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ok......i'm 16 and theres this guy who's 20 that i like alot. he has been wanting to go out with me but my dad wont let me bcuz he says hes to old for me. well my friends keep tellin me i should just dont let my dad find out. what should i do? is there a way to get my dad to let? please help
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well, i would not go out with the guy just yet .. cuz sooner or later your dad will find out ..and then by that time, you'll be too head over heelz for this guy to let him go!! so i wuld talk yur dad into at least giving the guy a chance..and maybe ask yur dad if the 2 of yu can be friendz until he getz to kno him well enuff to let yu date him...invite him over for dinner, etc...then maybe yur dad will begin to see that the guy is worthy of having yu as a girlfriend..
hope i helped!!-good luck!!
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-aSheRz
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well i know parents can be tough but did u ever loose your fathers trust? if so thats probably why he wont let you, you need to prove to him that you can handle going out with someone older than you. if your dad has no reason to trust you and just wont let you go out with him no matter what then if you truley have feelings for him then you have no choice but to go behinde you fathers back. the only thing is that if you two have sex and your dad finds out then your dad can sue him! ((that happened to one of my friends)) its sagetary rape. so be careful with you decision!
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good luck i hope i helped!
xox Emily
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Ok the first thing i must tell you is that parents know EVERYTHING! You may not think so now, but oh yea they will find out! Its only a 4 year difference i mean its not really that bad, why dont you talk to your parents and let them meet this guy and then talk about it! Good luck :*:SaRa:*:
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No you shouldnt go out. If you guys got cuaght your dad could get the guy in serious trouble with the law
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why don't you beg your dad to invite him over for dinner, so your dad can see how much of a nice guy he is.
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16 and 20 is only a 4 year age difference. maybe your dad feels as if this 20 year old is taking advantage of you,like he wants to use you for sex or something. Your dad is probably thinking "Why would some 20 year old college guy want to go out with my 16 year old daughter who is in high school"...my advice to you would be to sit down and talk to your dad about this issue. Explain to him why you love this guy so much and maybe even arrange a time for them two to meet. If that doesn't work, I'd still go out with him, it shouldnt be up to your parents to decide who you should love. Good Luck!
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introduce him to you dad and let your dad get to know him. if your dad feels more comfortable with him then hopefully he'll let you date him
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Try to prove to ur dad that the guy is trustworthy. Your dad is probably worried this guy will pressure u into something. Have your dad know him and get to know him a little better. If your dad knows him better and is able to trust him, maybe he will at least let u 2 hang out together at ur house. Then eventually he will probably let u go out on dates with this guy.
Hope I helped!! If u need anything else, just drop one in the inbox!!
** Jeanine **
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