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Last Update: August 30, 2004
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hi im in 9th grade right and on fri this boy asked me if i got back. which i have no idea what that meanslol. i know pathetic. but i didnt wanna sound like a complete moron so i said yes i have back and uh he got all happy lol. so my question is what does baby got back mean lol? (link)
He's asking you if you got a booty!Like the song ''Baby Got Back'' by Sir Mix-alot lol Hope I helped!! haha


i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!! (link)
Well, if you don't love your b/f then you should break up with him. Cause there is no use in dating someone if you don't love them.Maybe you should go out witht he other guy and maybe you will fall in love with him!!


i was at my friends house with a bunch of other friends and we got drunk. the whole night i was hanging all over the kid i liked ( who happens to be a good friend) and i refused to talk to anyone besides him. i tried to kiss him when i was drunk but he wouldnt kiss me. does that mean anything besides he only likes me as a friend? (link)
He probably wouldn't let you kiss him cause he thought that he would be taking advantage of you while you were drunk.Maybe he thought you were onlt trying to kiss him cause you were drunk. Maybe he doesn't even know that you like him more than a friend. I think you should just talk to him, if you really like him, and see what he says.
Hope I helped!!

~ Tiffany~


Is there anything bad for you in Diet Sodas? I know they say regular sodas are bad for you because they have so much sugar, but since diet sodas have none, does that mean they're fine for you? Is it okay if you have one or more a day? Or is there other bad stuff for you in there? (link)
Well... I actually had a doctor to tell me that the aspartame in diet drinks is bad for you.It drains your energy and can cause you to have hand tremors. Like where your hands shake really bad.Hope I helped!


I'm going to be a freshman this year, and last year i fell in love with a guy who isn't going to my highschool, but i won't go into details about that. anyway, i don't want a bf this year at all like ever ever ever, but like i don't want guys to think i'm mean or anything, and i don't want to hurt anyones feelings. can i just say no with out guys getting all pi$$ed off? (link)

Just tell the guys that ask you out that you are not ready to date again.Explain to them what happened before and tell them that you don't want to have to go through it again.That's what I would do. Hope I helped!!


i like this guy he's in 12th and im in 9th, 3 year age difference, i don't really kno him that much anymore but i want to get to kno him again. we used to hang out all the time, cuz our families are friends... wat should i do.... is he way too old? should i wait a lil while?? should i move on?? (link)
No 3 years age difference is not bad at all. If you like him and you have the opportunity to hang out with him..do it!I would!! lol


i like this guy. hes really cute and funny, but im in 8th grade and im tall, hes in 7th grade, but hes short. and were in 2 classes together and we always smile and talk to eachother. i really dont know what to do if he asks me out! help me please! (link)
If you really like the guy..don't worry about the outside appearance and what ppl will think if they see you with him. You'll never know what could happen if you never try...right?So...if he asks you out ..say sure! And have a good time with him!! Good luck!


how do i get a girl friend (link)
Ok..first of all, girls do not like shy guys. Or I don't anyways. I like a guy that is comfortable with himself. Not like conceited or anything, but just acts himself all the time. That is great. But also, girls like it when a guy talks to them first...and makes all the moves. Cause girls really just like the attention.lol But no seriously...just be yourself around girls, don't act shy and depressed. And I guarantee you'll find at least one girl that likes you for you!!Hope this was help!


Um, I like having sex, I'm not going to lie. But the last time I did, the guy I did it with kind of... made me have anal sex with him. And I tried to say it hurt but he didn't stop. I said it loud but when I told him afterwards, he said he didn't hear me. I cried afterwards b/c it hurt so bad. Is it my fault? I didn't want to do it... I feel gross. What do you think?

xoxo Alyssa* (link)
Well...that guy is a jerk if he didn't listen!! I don't care if he said he didn't hear you!! He should have been able to tell by you being tense.
The best thing you can do is stay away from him. No one needs to make you do anything you are not comfortable doing. Hope I helped!


i was out with my ex boyfriend last night. we still hang out and all that crap. basically, we still act as if we are still girlfriend and boyfriend. well, while we were having dinner, i said to him, "im a good girlfriend, youre just to dumb to realize that you should be with me." i watched his reaction, which he didnt really have one, and a couple seconds later he replied "its better that were just friends.." he seemed sort of unhappy when he said that. well, after that being said, the rest of the night, he was holding me, laughing, all the good stuff.. and he tells me that he loves me. he bought me a painting to have it say [his name] loves [my name]. so right now, im feeling sort of confused. he always tells me that he loves and that were going to get back together when he gets his head together.. but then, he says that whole thing with us being "friends." how should i feel right now?
btw.. im very much in love with him, and so he says that he is with me. we are both 18 (link)
Well.. I am in this situation. My b/f of 2 and a half years moved and we only see each other once a month.We were broken up, but when he came home to visit..it was like we were still dating. We held hands and kissed and etc.So..we're back together now. But before, when I would say I wanted to get back together, he would say he couldn't date me right now. But you know..someone told me that maybe he was making sure he could take care of himself before he had to take care of someone else.Which makes sense if you think about it. So..I guess he finally realized he could and is back with me now. So Ihope things work out for you too!!


My friend is gonig outw ith my first love and ever and I am a little upset because he has half of my heart and i know she loves him so much and he loves her so ,much but half of me feels jealous is that normal? (link)
That is most definitely normal. I would be the same way if one of my friends was dating my first love.Because you had so many memories together and now they are making memories together.But..just keep looking..and you will find another love. He may not be your first.. but he may be your last.;)


This is for my friend there is this guy that is one of her good friends and he makes her cry by bringing up like bad memories and picking fights with her .. she's very emotional my friend .. and I always tell her that if he treats you like this he's not worth it and she understands but somehow she can't put him behind her .. like he calls and she forgives him she's wayy too nice and ends up getting stepped on but i don;t know if she realizes this and i dunno if i should tell her like i said she's emotional i dunno if she'll take it the wrong way .. thanx ! (link)
Well.. what you should do is let her figure her feelings out for herself. I know you don't like to see her hurt, but it's the only way that things will get better.My friend tried to talk me out of a relationship with a guy and it almost ended our friendship. I mean not really ended.. but we were really mad at each other and we had never been like that before. So..I told her how I felt and she decided to let me do what I wanted. And so far, I'm pretty happy! So.. just let her dow hat she feels is right. Hope I helped!


There is this guy that I REALLY like a lot, he's my friend and all and he said that he would hook up with me and he's hooked up with my other friend before and it meant nothing to him, I'm afraid of hooking up with him in case I get my hopes too high just to have them crash and burn. I really like this guy but I am afraid of getting hurt because it will mean nothing to him if I hook up with him and I really don't like that fact. PLEASE HELP! (link)
Well.. I say try it. But just don't let yourself get too attached.Just hang out and do b/f g/f stuff.But if you can tell that it isn't going anywhere..end it. But if you get the vibe that he really likes you..just ask him what he's feeling.And chances are, he'll tell you. Hope I helped!


OK, I met this guy at the mall and we got to know eachother. He calls me almost everyday and we flirt ALL the time. The thing is, he already has a girlfriend. I think he likes me and all but i don't want him to break up with her for me but i REALLY like him. What should i do?!?! PLease help me!!! (link)
I wouldn't worry about him breaking up with her for you. Cause if he can break up with her for another girl, then he never loved her in the first place.So it would actually be best that he went ahead and did it now..then let her think something he doesn't feel.So, just keep talking to him and seen how things work out. And if he likes you and wants to break up with his girl, let him!!Then you can let him fall in love with you!


I gave up on love awhile ago..even though I don't want to, it just happened. Most of the guys I've dated were jerks. I don't trust guys and I resent all of my ex's and I can't help it. I haven't met a single guy in my school or area that was decent and I'm really starting to hate men. I'm not going to like females but I don't understand why men are such jerks. Someone help? (link)
I don't think anyone understands why guys are the way they are. lol But I don't think you should give up on guys or love. Just hang out with friends.You don't always have to be in a realationship to be happy.But if you just wait around for a while.. you may meet the man of your dreams and not even mean to! And he will be great and everything you ever wanted! So..try this and let me know if it works!


i've never met him in reality before, but over msn we talk like long lost pals, me and him click alot and its amazing how we have so much in common. recently i found out that he actually likes me, but the problem is i dun feel the same way about him! i only treat him like a brother.. i've talked to him about it already, but the problem is how awkward the situation is currently. he isnt really talking much to me anymore and he doesnt initiate, he waits for me to ask first, etc. he wasnt like that before.. i don't know what to do now.. help me please (link)
If he can't respect your feelings and accept that you just want to be his friend..then he's not worth being friends with. I have had guy friends to ask me out and I had to tell them that I don't like them like that and they are still my friends.They never held it against me that I didn't like them like that.So, I say just talk to him and tell him that you really like him as a friend and you don't want to mess your friendship up.If he doesn't understand, don't talk to him. Hope this is help!


Me (14) and my current boyfriend(14) have a had an on and off kind of relationship. like we've broken up 3 different times, but things seem like they're going down hill again for a 4th time. He's stopped saying he loves me when we get off the phone or off line. We dont' see each other all that much cuz he lives 45 minutes away from me ... and that kind of presents a problem. Especially now that im going into highschool. Its like a whole new world of oppurtunitys. He to is going into in highschool adn i think things are pretty much coming to an end between us, and that breaks my heart but at the same time im relived because i can be open to new experiences ... i love him but im not sure he's feeling what he says he feelings, how he says he feels and how he acts on those feelings are to different things .. i just don't know anymore ... (link)
Talk to him. Ask him if he cares for you like he says he does.And if he says no, then you just go out with other guys. I know that it isn't that easy, but think of it this way...if it's meant to be, it will come back to you.If you love him..you can do this. Hope everything works out for ya!!


Ok me and my boyfriend just broke up on Friday. then on Monday some guy i like asked me out, but i still like my ex-boyfriend what should i say to the guy that asked me out? (link)
Well..if you are really in love with your b/f you need to tell the guy that you are still in love with your ex and you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.I was in a simular situation and I had to tell that guy. He was sad, but he eventually got over it.So..my advice is simply tell him you are not ready to date. Good luck!!


Me and my b/f have been going out now for 3 months. And i haven't kissed him yet..not even a peck. Is there something wrong with me? He has tried once to make a move but i backed off. Does anyone have any advice on how to do it or anything??!!! (link)
Me and my b/f had been dating for 2 months and we hadn't kissed yet. I finally just had to kiss him!! May seem kind of slutty.. but hey, he wasn't makin the move! lol So...I say just do what I did.When you want to, just surprise him and do it! He will like it. I promise.


ok theres this guy that i met online ad we talked and stuff and i sorta like him and he likes me and we talk on the phone everynight now he wants to meet me do u think i should meet him (link)
Well.. it can be very dangerous in so many ways. But if you feel taht you truly have a connection with this guy.. then at least take a friend or two or three with you! lol That way if he tries something, you can all scatter and scream!! lol But if you think this is just a crush that you can totally get over, don't risk the danger.Hope this is help for ya!




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