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Gamers o_0


Question Posted Monday August 23 2004, 8:25 pm

Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering.

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ChuckNyby answered Friday September 3 2004, 5:06 pm:
I will re-phrase your questions. Hot girls don't like "gamers" and neither do girls who have what you call a LIFE or a prospect. If you snag a really desperate, dependent, needy and most likely dorky girl you might do okay. I would suggest you either grow out of your "gaming" phase before trying to date or embrace the fact that you will be masturbating for the foreseeable future.

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lostandconfused answered Thursday August 26 2004, 1:59 am:
who told you that?! video games rule...although i suck...pretty bad. i can still enjoy them cant i?!

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XtineMaximus answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 11:01 pm:
Girls LOVE gamers. Maybe it's the way they push those buttons, those shiny, erotic buttons. Or maybe it's the fucking sexy way gamers tend to spend hours upon sensuous hours on a game, sometimes even <i>all.night.long</i>...

Girls also like the way computer techs can tweak them wires.

And you just KNOW it takes alot of testosterone to beat those big scary video games. Only a man could.

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xplisit15 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 6:30 pm:
I see nothing wrong with playing video games for fun, but as a job..please spare me. Guys who are into computers, sure, why not. But if its all they ever do and dont have a life outside of computers..thats rediculous. Your bound to find someone whos into that stuff as much as you are!

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kutiekitty answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 5:04 pm:
i suppose but some girls like to play them themselves, it depends on what type of girl you are talking about!

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SleepingBeauty answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 2:01 pm:
I like guys who can tell me what games are the best and how to get my computer out of trouble. (I needed that like two months ago. The blue screen of death blew my hard drive. Lol) I think you just need to find a girl who appreciates video games and computer stuff as much as you do.

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chaos answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 8:33 am:
I think the best part of dating a gamer would be that you would probably know right where he is: in front of the tv. As long as you don't ignore your girlfriend, everything should be fine. You might find a girl that likes to play as well. As far as computer techs, sometimes those guy make a fairly good living and that makes living a little easier. I think its more of a problem if they don't like dealing with people or being social.

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russianspy1234 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 3:34 am:
depends on how gamer they are. if they play everquest 24/7 then they would be hardpressed to find a gf. but if they are like me and play occasionaly, know quite a bit about computers but arent nerds, the it should be fine. met one of my GFs because she needed help with an assignment in comp sci

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BaByGiRLx147 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 12:47 am:
it all depends on the person.. i personally dont. id rather go out with someone who spends time out and stuff.. but you cant have people decide who you like! hope i helped..

* saraaaa

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blackmamba answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 12:33 am:
some don't. i'm in love with one though :) my boyfriend plays video games all the time.

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cailoisa answered Monday August 23 2004, 11:57 pm:
My fiance is a gamer, and I love him to death. He spends at LEAST an hour a day on his games, but usually much more. Sometimes I join him, sometimes I let him game by himself. It's not a problem, I actually think it's kind of cute.

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snowwalker69 answered Monday August 23 2004, 10:25 pm:
I don't mind it if they play the games or are into computers, just as ong as they don't talk about it all the time. I'm pretty sure my bf gets tired of me talking about my god damned Super mario all the time. lol. They are all really sweet guys, give them a chance.

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MrsPhelps answered Monday August 23 2004, 9:20 pm:
This is a rather interesting question, I've never seen anyone ask this sort of thing before. But, there's a first time for everything!

I, being a girl and all, feel I can answer this by saying that I don't think girls really care if you're a computer nerd or a "gamer." Some girls actually are gamers. (I sort of am.) But if a girl doesn't like you just because you're a video game kind of person, it's probably because she's one of the more superficial chicks out there. I don't think it's a turn off, but not many girls are really interested in video games.

So, basically, I don't think that girls find it to be a turn off, even if some of them are not video game people. And if a girl doesn't like you JUST because you're a gamer, that's pretty stupid that they didn't get to know you better first and...well, their loss!

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Monday August 23 2004, 9:16 pm:
WEll yeah bcuz ALL they do is think about video games..n think if u went out on a date wit them ALL they would talk about is Video Games...n besides they wouldnt realli have time for a gf bcuz all they do is sit in front of the tv and play games...but if u like that type go for it!

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Siren_Cytherea answered Monday August 23 2004, 8:53 pm:
I disagree completely with the whole "girls don't like gamers or computer techs" thing. I'm dating a gamer, of sorts. He's the most romantic guy ever, and he's like, my perfect guy. Video games are fun...he's convinced me to try a few, lol. I used to be rather anti-video game, but not so much anymore.
Just make sure that you can talk about things OTHER than video games. Lol.
-Siren =)

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On3-Sh3xii-Gl answered Monday August 23 2004, 8:44 pm:
well dunt lol but some gurlz might be turned on by it..maybe you should spend so much time on games lol

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Karen answered Monday August 23 2004, 8:43 pm:
Nope, it isn't true. Girls just don't like it when guys always talk about their video games and computer stuff. Sorry, but it's a turn off for us girls. You can still play your video games and go on the computer but just don't talk about it lol. Hope I helped :)

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UnluckyWishes answered Monday August 23 2004, 8:42 pm:
no, it just depends on the kinda girly our interested in.My brother's a computer freak, he can rebuild a whole computer and there's a couple girls who are into him and thier not like scary looking.hope i helped, let me know if you have anymore questions.

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MizAdviceGurl_04 answered Monday August 23 2004, 8:34 pm:
tha only problem with that is if they r always talking about video games and computer stuff.. that drives me nuts. otherwise its perfectly ok. cuz so many guys play video games. and thats cool. maybe even a turn on, exept if they blab on about it. like i sed, ok bye!

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FallenAngel answered Monday August 23 2004, 8:32 pm:
It depends on the girl. I'm a girl and I actually play video games a lot...I love them. And, I also like computers. SO, it just depends on who the girl is and what they are into.
:)

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orphans answered Monday August 23 2004, 8:31 pm:
no they dont mind, dont spend all day acting like a dork and theyll like you, you dont have to wear your mario sunshine shirt to school, wear polo to tommy. if you dont talk about it they wont mind.

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selectopaque answered Monday August 23 2004, 8:28 pm:
I do. I like video gamers, and have been accused of being one myself. And if a guy is a computer tech, he has to be smart, if he's also funny and just fun to be around then I'd go for him.

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