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my online friend
i've never met him in reality before, but over msn we talk like long lost pals, me and him click alot and its amazing how we have so much in common. recently i found out that he actually likes me, but the problem is i dun feel the same way about him! i only treat him like a brother.. i've talked to him about it already, but the problem is how awkward the situation is currently. he isnt really talking much to me anymore and he doesnt initiate, he waits for me to ask first, etc. he wasnt like that before.. i don't know what to do now.. help me please
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If he can't respect your feelings and accept that you just want to be his friend..then he's not worth being friends with. I have had guy friends to ask me out and I had to tell them that I don't like them like that and they are still my friends.They never held it against me that I didn't like them like that.So, I say just talk to him and tell him that you really like him as a friend and you don't want to mess your friendship up.If he doesn't understand, don't talk to him. Hope this is help!
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He's just upset that u turned him down like any guy would be. Maybe u should talk to him and tell him that u dont want to lose his friendship over all this.
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well it sounds like his heart is broken.I mean put urself in his shoes..if u liked a guy and he like u as a sister..wouldnt u b heart broken?Just keep talking to him n mayb he will change.Hope this helped!Much <33
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talk to him about how u dont like how everything is awkward...just try getting into deeper convos too..
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talk to him, and explain to him that you love him to death, and you hate how he doesnt talk to you the way he used to.
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tell him that ur sorry if you made him feel bad and you still want to be great friends and then give him some space to think
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I would suggest you just let him know that you like talking to him, and that the two of you have never met, so it is hard to accept that he "likes" you because of that. Assure him that you absolutely want to continue chatting with him, but that maybe you have difficulty accepting emotional attachment woth someone you are physically so distant from.
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