suspicious? I have no reason to think he'd cheating, but still, I wonder... This #'s were in his contacts list. (link)
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i think you should sit down and tell him the truth that you snooped. BUT maybe you should somehow follow him to work or follow him wherever he goes just keep a sharp eye on him before asuming anything
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My husband has panic disorder and has suffered from panic attacks his entire life. He is on medicine for them now, but he is having a hard time holding a job. I love him dearly but am afraid if I stay I will never have anything, and I'm afraid of the judgement that will be passed on me by my family. I love him and don;t want to abandon him, am I crazy for staying? (link)
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You would never be crazy for staying! Think of it this way, that disorder could save his life or someone elses life someday. God made him like that for a reson, maybe that reson just hasnt showed up at your door yet.
_-Bailey Lee-_
chatgurl10@msn.com
(13 years old)
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does he really love me i wanna know can you tell me what really in his heart. hey I am sorry I was just trying to figure this thing out okay sorry to wait your time i apologize once again (link)
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yes, im sure he does, but dont asume that get one of your friends to ask him first or ask him yourself
does that help¿
im sorry if it doesnt
keep askin me if so
i luv to recieve questions tell everyone about me
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All of my friends are really worried about me because I cut myself. My parents don't know I still cut, but they know that I used to. I'm addicted to hurting myself and I don't want to stop. Everyone wants to change me but I refuse to. How do I get everyone to stop trying to get me to change? (link)
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What you are doing isnt healthy and you need to stop. Why in the frist place to you do it! its not smart! Your friends are caring for you and they worry about you. Its life, but what your doing isnt! Its not healthy at all!!!! i dont know how to say this either, why do you want to hurt yourself, just think of this its a phrase someone told me a LONG time ago, when you hurt yourself its hurts your friends and family more, even if they dont know exactly what your doing they know something is wrong, so they arnt sure if they should ask. So please stop hurting yourself, it hurts me too.
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Ok, so I am a girl, and I used to hang out with this guy I know. He was really nice, and we are interested in exactly the same things- computers and fantasy. He's a lot older than I am, and not many people his age like those things- they're mostly into makeup, boys, etc. Since he's so much older than I am, it never occured to me that we could be an item- but then one day, he made the love sign to me behind his back! I tried to ask him about it, but it was a total disaster and I probably embarassed him a lot. He denied it, but I think he does like me. What should I do? (link)
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i would say that you should talk to him about it on the phone or something or get your freinds or his friends to ask him if he liked you.
i hope my advice works for you!
**my wishes**
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i care a lot about what people think
what should i do? (link)
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this is a hard question. i would say talk to your friends or peers about it.
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im 12 years old and in 6th grade, so is my ex. my ex-boyfriend, Chris' father did on Palm Sunday. i felt really bad 4 him cuz him & hi dad were real close and his older bro died 10 months ago. well, i heard from a very good friend that when i broke ^ w/ him it broke his heart. i never wanted to hurt him, i just was afrais of getting too close to him and possibly getting hurt. i wrote him a very personal letter and ave it to him about 2 days ago , but he hasnt called yet. isit a sign (link)
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maybe it is, maybe it isnt. It could be telling you that (this is from a song but i go by it) "if he comes back its your and thats how you know he's for keeps he's for sure." i hope my advice fit your question if not keep asking
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my sister (11, 5th grade) weighs 1 pound less than i do and im in 7th grade(im 13) and she is is 5th. What should i do to help her cut down on the sweets, not including today because its easter lol! but she always eats and eats and eats and i dont know wst to tell her. My parents know the issue but i havent been eatin very healthy either, but i have kept my weight the same it was since the middle of a sport. (link)
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get your parents to talk to your sister about it
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my boyfriend thinks my freinds are silly people but they are not (link)
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not every one likes every one. Maybe you should talk to him and tell him that if he cant respect your friends then maybe you shouldnt be together any more. [{(it would help if you put your age. tell every one else)}]
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Hi I am someones friend and Im using there computer and I really need to ask a question but theya re sleeping so I just decided to ask anyways....
Well I hate myself and I tried hanging myself like 3 times.. am I crazy?? (link)
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well first of all nothing is worth killing yourself for, and if this is about parent issues like abuse you should tell an adult that you trust or talk to the cops about it.
(and if this is about people making fun of you for somethingask your parents/gardians if you can transfer to a diffrent school, or state if its that bad. but good luck!!!
*^*_-_*my wishes*_-_*^*
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