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Sweet to Hoe
okay well i've knownone of my friends sence the 6th grade and she was so sweet before and in the 7th she beganacting a little kinda slutty but now in the 8th she doesn't even much talk to me when she's around her group of friends that don't like me y don't they like me i dunno i never did anything to them but thats a PI (personal issue)so i wont get into that but ya she doesnt even talk to me no more and meand her were so close but now its like she will let boiz touch up on her and she just turned 13 and her bf is 22 or 21 i think.I don't like that at all i told her and she is like okay wutever and im trying to watch her back but she's just a LITTLE gurl and that guy is in his 20's he expects things and im trying to get her to understand but apperntly im the only one that cares cause her friends that don't like me agree with the relationship and i dunno wut do 4get about our friendship or keep on nagging her about it cause i do get tired trying to watch her back but i dont wannasee her suffer .so i dunno wut i can do and i wish that the old her came out but everytime i bring that up she gets offended and assumes that im just JELOUS (im not i dunno where she gets that idea from?!?!?!)plz help me!!!
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13-year-old going out with a 20-year-old... hmm...i wonder if thats true love. probably not. i dont know what this guy is trying to accomplish by going out with an eighth-grader but it cant be good. if her new friends are really her friends, they should tell her that going out with a twenty-year-old isnt cool. it seems like you have your head on straight more than they do. even if she thinks youre jealous, gets offended, and is even annoyed of you, don't stop telling her that shes doing the wrong thing. one person can make a difference, and trust me, she'll thank you in the long run. good luck
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You can get her boyfriend in trouble. Since he's over 18 and she's under 18 it's illegal.
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in my opinion i wuld tell her one last time how u feel about everything and then let her do her. if she doesnt listen she's obviously not going to anymore. she'll learn the hard way after she gets taken advantaged of by that guy. maybe then she'll realize u were right and go back to her sweet lil self but until then id stay away from her. especially if she's not even friends wit u enough to stand up for u to her friendz that don't like u. they're little girls they probably just think they're being cool but they'll see. she prolly assumes ur jealous because of that too. they think theyre cool but it's just illegal and stupid. she's fuckin her life up don't let her fuck up ur's too. xo kelly
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I think that you should tell her parents or an authority figure. I really hope she gets a counseler or sumthin that will help her, I really do.Latas!
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I would talk to her parents about this realtionship and tell them whats going on.Your friend may get mad or hate you, but in the long run she'll thank you.Even if she doesnt you know you did the right thing and i'm sure alot of people admire that.Hope i helped.
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Don't nag your friend, but be there for her. If u think something is wrong in her relationship, talk to an adult. Let them know whats going on so they can talk to her. This guy is a lil old for her, but Its up to her who she dates. If they have sex tho, he can go to jail for Statatory rape (spelling?) for having sex with a minor. I know guys that that has happened to. Just watch her back for her. And the moment u think something is really wrong, TALK TO SOMEONE. Thats about all u can do for her since she wont listen to u.
Hope I helped!! If u need anything else, just drop one in the inbox!!
** Jeanine **
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