Gender: Female
Age: 17
MSN: tessa_18_@hotmail.com
Member Since: August 24, 2004
Answers: 16
Last Update: August 26, 2004
Visitors: 1150
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My friend, lets call her Sarah, is completely obsessed with her ex boyfriend. Ive been trying to tell her forever to try and get over him! Hes been such a jerk to her, and he broke up with her to immpress one of his friends. How low is that? How can i get it through her head that she can do better, and stop wasting her time dwelling on the past? (link)
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I went through the same thing with my best friend, but really she has to realise that hes a loser all on her own. It took my friend nearly 2 yrs till she realised it but she has been free from him for a yr. Just continue to give ur friend support and eventually she will realise u were right all along.
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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl.... (link)
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There is nothing wrong with dating him, if u want to date him then go for it.
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Ok me and my boyfriend just broke up on Friday. then on Monday some guy i like asked me out, but i still like my ex-boyfriend what should i say to the guy that asked me out? (link)
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You should explain the situation to this guy who asked u out, just tell him that its too soon for u to be dating after ur ex and maybe in the future u 2 can get together.
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i've never met him in reality before, but over msn we talk like long lost pals, me and him click alot and its amazing how we have so much in common. recently i found out that he actually likes me, but the problem is i dun feel the same way about him! i only treat him like a brother.. i've talked to him about it already, but the problem is how awkward the situation is currently. he isnt really talking much to me anymore and he doesnt initiate, he waits for me to ask first, etc. he wasnt like that before.. i don't know what to do now.. help me please (link)
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He's just upset that u turned him down like any guy would be. Maybe u should talk to him and tell him that u dont want to lose his friendship over all this.
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Um, I like having sex, I'm not going to lie. But the last time I did, the guy I did it with kind of... made me have anal sex with him. And I tried to say it hurt but he didn't stop. I said it loud but when I told him afterwards, he said he didn't hear me. I cried afterwards b/c it hurt so bad. Is it my fault? I didn't want to do it... I feel gross. What do you think?
xoxo Alyssa* (link)
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No this is not ur fault, what that guy did was wrong. He should have stopped as soon as u said no, what he did is classed as rape. Maybe talking to someone like a friend or somat will help u to feel better about it.
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i was out with my ex boyfriend last night. we still hang out and all that crap. basically, we still act as if we are still girlfriend and boyfriend. well, while we were having dinner, i said to him, "im a good girlfriend, youre just to dumb to realize that you should be with me." i watched his reaction, which he didnt really have one, and a couple seconds later he replied "its better that were just friends.." he seemed sort of unhappy when he said that. well, after that being said, the rest of the night, he was holding me, laughing, all the good stuff.. and he tells me that he loves me. he bought me a painting to have it say [his name] loves [my name]. so right now, im feeling sort of confused. he always tells me that he loves and that were going to get back together when he gets his head together.. but then, he says that whole thing with us being "friends." how should i feel right now?
btw.. im very much in love with him, and so he says that he is with me. we are both 18 (link)
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I was kinda in the same situation as u. My bf split up with me last december but nothing really changed it always felt like we were still together. Anyway I waited and told him that I was getting fed up with the situation and eventually he asked me out again and we are now back together.
To me it sounds like ur ex bf is scared, maybe hes scared of getting commited so young but eventually if he really loves u then he will come back to u. Just make sure u keep telling him how much u love him, but dont pressure him coz it will just make him back off.
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hey, i asked a question before about the whole tutor thing and not being sure about what people would say... i have another thing that brings me down. i just went to freshman orientation and everyone was looking at eachothers schedules and i learned that all of my friends are in honors classes and i'm the only one in CP classes. and i'm not exaggerating when i say all of my friends i do mean ALL of my friends. this might sound really consited and selfish but I'M the one that has the higher goals in life and I'M the one that wants to have a great future and they mostly just throw their lives away focusing on boys and partying. the majority of them just want to become like a hair dresser or something like that and i'm the only one that wants to do something great and that's goint to help people I'M the one that wants to be a doctor. why can't I have the good grades??? i'm the one that needs it! i want to be a doctor while all my other friends hardly even want to plan their future! i find this totaly unfair! i feel so stupid sometimes and i just want to sit and cry. what can i do to make myself feel better about all of this!?PLEASE help i rate high! (link)
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I know exactly how u feel, I wanted to be a doctor up until about a month ago. I had to decide against it tho coz my grades this yr were really bad. If you really want to be a doctor then all u have to do is study hard and believe in urself. Just because ur friends are in honor class and ur not doesnt make u stupid. Just believe in urself and work hard.
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Anyone know how to get your face any thinner? Kind of a dumb question but are there any excercises to thin out the face? Thanks! (link)
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There is no way of just getting ur face to thin out, as u lose weight tho ur face normally thins out.
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I know the subject is wrong... anyways, over the summer i got a lot of freckles on my face and I never really noticed it until someone mentioned it today. How can you make them disapear, besides massive makeup? (link)
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I dont know any ways of getting rid of freckles except for putting foundation on them.
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Okay well see.. i like this guy names Tyler! He really likes me but see.. my BEST friend that i have known since i was like 3 or 4 likes him A LOT and she doesnt know i like him. He asked me out tonight and i dont know what to say.. i REALLY need you adive as soon as possible! Please! (link)
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You should talk to ur friend and explain that u really like him and that he likes u too. Make sure that shes okay with the situation because u dont want to lose ur best friend.
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I need a good way to study for my exam in Algebra 2...any suggestions? (link)
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Well the way I study Algebra is to look over my notes and then just doing loads of questions. That way u can find out what sections of the work u find harder than others and u can concentrate on that part.
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I need help! I love my sister to death but she is so annoying! I have no privacy and she always get's her way, I'm 13 she's 8. I really need help! Don't say talk to her, it didn't work. (link)
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Talk to ur parents and get them to talk to her and to explain u need ur own space.
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Do women find a guy with a hairy chest attractive? I'm 24, hairy, but not out of control hairy. I'm not overtly self-conscious, but I get the feeling that body hair is considered unattractive. ???
Don't hold back. I want real answers. Hopefully, from real women. Thanks. (link)
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I actually really like hairy chests on guys. Not like ape hairy but hairyish.
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My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*( (link)
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I dont know if hes lying just to get u pregnant, but there is this stuff called precum which can make u pregnant. So use protection just to be 100% sure u arent gonna get pregnant and also u want to make sure that u r protected from STIs.
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what do i do when my mom says i trust you i just dont trust the world im almost 16 and cant ride around with friends or go anywere. i m not the kind of kid that gets into truble so i dont see the prob what can i say to her to get her to understand?
please help (link)
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You will have to just sit her down and explain to her that u want some more independance and just because u want to go out more doesnt mean ur start going to get into trouble.
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ok theres this guy that i met online ad we talked and stuff and i sorta like him and he likes me and we talk on the phone everynight now he wants to meet me do u think i should meet him (link)
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If u do meet him make sure u take someone with u. It can be very dangerous to meet people off the internet so just make sure ur careful and have someone there.
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