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Why can't i orgasm?
ok so ive had sex quit a few times and with different people but ive never orgasmed!! ive been with my boyfriend a few months now and hes getting really upset that he cant make me orgasm! i dont know what to do. i would fake it but we promised each other we'd always be honast about everything and he can tell when im lying! so is there any way i can help myself to orgasm? is there anything i can do??
please help!!
any advice is wanted!!
i'll rate high!!
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ok have you ever cum dueing masterbation urself???? Often many ppl cart orgasm and they say it will happen witht the right person however if you was to experment with foreplay such as masterbation instead of putting to much pressure on trying to orgasm will realese the preasure and allow you to enjoy sex and possibly orgasm this many take a couple of times to pracise
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ok im a virgin and all buti can tell you this :
your not abnormal..its nothing like that at all. i watch talksexwithsue..(sex expert) and she says its very normal for females not to orgasm during sex. if you would like an orgasm and if he really wants to give you one, have him perform oral sex on you..or have him fnger you.
www.talksexwithsue.com
i hope i helped
-meliss (the educated virgin) haha
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Lots and lots of women find it hard to have orgasms so you are perfectly normal.
If you can masturbate yourself to orgasm then I'd suggest you ask your boyfriend to try touching you in a similar manner or that you touch yourself while you're with him.
If you've never had an orgasm at all then I'd suggest that you take some time to explore what feels good down there and see what happens. When you know what you like, tell or show your boyfriend.
Some women don't ever have orgasms from penetrative sex - if you are one then you might want to consider getting a vibrator or using your fingers to stimulate your clitoris while your boyfriend is making love to you.
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If you have never had an orgasm, or want to experience stronger orgasms, here are a few suggestions to get you started:
1. let him explore your genitals get to know them better in different ways
2.Get turned on! Explore your erotic mind by reading sexy fiction, watching explicit movies or writing a fantasy of your own.
3.Experiment with different strokes or rhythms.
4.Relax. Overall relaxation helps in the beginning--you are looking to build up sexual tension, so set aside the tensions of daily life. Banish thoughts about the dishes in the sink or how your mutual funds tanked last year. Take a warm bath, or do whatever you need to do to feel completely at ease. This will help you be present in your body and attentive to its responses.
5.Make noise. Don't be afraid to move, rock, grunt, scream, and cry during sex. You are seeking total release, so get used to reactions you might have when you lose control. Be silly! Be loud! Let yourself go.
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