Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering.
It depends on the girl. I'm a girl and I actually play video games a lot...I love them. And, I also like computers. SO, it just depends on who the girl is and what they are into.
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HI uummm see i just broke up with my boyfriend because he was beating me, u know banging my head n his car hood, and stuff , so I broke up with him and well i still love him for some reason but did i do the right thing?
plz help!
Hey hunny!
You definetely did the right thing. No one deserves to be beaten. I know, even though he may have hurt you, you may still love him, but you deserve much better!!!! You were strong and smart about breaking up with him. Stay strong and if you ever feel that you may go back to him...talk to someone first, and remember...YOU DO DESERVE BETTER!!! good luck hunny! If you ever need ANYTHING, im here! :)
*FallenAngel*
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Ever since I was LiL I would masterbate. Im not addicted to it I just do It once in a while but I remember doing it when I was 5!!(of course I didnt know what I was doing at 5 but all I knew was that it felt good and that I was going to do it) I was caught a lot when I was little and I remember one time my mom asked me if it felt good and she was really dissapointed in me. And I hated myself for it because every 5 year old wants their parents to be proud of them. But now I know what I'm doing and I havent been caught in like 5 years(im 14) Is there something wrong with me? Is it not normal to start sooo early?
I work at a preschool/daycare and it is common for little girls to do that. It soothes them and helps them fall asleep. There are actually little girls who start earlier as toddlers. I know it may seem a little different but it is not. I was shocked when i first started working there but now i know its just a normal thing that some little girls do as "a comfort".
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Ok, I gained a lot of weight all at once. Now I have stretch marks on my stomach. If I lose weight will they go away? Will they go away when I'm older? They are really bad but only on one spot on my tummy. Is there anything to help them? This really makes me unhappy. I saw them and cried for a really long time and it makes me unhappy with myself. Please help!
Hey hun! One thing that will really help is scar medicine called Mederma. You can get it at CVS. I had my appendix out over a year ago and i got mederma and now the scar is basically gone. Good luck hun! And cheer up!!! :)
*FallenAngel*
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what do u do for a burn on ur skin?
u should put solacane on it or lanacane with aloe. It soothes the pain and helps it heal.
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if you make-out with someone you like, but you arent dating them, does that make you a slut??
No, it doesn't hunny.
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what are the positions on a volleyball court?
there are 6 players at once on the court. But, it depends on how the team wants to play and their positions. When I played in high school on the Varsity team we had one two middle hitters, two setters, and two outside hitters.
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hey i asked the question about being 13 and pregnant well i just found out im having twins!!! my question is wht do they do in a c-section people r tellin me in to tiny and might have to get a c-section, nd i just wanna no like is it more or less painful, and wht do they do! ill rate u, i need advice!! thnx
I think they give you a spinal thing, which makes you completely numb in that area. You will feel a little tugging and stuff but it will not hurt. I think it is less painful, you will have a scar afterwards, but if you use mederma after it heals a little, it will clear up a lot. Also, when you are having a c-section they have a curtain thing in front of you, so you will not see yourself being cut unless you look up at the ceiling, where they usually have a mirror. I saw this on the Baby story so I don't know through personal experience but I think it will be less painful. Good luck hunny! I hope everything goes well for you :)
*FallenAngel*
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dont think i'm weird but all my life i've looked at girls and never thought it was weird but now i might think that i acually like girls as well as guys but i'm not sure what to do?(i'm a girl)
i dont wanna be sean as weird for liking the same sex but i think i acually do its weird....so should i react on these feelings or just supress them and not do anything for fear of rejection?
hey hunny,
it is not weird at all. i know a few people who are bi, and you know, it doesnt make you any different than any other person, it's just your sexual prefrence. If you are not sure wether or not you like girls in that way, you should experiment and figure out how you feel. It's not weird, it's very normal, good luck hunny! Hope you figure it all out :)
*FallenAngel*
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Hi. I noticed that you said you've been though depression before, and are a cutter, and I was wondering if you could give me advice ... anyways ... so i have a shitty family life ... my dad had an affair, neither of my parents likes to be around my brother or me, and my mom and me constantly fight. Well, today, I got in the car to go to my boyfriends house, and my parents started fighting ... I got of the car and I was just like, screw this, I'm not dealing with this ... and my dad got out of the car too and left in his own car ... blah blah blah ... anyways, I went inside the house and my mom followed me and blamed the whole fight on me. She said that the whole family (grandparents and whatever) saw me as a "fuck up" and things like that. And I just sat there and cried. I didn't say one word back to her, and usually I would scream right back at her and fight till the end ... but i just gave up ... I also suffer from depression, and extreme mood swings ... and they know this. I've been suffering from depression for 2 years now, and it started with the cutting, and I stopped that, then pills, then I got better .... that is when I met my boyfriend, Devin ... and I've been so happy. But then today happened and I cut myself again. He later on called and asked where I was and I told him what happened. He knew I was suicidal before and knew I was thinking of it (I admitted it to him) and he made me promise him I wouldn't do anything stupid ... I didn't tell him that I cut myself (I did it before the promise) Well, earlier this evening I called him up, crying, and told him that I did something stupid ... and I told him I'd rather tell him in person then on the phone ... so tomorrow night I'm going to his house ... how should I put it. He knows about everything else except the cutting ... sorry this is so long. ttyl.
Hey hun,
I know how scary it is to have to tell someone you love about what happened. It's scary to not know how they may react to what you have done to yourself. First of all, make sure he's sitting and make sure you have his full attention. Before tomorrow, you may also want to write down everything you are feeling and what exactly you want to tell him.
Anyways...first let him know how much you care about him and thats why you are going to tell him about what happened. Then let him know that this all happened before you talked to him and promised you wouldnt do anything stupid and that you wanted to tell him what had happened before, but you didn't know how to put it and didn;t think it was a good time. Then gradually tell him how you've been depressed for two years now, that you are scared and do not know how to deal with all the pain you've been going through. Tell him how horrible you feel in your home all the time, how you feel as though you can never escape from the fighting and feel trapped. Then let him know you cut yourself yesterday, that you were so upset and depressed that you didnt even really think and thats how you dealt with the pain. Let him know that you don't want to worry him, that you don't want to lose him or anything, you just wanted to let him know what had happened, you don't want to keep anything from him.
I know it'll be hard...but if you cannot say it...write him a note and let him read it when you go over tomorrow. And from what described...it sounds as though you may have bipolar or severe depression...i was and still am really depressed and had and still do have major mood swings..and it turns out im bipolar. I know how scary it is to not know whats going on and why nothing seems to get better no matter how hard you try...but you may want to go see someone, talk to someone who can help you. I know, i didnt want to go to someone either, but it can really help. Good luck hun! Hope I helped :) Let me know how its goes and everything...and if you EVER need to talk to anyone...you can email me at InDreams87@hotmail.com or IM me DevilsHalo03.
Hope everything goes well sweetie!
*FallenAngel*
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im a cutter. i have scars all up and down my arm. only 2 people know about it. but every time i see my boyfriend i have to cover it up, and make sum sort of excuse. i HATE lying to him! i feel like i should tell him, but i dont want him to think im crazy and dump me! but like.. i cant stop cutting. its always been my way of calming myself down...
hun...I know where you are coming from. Cutting is scary and it can be very embarrassing at times. Some people just don't understand where other people just want to help and be there for you. I think you should let your boyfriend know what's going on. Don't just blab it out...but kind of ease into the issue. Tell him that you have been depressed and hte only way you have ever been able to deal with anxiety and depression is by cutting. Let him know that you didn't tell him earlier because you didn't want to scare him. If he "runs away" or breaks up with you then he is not worth your time. He's not good enough...if he's your boyfriend and a good guy...he should stay around and try to help you out. I know it's scary telling someone about cutting...but my boyfriend knows about me and it has helped are relationship become stronger (as weird as that seems) since now we both feel we can be completely honest with each other. Hun, if you ever need me, if you ever need any advice about anything else...you can ask me. I know from more of a personal level how this all feels...just know that people are out there that do understand...good luck hun!
*FallenAngel*
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is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out?
of course hun! Good luck!!! :)
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what should you do when you are feeling pressured into sex when your not readi?
Let the person know that you are not ready. If they do not understand that...then you should not be with them. Don't do anything you don't want to do.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out 4 about 10 months. Just a lil while ago he told me how the first few months of our relationship he was in2 porn, but then (him being his sweet self) said that the reason why he stopped was me bcuz he didn't wanna hurt me. Of course I 4gave him and everything, and I no I should b happy that he stopped cuzza me, but I still feel kinda hurt. I also feel... I don't really know... but I have a very small chest and just about no butt, and I feel kinda like he would want more than just me. He always says he loves me and I'm so beautiful and everything tho, so I'm happy about that. I think I'm just bn paranoid or w/e about this... but should I still feel a lil hurt that he was in2 porn instead of me? Also, should I worry about how he thinks of my (pretty flat) body?
Hunny...I know how it feels to be insecure about your body, but just know, if he wasnt into you, he wouldn't be with you. He obviously loves you and is attracted to you, especially if he gave up looking at porn for you. Most guys, especially teenage guys, look at porn, not because their girlfriends are not "good enough",but simply because they just want to. He obviously thinks your good enough anyways since he doesnt even look at it anymore, which means he has a beautiful girlfriend so there is no point. Don't worry...don't feel hurt, some guys just like porn...no big deal. And even though he was into porn doesnt mean he wasnt into you. He wouldnt still be with you if he wasnt...just be happy he's with you and tells you you are beautiful. If he didnt believe it, he wouldnt say it. Good luck hun. :)
*fallenangel*
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Ok- I usually am the one giving out advice... but I am stumped on my own problem. Well here is what happened:
I used to have a best friend named Justine. We hit it off great from the start. After the first month we'd known eachother, we spent the night at each other's houses almost every weekend. We had only known eachother for a year when the inevitable happened- but we'd shared so much together. I had told her all of my deep dark secrets, and she had told me some of her own.
Well- this summer, I had been at my cousin Ashley's house- and we had been chatting with boys on AIM. I told Justine about it when I saw her- and for some reason, she FLIPPED. She wouldn't talk to me, and she ignored all my e-mails to her.
This year, I went back to middle school, and Justine had changed completely over the summer. She had all these cheerleader friends, and she was acting like she was better than everyone else. She even sits in front of me in my English class.
This is where the problem comes in. I don't want to be Justine's friend anymore- she is such a brat- but I do want her to act civil towards me (in English she is always sighing, like she hated being around me- and she tells people, when I can hear- that she hates me). What can I do to make her stop acting so immature???
It seems to me that she got very jealous when you were hanging out with your cousin. She obviously did not want to tell you about that and instead, she acted immature and I think now she is trying to get you jealous by hanging out with "cool kids". I think you should confront her. Tell her that you don't understand what happened, that you don't want her to treat you like this, and you wish she would at least talk to you about what had happened. If she walks away and/or will not listen or respond, write her a note and ask her to please read it. Obviously something happened to her and she is keeping it in and dealing with it in an immature manor. Good luck hun! hope it goes well for you :)!
*FallenAngel*
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Hi,
I'm 11 going to be 12 very soon and havent had my period yet but have a feeling im going to soon, are there any signs that i will have it soon?
Some signs are you may start having cramps in your back or in your lower abdomen. Also, sometimes before you get it you could start breaking out and your breasts can ache a little. But, don't worry, usually the first time you get your period it starts out light. Just make sure that whenever you go anywhere, bring pads and tampons so that if you do get it, you are prepared no matter where you are.
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Hi I've been having mood swings lately and I am only 11 yrs old what would cause me to have moodswings?
I don't know if you have gotten your period yet or not...but that could be a cause. You may get your period soon and that causes mood swings in some girls (PMS). Hope I helped! Feel Better!!!
*fallenangel*
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I'm 14 years old, and have really bad mood swings. I get really mad over the slightest thing and my family are really getting annoyed with me. Sometimes I burst into tears but I don't know why, and it's really getting me down. Does anybody know why this happens, or can you suggest any way of getting around it because it's really annoying me and especially my family and friends. HELP!
Well...i would suggest talking to your doctor about this. I used to have those mood swings and it turns out I'm bipolar. Also, it could also be PMS. But, the best thing to do would go see the doctor...tell him or her exactly when it happens, how it feels, and all that kind of stuff. I'm sure he/she will be able to help you out. Good luck hun! If you ever need anything, I'm here!
*FallenAngel*
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ok i have a really big problem with depression, and i was really depressed tonight i spent the enitre night crying ym eyes out, while my boyfriend went to a social ( a wedding anniversary for his friends parents that is basically a really big party). Is it wrong of me to be mad at him for going when i have been puking up blood all night and crying and wanting to kill my self?? i just needed a friend and he would rather go to a big party then comfort me. should i get rid of him or am i totally wrong and i shouldnt be mad that he went out, when i had a terrible time at home.
I completely understand where you are coming from. I get depressed myself and it is hard when someone you care about so much goes out with out you when you are so depressed. But don't leave him. Sit him down and talk to him about what happened when you were home alone. Let him know how depressed you were and I'm sure he'll comfort you. I'm sure he didn't go out to purposely hurt you, I'm sure he just made a promise to his friend to go to the party. So don't take it personally. Just sit down adn talk with him, I'm sure it'll help smooth everything over. I hope everything goes well hun!!
*fallenangel*
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when do you become physically involved with someone
It's up to you and the person you are getting physically involved with. Don't do it unless you and your partner are ready.
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