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I have this friends and I really like her like more than a friend. A couple of months after we became friends I asked her out but she thought that it would be better if we stayed friends. After that was said, we became much closer and im kinda getting signals. what should I do, I really like her?
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you should ask her out again if shes sending you signals. the best that could happen is that you two go out, and the worst that could happen is that she just says that you should stay friends like last time. so either way you cant lose if she reacts the same way as last time.
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Id say dont go for it. You are most likely misreading the signals, this same thing happened to me and i did go for it, anyways bad idea. If she has to reject you again it will get very uncomfortable between you two and you will probably loose her as a friend. now you can still palyfully flirt with her stuff like that and if she likes you she will make the first move.
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Ask her out on a date to the movies or something. Specify that it's a date too, don't just say do you want to go to the movies with me. If she accepts she obviously sees your relationship potentially going somewhere.
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I believe you like her, i love it when that happened, its always better to start off as friends, even though my relationships wouldnt work very well i dont think..what if yall did go out and broke up? Then you would lose and good friend and it would be awkward to be around eachother...talk to her about it, maybe she realized that your more than friends, good luck! :*:SaRa:*:
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I would ask what she would say if you ask her out and if she says yes go for it and if it is no just hold it out! Good luck!
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I was in this situation a year or two ago. Just ask her out on a date or something. Go to a restaurant and then go for a walk while the sun sets, at some point try to hold her hand, its the easiest way to tell if she likes you. If she accepts it then she does, and if she doesn't then its pretty easy to just play it off and you lose nothing.
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juss keep hanging out with her. if you said that you 2 are becoming much closer from hanging ot with her before then who knows what could happen:-D
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"(french acient)ah ha. luv it is lovely, non." well i'd try again but if she says no, sorry buddy but you gonna have to try to get over her some way. I think you should talk to pepe le pew, he's been through alot. jk.
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I would just keep being friends and see if she showed any more interest in you than normal. If she starts having really strong feelings for you, then she will have to tell you. I mean, that is just how it works. She won't be able to just stay your friend if she likes you more than a friend. So..I say just keep going places with her and doing ''friend stuff'' until she lets you know she's ready to take it to the next level.
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I think you should wait till she makes the move but if you want to try asking her again. Good luck
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Ask her does she really want to be friends and if she said sumthen like i told you that already just tell her how you feel ..rate plz
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wow that's kinda hard- if she said that to you..i wouldn't push the issue ...but i would talk to her about it once more- present your point and tell her why you think taking it to the next level would be awesome...like maybe you have the same type of family or a lot of things in common or the same background...try to make her see where you're coming from- but don't force her into anything...if she says no then it's a no..but tell her to stop with the mixed signals because she's just playing with your head and that's not very nice at all! hope i helped, let me know...good luck! :D
<3 elle
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hmmm... well idk if id ask her again cuz she sed no tha first time and to me id find it annoying if a guy asked me again after i sed no lets stay friends.. but maybe just flirt back. after awhile tho im sure it will be ok to ask her out.
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I would ask her out again, if your getting signals then there's usually something going on.Tell her how you feel and if she doesnt feel the tell her you respect it.Hope i helped.
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oooh well i was in this same situation not to long ago. My best friend really liked me but i wasnt into dating him for a few reasons. he understood and backed off like that for a while. Well we started hanging out more and more and i started developing stronger feelings for him and he eventually got the hint and now we are together. So my advice is go for it, and if you guys are that close of friends talk to her about it before you ask her out and she if shes into that... worth a shot right?!?
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Well what are ya waiting for..Go for it and see what happens!Dont let it pass you by if you really really like this girl :-)Good luck!
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Send signals back. Try to flirt and see what her reaction is. Maybe she changed her mind.. girls do that a lot.
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