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what do i do when my mom says i trust you i just dont trust the world im almost 16 and cant ride around with friends or go anywere. i m not the kind of kid that gets into truble so i dont see the prob what can i say to her to get her to understand?
please help
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SHe is right... There is a lot of danger out there. WHy do you need to ride around. Have your mom drop you somewhere and pick you up later. That way you both get what you want.
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well my mom does trust me and the world so this is a foreign problem to me. are you a guy or girl? if youre a girl buy pepper spray, and tell her you can defend yourself jsut in case. you can also get a cell phone and tell her she can check up on you whenever she wants and you can call in every hour to check in. she will most likely not take you up on that offer but become a little looser. do you have a friend she trusts? if so jsut tell her your hanging out with your friend, not technically a lie but other people can be there.
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You will have to just sit her down and explain to her that u want some more independance and just because u want to go out more doesnt mean ur start going to get into trouble.
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Well, in some ways, your mom might be right. Mothers can be very overprotective, and I understand that. But you're a teenage girl. A lot of bad things happen to teenage girls. I think that your mom truly does trust you -- you don't seem like the type of person that gets into a lot of trouble and does a lot of stupid things. But, even the most innocent person can get hurt in some way or another. Talk to your mother and try to compromise. See if you can go out in group outings. Have her meet your closest friends, so that she knows who you're hanging out with. Have her talk to their parents. Make sure that you show her (not just tell her, but show her) that you're a responsible person.
<3 Holly
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your mom telling you that she trusts you and now the world isn't anything bad. she just cares about you and doesnt want anything bad to happen to you. do you trust the world today? i sure don't! you could get raped or killed by some random stranger easily! that's why your mom doesnt trust the world. but she trusts you! and she trusts all the right decisions you make in it. so don't get worked up over it bc it's nothing bad.
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girl i know how ya feel...my moms like that too...but she actually let me ride around w/ one of my friends one time bC he came over and meet him n i got to go down town w/ him...i mean yeah she probably does trust you...but she might not trust the driver...so talk to her bout it...tell ur friends to come over so she can meet them...also it could be bC ur dad might not like it either...cuz my dad was outta town when i went riden w/ my friend...haha...so that might be some part in it!!
let me know how it goes...
~b
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Tell her that she should let u be independent because she has to let you go out alone sometime, why not start now? Tell her that you can make desicions for yourself and that sometime she will have to let you into the world to defend for yourself.
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