hey my names amy im 18 and experanced many things in my life though being excepted within friends, all kinds of emotions, sex, realtionships, bullying. never be affaird to ask for advice day or night
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Location: leeds, west yorkshire
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Age: 16
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heyy ok when i shave u no down there i get these little red bumps and i start to bleed from the bumps what should i do...i tried shaving the same way as the hair grows but that doesnt work and im NOT waxingg (link)
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hair removal cream cheap to buy and wont cause irration to the skin u can buy it from supermarkets or body shops
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ok so ive had sex quit a few times and with different people but ive never orgasmed!! ive been with my boyfriend a few months now and hes getting really upset that he cant make me orgasm! i dont know what to do. i would fake it but we promised each other we'd always be honast about everything and he can tell when im lying! so is there any way i can help myself to orgasm? is there anything i can do??
please help!!
any advice is wanted!!
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ok have you ever cum dueing masterbation urself???? Often many ppl cart orgasm and they say it will happen witht the right person however if you was to experment with foreplay such as masterbation instead of putting to much pressure on trying to orgasm will realese the preasure and allow you to enjoy sex and possibly orgasm this many take a couple of times to pracise
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my mom all of a sudden wants to get in my buisiness...she wants to know every detail of my life....i dont think it is her buisiness but she is just so nosey...she always looks through my stuff...i dont know what to do...along with this ..my dad is getting married to his old therapist who was "helping" him get back together w/ my mom...i dont like it...she acts like shes our mother...shes not....and my dad...that bitch...took his girlfriend to go see 2 concerts the night he was supposed to take me to see just one... i hate him...what should i do iam under to much stress for a 13 year old...ps along with that i have homework until almost 10:00 AT NIGHT ...PLEASE HELP ME!
ps ..my dad always rubs my back and neck in a father daughter way but it is very uncomfortable...i need info on what to do there too! Thanks!! i am a teen girl in need!!!
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i know all about stress and added responisblity. I think you mums worried she lost your dad to another woman and your growing you and now she has loads of free time on her hands. Maybe if you talk to your mum about this or look to spend a bit of quiluity time together go shoppin of play board games or help with your homework .
About your dad im sure he didnt mean to let u down when you start a new realtionship you offern go out on dates and eat out and then slowly it starts to slow down and becomes like a normal realtionship talk to your dad about what happened and tell him nicely that you feel a bit to old to be patted on the back it may take a while because you may not relise it but to them your growing up fast
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This might be stupid, because it happened to long ago but I want peoples opinions about it. I'm 15 female, & my sisters 22 female.
My mom has been on asthma ever since she was a young girl, and one night in June 2005 I wake up to her coughing an over amountage & weezing [deep breathing] I was super worried because I didn't know what to do, so I woke my sister up & had her come in my mom's room, my mom started throwing up because she was coughing so much, & she couldn't breath, so we decided we were going to take her to the hospital, because that's the only choice we really had. At this time my dad was living away, but my parents don't hate each other or anything, it's just he moved & they we moved a couple months later. But anyways, when we decided we would take my mom to the hospital my sister goes into her room, changes from her pajamas to regular clothes & then says shes ready!!
I didn't even care what I looked like, I didn't want to waste anytime because I knew that my mom had a hard time breathing, and it must be horrible to have that problem. But, my sister changed and that's what made me really mad, because it just seems like she doesn't care what happened to my mom in that 3 minutes. Blah, well basically I was just wondering, don't you think that that's wrong? I know I shouldn't be worrying about it now, because my mom's perfectly fine now but I just can't stop thinking about it.
Automatic 5's just for reading. Thanks a bunch =P (link)
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ummm all i can say is every ohne reacts differently although your sister didnt leave your mum alone assuring you was there i understand how you feel and it may sometimes feel like a lot of responitity on your head worrying about things but you need to let them go if it happens again dont pantic take a glass of water and any medication she takes like inheaers and try and carm her down if required call for an amblance take care
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I need to to lose weight people keep telling me to diet and exercise but its not that easy even when i do do that i dont seem to lose any and when i do crunchs or situps i can never do them right HELP!!!! (link)
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do you think u need to lose weight? often ppl can be over opinated and with realising pull alot of pressure on yourself and lose conforance. My advice to you if you want to lose weight set a goal and join a slimming club / way ins in which you are joined by other members who can offer support, guildance on exercise and the safty points and well as miontor your process. If you are happy with the way you look and dont feel you need to lose wait stand you and filmy tell the people around you good luck
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ok i shaved "down" there and i was wondering if you let it grow back does it come back like thick once its done growing again and is it like thin like when u first get it??
and do guys like it better shaved or not shaved??
easy 5 if your not rude!!
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every guy is different to what he likes although sometimes i wish they shaved :)and though experance i dont believe so however be careful what you use to shave there are some hair remove creams which work within 10 minutes and wash right off. Remover to try on a small area and leave over night to asure no reaction takes place
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last weekend i had sex with my boyfriend and now im worried im pregnet cause we didnt use a rubber but he did pull out (link)
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ok im not sure if you kown this but pulling out is not safe sex because semen can still be present on the penis. You are to late to take the moring after pill in which should be taken 3 days after however i think there is another pill available up to 7 days however i am not sure. you never to visit a family planning or some hospitals offer sexual health pracises of confide in your parents or teacher. I wish i could put your mind at rest but you need to talk this though with an adult and i wish you the best of luck many of us go though this and we all need to keep safe and protected from pregancy and dieses
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please answer i rate very high.... (sorry if its long) well i have a friend lets call him bob.. well me and bob have been friends for the longest time.. and hes very touchy and always smiling when hes near me.. and like once i was at this fireworks thing and he was there and he was like talking to me and like he kept hugging me and when he saw me he screamed my name and ran over to me.. and then i was saying how no one liked me and he said yea they do and i was arguing with him and i told him he cant argue with me and he said he could.. and like when i saw him he kept saying its not true and stuff like that... and one time when there was alot of snow we were like tackling each other in the snow and like rolling around in it.. and my friend was there too and shes friends with him too and he wasnt tackeling her.. and he always walks home with me.. and once we got into a fight and he like flipped out asking all my friends why i was mad at him.. and when ever i talk about things like saying wouldnt it be cool if my head exploded and he says no.. and keeps arguing with me.. and once i was like u'd be sad if i died.. and he sed i know i would..... and he told me to switch into his class as well.. does he like me as more than a frend? (hes my best guy frend) * (link)
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yeah im sure he likes you although i thinks its best if you ask him you seem to be pretty open about the topic of conversations you have then if he says yes you both have to see how this work affect your friendship and if you feel the same
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i have a friend . he isnt like my tightest friend, but anyways, we hooked up a few times and i admit it was fun. but, he isnt the commitment type of guy. i told myself thats it no more with this guy, but it seems in the moment when he makes a move, i return it back and we end up hooking up. i think its because i still like him, but i want to resist hooking up with him next time because its always the same thing. good fun, but its like he uses me and thats not a good feeling. anny tips on how i can really put my foot down and end this? (link)
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i no how you feel and the emontion you are feeling this is a great time to relie on your friends next time when hes around and hes making a move ask him out (do you wanna see a movie) explain that you only want friendship and if that doesnt work say sorry i have plans to meet a friend and look to spead more time active and round friends who like you and not out to gain or use you.
If you dont do it now guys will continue to use you though your adult life and you will never learn to apprate real love and affection i hoped i helped.
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ok theres this guy and i like him and he was talkin to me n hes gonna ask me out tomarrow but hes not a virgin n ive never even kissed anyone but i dont want him to no that ..can u give me some advice on how to make out and "stuff" if u no what i mean (link)
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ok the only issue i have here is just because he isnt a virgin doesnt mean you have to rush into things. If he asks you out make sure its a date go out n chill and always assure your safe.
Growing up and experimenting such as making out is natural.
Kissing - take it slow kiss on the mouth and go from there follow his lead every one kisses differently however if you dont feel conforably stop !!!
Making out can also be about hugging, holding hands and being together gd look
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I'm a Junior (16) and male. Never had a girlfriend; i'm the outspoken-nerd stereotype. Somehow everybody thinks I have a social life, don't know where they got that idea.
Anyway, there's this girl (we'll call her Kylie). She's heavily into music theatre (as am I), and we're both pretty good, so that's plenty of starting ground. To say I have feelings for her would be an understatement. At this point, I get lost. I don't know where to go from here because I've never had a girlfriend before and don't really know exactly what the procedure is (if there even is one). I've (perhaps unwisely) tried to keep my distance while remaining friendly as I've had too many experience getting on the "friends" list for life. In addition, I am really (really) scared of hurting her. She means the world to me, and I don't use that phrase lightly. A positive comment can literally make my day.
Anyway, I guess I need to know what to do from here. Some specific examples would be nice... what has worked for you. Keep in mind that I'm not at all the agressive type. It would be best for any action on my part to be able to be interpereted several different ways, that way if I determine no interest I can feign some other excuse. Basically, anything that reveals my feelings without really revealing my feelings (as stupid as that sounds). Should I just become her friend and hope I don't get shoved in the friends abiss? I also want to go slowly. Very, very slowly, because I am about scared half to death here. Help me out!
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your outspoken personitity is the key and leeds your peeps to believe your out going and different in which is the attraction to yourself. However havent ever meeting this girl i can not tell you how she feels it could be one of two ways shes shy and keeps herself to herself or out going and doesnt care what people thinks the next step for u is to approch this girl and talk to her make conversation like i hear your in to music theater and look to becoming friends. To be successful in a realtionship such as dating its starts from friendship good luck
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Okay, here's the deal. I'm satisfied with my appearance. I'm down to the weight that I want to be. I've been told that I'm pretty before by my friends. ... But guys never approach me or anything. I've been told that I'm shy as well, and I try to take that into consideration, but I'm not sure what's wrong with me. I'm in eighth grade and I've never had a boyfriend. Please help. I give fives. (link)
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Theres nothing wrong i didnt have a bf till i was 16.My advice would be although ur growing up and a BF WOULD SEEM TO BE THE NEXT STAGE look on developing yourself work on your conforance (dont become big headed) be active taking part in sport of any activitys and look to make friends with a guys and girls. Dont rush into things although your growing up teenage bf doesnt equal a real grown up relationship which takes time to develop and problem solving and dealing with bills, work commitments.
When you do get your first bf it would be special and worth while. :)
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I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.
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i believe you shouldnt rush into having sex its not about you knowing what to do or where to touch its about the emotional side after words which people dont tend to talk about. if you was to wait till you was married or in a serious relationship it would be more special because you have formed the bond of trust, love and the emotional side. In sted of givin in to pressure having a 1 night stand and knowing the guy doesn;t care for you and your left being hurt. all strong relationships take place from friendships not based around sex make your own decisions when the moments right sex will become natural i hope i helped
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Ok the subject sounds a little harsh for what I am about to say. My brother watches porn. I mean alot of porn. Its not really occasional, it's routinely. Sometimes I feel bad because, I get a little curious and I watch a video, but I mean now sometimes I feel sick. I regret ever watching the video because all I can think of is its contents. Thats not all I have seen, I have seen pictures and things on TV. I wish I had never seen any of it, because now my mind wanders to places I don't want it to wander. Does anybody else have this problem? Is there anyway for me to restore my "innocence"? (link)
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being curious is natural as you enter your teenage years as long as it isn't exploting children of a young age (stars of the porn) the innocence you talk about is that your are curious about how u can ecplore sex yet i dont believe you are ready for sex.
the message is its natural and everyone does it. It becomes more serious if you are being fored to watch or take part in sexual attivity without your concent and if you are under the age of concent of sex . i hoped i helped a little
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My name is stephanie, and I bhave beeen dating my boyfriend for a month now.But here's the twist! My BF(Chris)asked me to hsve sex with him after a band dance. I told him no, b/c I'm not ready to sexualy active just yet! Unexpectingly he said ok I'll respect that b/c I love. I figured that excuse would by me time, and it did! But now he wants more reasons as to why I can't have sex with him. But see what gets me is is that he's telling me he wants to have sex, but when I say no he's ok with what I decide, but he asks repeating , but never makes any kind of action leading to sex. I'm confused! WHY IS HE GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS?
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you have to clearly and firmly tell him NO and explain that your not ready if he continuely does this after u told him take a look at ur realtionship and if it is a friendship aND YOU DO HAVE THINGS IN COMMON AND SHARE THEM respect yourself and dont do anything to try and keep him sexual your worth more then that
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and he wants to have sex and I do too but there is just one problem I have a disease and I don’t know if I should tell him or not because I don’t want him too to think of me different but we are going to use protection and everything just I don’t want to tell him! And I am sooooo scared! I don’t know about what maybe about him knowing my deepest darkest secret, I don’t know! Please help me! (link)
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Hey , Though personal experances of my own of beeing emontional attacted to guys you have to protect your feelings if this guy is your bf then be honest about your diseas however if this diesea is realtity to a STD you have no choice to tell him. Sex is an expertion of showing respect and if you cart be honest with ur partern then you arnt ready for sex.Sex will change everything and you may experance an emontion over balance. Take care and assure your having sex for the right reasons and that ur realtionship is strong sex is not going to save your relationship and make him stay around.
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okay.. me and this guy have been talking for a while.. well.. last night he called me and was like.. " i like you and i wish you could have come to homecoming with me" and then he was like.. " we should hang out next weekend.. and go to tha mall or something.." and i was like.. omg.. i was so happy.. and then today i come up to mai friend kate and my friend kelsy.. and she was standing with them and all i heard was .. "were going out" and this other girl *hoo looks like a man* said it.. and i was like.. " who?" and she was like.. "marc" (the guy).. and i havnt seen him since.. but she was talking about the same one.. so.. yeah.. what should i do? ILL RATE! (link)
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So u like him what u gna do??? I cart tell how ur feeling but im sure u was hurt when this took place. Try get him by himself or text him and ask him if u can meet and have a laugh and spend timetogwther this may not b possible with his new girlfriend around but no matter which way u go about it if u wnt answers ask him !!!!!
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Im in 6th grade and i have already started my period and i am afraid that i might be pregnant because me and my boyfriend who is a sophmore in high school did it without protection. I come from a family of high class and i dont know what to do!! Pleez help!!
-6th grader* (link)
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ur need to go to ur family planning or go buy a pregance test u may want to tell ur parnets and get surport
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ok i have a really big problem with depression, and i was really depressed tonight i spent the enitre night crying ym eyes out, while my boyfriend went to a social ( a wedding anniversary for his friends parents that is basically a really big party). Is it wrong of me to be mad at him for going when i have been puking up blood all night and crying and wanting to kill my self?? i just needed a friend and he would rather go to a big party then comfort me. should i get rid of him or am i totally wrong and i shouldnt be mad that he went out, when i had a terrible time at home. (link)
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Ur bf has a lot to contend with. it had to hard to cope with depresstion but its also hard 4 him he maybe feel he has to tip toe around u not to upset u. The way i see him and the party he just wanted some space it may feel wronmg that he went out but what u want and what he wants are to different things. U want him to urself to comfort u and feel secure. He wants to see hims friuends and not feel traped. I think u need to give him some space and urself some too but still have that cuddle on the sofa and try work though it i no u must feel inseure and what to be wanted and loved he shows u love in others ways
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I'm 13 and I want a dog. I have never had one in my entire life. I need a friend because no onle likes me, what should I do? PS I know who you are! (link)
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a dog is a big responiablity. a dog is very conforting but its not just for a week dogs live up to 13- 15 years. There need a lot of care need walkin 3 times a day feeding bathing teeth brushin. Have u ever thought of vouleering in an animal shelter. You get to worek with many animals take responablitity for lookin after them . U have a lot to think about talk this thought with ur parnents and see how there feel
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