HI..my name is Kelsey. I live in a hick town in Arkansas!!! I work at a near by hospital as a nurse assistant, that is REALLY fun! I also work at a hair/ makeup salon, i REALLY love that too!! I like giving advice too people and i like getting advice. Being a teen isn't easy so i need all the advice i can get!!
Love Always,
Kelsbo
Gender: Female
Location: Arkansas!!!
Age: 14
Yahoo: kelsbo05
Member Since: August 10, 2005
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It all started at a friends party. We didn't really have anything to do so we decided to dance. We went on top of a pool table and started dancing, a friend was video taping us on her camera just for fun. The next day the person who video taped us put it in her profile, which another friend that was they're put it in her xanga. wow, so now it's to where ANYONE can see it. Well a parent was looking though it and saw this video, oh and let me tell you we were GRINDING, big deal? its out of school. Well this stupid parent went and wrote a letter to the school AND to the super intendent, and PUTS this persons xanga so THEY can see this video too. oh my god so now the school knows about it and all the teachers are looking though the whole schools xangas and takes people out of class to talk to them about it. This frustrates me because this is OUT of school stuff. So then today the NEWS CAME TO OUR SCHOOL TO INTERVIEW PEOPLE ABOUT THIS XANGA THING. i dont know what to do. I'm like screwed major, i just NEED advice. ALL our parents know about this video and watched it and pretty much all of us are grounded. and it sucks but I can understand why they're mad. But im just confused. please someone who has been in a situation like this please tell me what happened and if it ever blew over. I just need advice. so please...thanks for your advice before hand.
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Do they know that it is you in the video? If they dont know just deny, deny, deny!!! I dont know what to tell ya..all i know is denying it will help you a lot IF they didnt know that was you...sorry babe..good luck
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Why are people so obsessed with being trendy? Why does everyone feel the need to wear the latest clothes, or listen to the latest music(Rap usually). What happened to people being individuals, and being happy with who they are? This isnt really a good question, but it gets on my nerves how people act sometimes. (link)
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people usually do that to fit in. i dont cause i LOVE bein different. i listen to country..i wear what i want. just keep bein yourself....it will pay off in the end!!!
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i have a friend . he isnt like my tightest friend, but anyways, we hooked up a few times and i admit it was fun. but, he isnt the commitment type of guy. i told myself thats it no more with this guy, but it seems in the moment when he makes a move, i return it back and we end up hooking up. i think its because i still like him, but i want to resist hooking up with him next time because its always the same thing. good fun, but its like he uses me and thats not a good feeling. anny tips on how i can really put my foot down and end this? (link)
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tell him what your thinkin...if your having fun with him then go ahead and do it, BUT if you are tired of being used then i wouldn't do it. either way you probably need to tell him how your feeling. i hope i could help!!! good luck girl. i am going through the same thing so if you want to talk..my aim is kelsbo05(i have yahoo messanger)
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well there is this guy that i love...and he told me he loved me the other day and i didnt know what to say back cuz i wasent sure about my feelings but now i am sure that i love him...should i tell him??? (link)
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You should say it back if you love him. dont be pressured to say it back if you dont though. hope i helped.. good luck girl!!
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im almost 14 years old and i weigh 130ish n im almost 5'6, i have stretch marks all over my thighs , and on my ass, i get looked at weird all the time, am i over weight?is there something wrong with me, last year i got called fat like 500 times plzz help me i rate high, 13-fm
&heartsl; Michaele ♥ (link)
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YOUR NOT FAT girlfriend!!! I got them too and im 14!!!
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hey my friend is 15 years old and she is having a baby what should i do to help and what should she do (link)
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since she is so young she might need help with money(i am just assuming, sorry if im wrong) You could just talk to her and be there when the baby comes. She might want you to babysit a lot too!!!! hope i helped and tell her congradulations
Love always
Kelsey
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I have this gown (for my bat mitzvah) and it is salmon pink and very see through. I can't wear regualr underwear because it shows through. I could wear no underwear because its pretty long. I could wear a thong, but of course i have to buy one. Which option should I go for? (link)
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you could get those panties that are like boy shorts. they might ride up your ass...haha..but i think it is better than regular panties and a thong!!! hope i helped
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Ok I know this question sounds dum, but what can I do to help me get better faster. i have a cold (runny nose, stopped up nose, and I can rwally breathe! ) What can I do.?
Sign, Sick Ass (link)
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my grandma tells me to boil water on the stove and when it starts steaming try to breath that steam through your nose. i dont know if it will work but never hurts to try!! hope ya feel better!
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My hair never scrunches... it's completely straight but sometimes if I wear my hair up and wet before bed it'll curl before morning a little bit. Will the product 'Curl Up' work for my hair? Has anyone here ever used it? I saw it in Walmart... thanks! EASY FIVES FOR A YES OR NO ANSWER! (link)
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my hair is a little wavy and i used curl up before...it worked on mine..i say yeah it will work!! good luck girl!!
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is it okay for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy? (link)
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I am dating a guy that is 17 right now and i am also 14. i am noticing that all he wants is to touch me and kiss me and stuff like that. but i am not about to have sex with him!! this will be a true test if he is in it for sex or a relationship!! just be really careful(i know i sound like a mom) but I hoped i helped!
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ok sorry if this is long..
my parents have been getting on my last nerves lattely. i am the oldest in my family and so i got to put up witht hemm ebing soo over protect.. it iasnt because they care to much it is that they dont want me to have a life.. i can almost never leave the house.. if i want to go somewhere with a friend tot he mall my mom has to talk to there parents and make sure they are coming with us.. my best friend from new jersay came to vist and i havent seen her for 2 years and we qwanted to go and hang out at her place and just talk but no my mom wont let me.. my mom is always yellina t me when i dont do anything to her. she tells me to do something i do it with no questions asked.. i have a boyfriend who i love sooo much and i have been going out with him for almost a month now and i have only seen him ONCE. i effin hate this i want to run away from all of this my parents dont let em do anything and when i talk on the phone or i am on the computer all they do is complain. they want me sittin downstairs with them and i dont want to listen to the crap they have to say.. then pn top of all of that my mom says,"your the one whoi is going to kill me" because she isnt supposed to yell and she always yllin at me when i dont do anything to her.. i cant wait to turn 18 and leave and have my own life.. that is 4 more years from now (i am 14) everytime i try talking to my parents they NEVER listen to what i have to say.. they think they r living 20 years ago where u get engaged and then married and your parents choice who you marry.. i dont know what to do.. last night i was mindin my owm bussiness in my room laying down writing poem my dad walks in yells at me terlls me to go to sleep and turns of my light. school doesnt start until 2 weeks and he already yellin at me.. can someone please help me out?? i want to run away for a couple days to my best friends house and teach my parents that if they dont want to listen to what i have to say then i wont listen to what they have to say..
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i am plannin to let me boyfriend come over and meet my parents btu they are raciest and my boyfriend is black (carmel color) and i dont know what there reaction will be even though my boyfriend will make a good impression on them.. (link)
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wow...umm..i can relate!!! (sorry if the stories long) i had to live with my grandparents for a while and i met their neighbors(their son is 15..im 14) i went out with him for 3 months..i was head over heals in love with him. my grandparents didnt like him so they wouldnt let me hang out with him hardly ever. you know how hard that was to live by him without seeing him? REALLY HARD!!! i wanted to run away with him so badly but i knew i couldnt. we ended up not staying together but i learned a lot about living with strict "parents" running away doesnt solve anything. i know you want to but just think you ll be a better person in the end by dealing with your parents. when you get older it will make you a stronger person when life gives you shit that you have to deal with. It is kinda hard to explain but tell me if you get it by giving me a feedback!! please!!
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I'm on the cusp of girls sizes and junior sizes. The thing is, I don't like any of the girls styles anymore. I love the stuff at american eagle but I just can't fit into it. I can't even wear abercrombie jeans becaus I have a large butt and a small waist so the waist is always big and the butt fits. What do I do?? I found a pair of really nice tractor pants at Bloomingdales, but thats just ONE pair!!! (link)
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i have the same problem. I got a big booty and a small waist!! i love express jeans...they re they only jeans that have room for my ass and small to fit my waist. good luck girl!!
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i've got that eyeshadow from hot topic. i put it on but my skin color shows up in the middle and applying more makes it very hard to see. (bright green) is there anything i could do to make it bright and stay? All it does is fall over my eyelashes. I heard putting concealer works... does it? (link)
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at some makeup stores they sale some stuff that makes your eyeshdow stay on longer!! i work at a store called mearl norman and they sale it. As far as making it brighter i dont know...sorry...maybe you can by some cream eyeshadow in the same color. cream eyeshadow usually shows up better!!
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well i got into a fight with a friend of mine, something she did really hurt me, but it isnt something so horrible that i want to end the friendship over it, basically this would all be solved with an appology but im not sure how to go about this. its been two days and i havent talked to her since then, so should i need help on what to do, should i wait until she IMs/calls me and appoligizes or should i do something else? 18/m if that matters at all (link)
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I went through this with a friend of mine. she hurt me really bad, but i still wanted to be friends. I went over to her house and told her how i felt but i NEVER said i was sorry. It's not your fault so dont appoligize. she will advintually see that your a good friend and that she shouldnt have done that.
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