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i have a friend . he isnt like my tightest friend, but anyways, we hooked up a few times and i admit it was fun. but, he isnt the commitment type of guy. i told myself thats it no more with this guy, but it seems in the moment when he makes a move, i return it back and we end up hooking up. i think its because i still like him, but i want to resist hooking up with him next time because its always the same thing. good fun, but its like he uses me and thats not a good feeling. anny tips on how i can really put my foot down and end this?
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If i were you, i'd try hanging around some other guys. Dont totally blow this guy off but get to know some other people. If it helps, talk to him about the way you feel and that you need more of a relationship. He should understand and either try to be that for you, or let you look for someone else. Even if it's tempting, just tell yourself that there are better guys out there for ya. Don't give up and keep looking!!!
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Tell him next time yall hang out.. ♥ Dez
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tell him what your thinkin...if your having fun with him then go ahead and do it, BUT if you are tired of being used then i wouldn't do it. either way you probably need to tell him how your feeling. i hope i could help!!! good luck girl. i am going through the same thing so if you want to talk..my aim is kelsbo05(i have yahoo messanger)
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i no how you feel and the emontion you are feeling this is a great time to relie on your friends next time when hes around and hes making a move ask him out (do you wanna see a movie) explain that you only want friendship and if that doesnt work say sorry i have plans to meet a friend and look to spead more time active and round friends who like you and not out to gain or use you.
If you dont do it now guys will continue to use you though your adult life and you will never learn to apprate real love and affection i hoped i helped.
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