Cspinoza1 answered Tuesday April 13 2004, 12:44 am: Well what does he mean by silly? Like they are funny as in hahah? or crazy? Naturally many of your relationship partners will say that about your friends, and whats the question you want answered? How to get him to stop?
In that case just ask him why they are funny, and if you don't want to do that just tell him flat out that annoys you and you was for him to stop.
Courtney answered Monday April 12 2004, 8:52 pm: You need to tell your boyfriend that your friends are special to you and as much as he is important to you - let'em know that they are too . Tell hime why they are important to you and ,discuss how you feel about some of his friends that you put up with[that is if you put up with his friends] . Reverse the situation on him . I'm
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TheHawaiianGod answered Monday April 12 2004, 6:44 pm: Hi
Well if you don't love him that much then just get rid of him but if you do love him then just try to make him understand that they are your friends, and that you like them for who they are and how they act so if he gets red or mad just soften your voise and tell him you love him, and he should say that he understands or OK! [ TheHawaiianGod's advice column | Ask TheHawaiianGod A Question ]
Winona1992 answered Monday April 12 2004, 1:52 pm: You have probably been friends with your friends for longer than your boyfriend. Tell him how you feel about your "Silly friends", and if he doesnt stop, use your head to decide who to put first, him or your friends. [ Winona1992's advice column | Ask Winona1992 A Question ]
dionne answered Monday April 12 2004, 11:50 am: Dear boyfriends,
advice_chick65 answered Monday April 12 2004, 10:43 am: not every one likes every one. Maybe you should talk to him and tell him that if he cant respect your friends then maybe you shouldnt be together any more. [{(it would help if you put your age. tell every one else)}] [ advice_chick65's advice column | Ask advice_chick65 A Question ]
MFS answered Monday April 12 2004, 10:31 am: Who cares?
Is him thinking they are silly a bad thing? Hell, most of my friends are absolutely rediculous. But then again, so am I, so what's the big deal? If he's saying this to imply your friends are bad, then perhaps you'd best think why he's saying this to you... is he tring you get you to alienate your friends as a way to manipulate you? Is he a control freak? Does he just really not like your friends? If you can answer yes to any of those, then you'd best be asking yourself why you call this guy your boyfriend. [ MFS's advice column | Ask MFS A Question ]
GC_rox_my_sox answered Monday April 12 2004, 8:37 am: In my opinion, friends always come before boys. If your boyfriend can at least tolerate you friends, then just let it be. Or maybe you, your boyfriend, and your friends could go see a movie together. Tell your friends to act as mature as possible. But if your boyfriend says that it's him or your friends, then break up with him. He's not worth it if he does that. [ GC_rox_my_sox's advice column | Ask GC_rox_my_sox A Question ]
friend2all answered Monday April 12 2004, 6:53 am: if u are dating this guy it is ok to have ur own group of friends u could go out and make new friends together. We cart all get on together as long as u have ur friends thats the most important u will hve lots of bfs so dont upset ur friends with what ur bf thinks. Good luck and lots of love [ friend2all's advice column | Ask friend2all A Question ]
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