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I'm outgoing and I love to do outdoor stuff. Thanx for asking me questions and I hope u love my answers. I love pigs and cows. They rock all sox!=-)
~*nick name's*~:sammich=chelsea,and ham=amber
~*fav. movies*~a walk to remember=chelsea, slcpunk,donnie darko=amber
~*fav.colors*~green=chelsea,and blue=amber
~*ok since its 2 sn's then we have to do it in this section*~iDONTknow1792=amber yupyep05=chelsea
O and yall look at this poem and no I didn't write this one!:
Anna Joe
The kid no one really knows
Just sat
She was kind of fat
Every day people would critize
About her size
I was the only one who heard her crys
Her endless sighs
I never knew
What she was about to do
It was a misty Monday
I wish she found have found another way
We walked in
Right before she commited her sin
They laughed at her and called her fat
And there I sat
Wanting it to stop
I could have fought
Before I could think
In just one blink
She reached in her shirt
Everyone screamed as shots beamed
Up and down each row
Then it came to me and she said no
I was in shock
Then came a knock
Hurried,
In her head
There everyone sat dead
I burst in tears
Because I had no more peers
I could have stopped this all
I heard voices down the hall
Terrified yells
And there i was
Just because
I did'nt call her fat....
But I just sat
I let her cry,
wanting to die
And it just might be
Because of me
Everyones dead
And poor Anna shot herself in the head
advice
hey im 14years old.and my ex bf now,asked me out sometime in june he promised me that he would never hurt me and would love me forever and all that crap ummm hes 16 well everything was fine for a few months then like 2weeks ago he started calling me less..well my friend called me and said that he was cheating on me with one of my friends i had no idea she knew..i went crazy they were talkin about having sex and here im thinking u know his parents are going through a divorce maybe he just needed time i felt like i didnt something wrong i love him still and i know i shouldnt what do u think about this whole situation reply back i will rate good..thanx
dump his ass he dont deserve u u need to let him go befor he hurts u even more and if he cums crolling bak to u just say no nomatter how much u think u like him trust me its not worth getting hurt that bad again
Ok, im a girl and i have light blonde hairs like a little mustache thingy, an i know all girls have little ones but mines noticable. Do a lot of gurls wax theirs and like trim them or whatever? is it normal to get them waxed an all? Whats the best way to get rid of them? Thanx a bunch. ill rate. :)
Yes it is normal.But i don't let it get to me.Guys still like me and mine's noticeable.But yes it is normal to get it waxed.
hey, i'm 15 and live with a brotehr and a mom and dad. well i get in fights with my brother and parents alot but they end up in fist fights. When me and my brotehr fight, it is really bad, and i end up being the one getting hurt the worst (he's 18) and i am the one that gets in trouble and he gets in none. but me and my mom get in major fights. she hits me a lot and kicks me and hits me with just random things. i dont know what to do about it. but of course i fight back, cause who wouldnt even tho its my mom. and my dad sees it alot but he doesnt help me to get her away. I have been hit so many times and even given a black eye by my family. i dont know what to do. i have called dfacs, but they didnt do anything and the police have been called out to my hosue too. but nothing seems to work. and there are fights about everything and it ends up with me in the middle of it and in a bunch of trouble for htings i had nothing to do with! i need serious help before something major happens! please... i hope someone out there can help me!
runaway to a friends house and call the cops.i'm so sorry to here your life is like that,i'd really like to help u in anyway that i can.I HATE IT WHEN PARENTS BEAT THEIR CHILDREN!!YOU NEED TO TAKE ACTION!!!!
im here ne time!!
~*Chelsea*~
How many hours of sleep should a 14 year old girl get each night?
Thanks--
Atleast 7 and a half.
Hey i was wondering if anyone knew of any good shampoos for curly hair. My hair is pretty soft but i want it to be really soft and for it to look soft and shiny. I tried dove and that works ok but if anyone knows of any good ones for curly hair..or just in general that'd great thnkx :-)
Garnier Fruties
I'm sorry but this is real long.
On friday the school told the students what high school we were going to attend for out high school year and i was chosen to a Taylor high school i didnt expect because i alwayz though i was going to go to elsik high school but i got chosen for Taylor High school well all my friends are going to either Elsik or Hastings and im going to miss them terribly and i'm the only one out of them going to Taylor and i want to be with them but i cant because i need to get good grades and finish high school in a good school according to my parents well the thing is that im going to Taylor with one other real close friend of mine. We use to be bf and gf but we kept braking up well now me and him have gotten real close and we are going to go to the same high school and im beginning to have feeling for him again and i dont know what he might say to me and my bestfriends are going to different high school and i dont want to lose the relationship because they mean so much to me and i dont know what to do with out them.Im so confused in how im going to handle everything.:/
Take a deep breathe and reflect of what you have in your life. You know it could be worse than going to a different high school than your friends. You can still hang out and talk on the phone and internet and stuff. I wouldn't about that much. It seems to me that you might actually still like your ex. Well anyways, I hope that everything works out for you!!!
~*Chelsea*~
(i'm a junior girl, the guy in question is a senior) Okay, so i went out with this guy for 3 months a while back, but i dumped him over the summer. I did it for lots of reasons- bc i didnt really like him nemore, it was getting too serious for me(mentally, emotionally, and i was a liitle worried taht it would become too much sexually although i know i could say "no" at any time and he would have totally been ok with it.) anyways, i also kinda did it bc there was this other guy i kinda liked. Afterwards, i totally regreted afterwards. He was so good to me especilly bc i was younger. We were both involved in the same extra-curricular activties. he has currently been flirting with me and recently broken up w. his g/f to try to win me back. idk what to do. i kinda want to go for it but at the same time i dont. hes not conventionally good looking but thats not important to me. he also used have a bad rep so ppl are kinda like what r u doing dating him? but thats why we worked! we were so different taht it worked! i never really trusted him fully tho. i just dont know what to do. we had so much fun.
help me!
Well, give him another chance since you guys had soo much fun together. I think it might work out. But this is totally you!!! Good luck with your decision!!!
~*Chelsea*~
Theres this guy I like and he likes me. I am 13 and he is 15 and hes liked me for a long time and same for me but we both just found out that we liked eachother about 2 months ago. Well he was about to ask me out but thought I'd say no b/c I was 12 then and there was 3 year age diff. He gots a g/f now and he says he still likes me though and he got kinda drunk one night and was all touching me and tried to get me to kiss him but he has a gf so I said no and he kept trying to covince me but I didnt want him to get in trouble by his gf so I refused but now I wish I had kissed him and he was pretty drunk but even when he isnt he still wants me to kiss him but its hard to know if hes joking or not because he has a big sense of humor and i was like are u joking he kept saying no. But how can I tell if hes joking? and would it have been wrong if I kissed him? Sry this is so long and I appriciate you reading this and thx for your advice in advance. As long as you answer i'll rate 5 unles ur answer is ridiculous. Thankz, luv ya!
Well, sorry to say this but u gotta go with your gut feeling. This is your decision.Good luck!
~*Chelsea*~
so is it okay 4 your boyfriend to call you baby but you wanna call him something other than "babe" but not like hunny, hunnybun, or other corney names?! like call him baby too or would that just be weird??
It'd be perfectly normal!
~*Chelsea*~
im going out with this guy since yesterday who i've never talked to. we're in the same health class. tomorrow his friend told me to talk to him. im really nervous because i dont know what to say at all. any ideas? also, how should i make it look like im not as nervous as i really am? thanx!
It just comes like bring up something he likes that you know some about too. That's what i would do. Then be like, whats going on in your life. that'll kick up a convo.
.::Chelsea::.
do you close your eyes when you give your boyfriend a lil' peck on the lips?! or even on the cheek?
Not everytime but sometimes close your eyes, but only for like a second.It makes it more romantic.
.::Chelsea::.
i have this gurl that is in love with me n we broke up a year ago n she is moving back n really loves me but i love some1 else wut shold i do
Tell her what you just told me and explain to her how you just wanna be friends. If she really loves you, she'll understand, trust me, it always happens to me!!lol jk, it only happened like 2 or 3 times.latas!!
.::Chelsea::.
can girls call boys their "baby" like they call us that?? what other names o you call them besides .. 'babe...ect..'
Ya!I alwayz do, it jsut comes out and then they get all happy cuz i say it. It's actually kinda wierd...... anyway,lol,there's:hunny,sugar lips,sugar,dumplin,cutie cakes,sugar pie. thats all thats appropriate,lol,jk i unno ne more.
.::Chelsea::.
Okay so I met this guy online like a couple weeks ago or so. And I really feel like I'm falling for him, I love him so much. Do you think this is crazy or actually possible that I can be in love with him?
Well i'm not real sure,it's never happened to me.Do you actually know this guy though, like from the past?Tell me what happens cuz i'm alwayz here for you!
.::Chelsea::.
Some of my friends are really scared to kiss a guy! They don't know "how." What should I tell them??
Tell them that it just comes naturally, cuz it does(with practice lol)..::Chelsea::.
Bare with me, this could be long. Ok well it starts off about 3 years ago, I was involved in a roll over car accident and it knocked out 2 of my teeth because i wasn't wearing a seat belt, and I was partially ejected from the car and i was stuck and yadda yadda yadda, it was horrible, and it screwed up my knee so now i've had 2 sugerys no my knee, the last one puts me in a leg brace. Anywho, Then earlier this year, i was involved in another accident(yea i know, if i didn't have bad luck i'd have no luck at all) where the driver and I and all the other passengers were looking at a murder scene when we smashed into the back of a cadillac and the airbags were deployed, and my foot was screwd up so i missed like 3 days of school, blah blah blah, so now it being early october and all this happend 3 years ago and the other one happend near the end of last year, like a year ago. So now we get to my problem. Now whenever I get into a car, I start freaking out because i think what would happen if the driver were not paying attention, so every time I see brake lights, I grab onto something and start to make noises, not quite a scream, and stuff like that, so i was wondering if that was normal after things like that have happend to me?, oh yea, by the way, my dad like to scare the crap at me by going full speed towards a wall, then my whole family laughs as i try to keep the tears in, but i dont want u guys to feel sorry for me, anywho, i was wondering if you guys think i sould seek therapy or something to get over this problem? Because these incedents have made me never want to drive. Should i try to get over my fear by seeking therapy, that is what im asking, if you could help me it would mean alot to me and i will rate you high if i like your advice, thanks in advance
Well, yes therapy could work, but sometimes it doesn't. I think you need to face your fears head on with somebody you really trust. I dont know if u like my answer because it's only one person's opinion. I hope i helped u anyway!:-)
.::Chelsea::.
Im doing an essay, please please help me i rate 5's all around. Can you name points about bush and then points about kerry?? And then things they have in common?
thank you
xoxo
well i know that all kerry is worried about is nuclear weapons and blaming bush for that, yet bush has taken care of most everything except finding asoma bin ladin BUSH ALL THE WAY!!!!!
What should I do? Me and my best friend let's call him Harry, are no longer friends, because I have a big jealousy issue, I hooked him up with my friend, while liking him. So it bothers me when they are together and I can't stand being around him knowing he's not mine. So I have been mean to him alot, and as a result of that, we no longer friends cause I kinda blew up at him with all my fustration and stuff, cause it was all built up inside... but now I feel bad know that our friendship ended up on bad note, and now I feel like we'll never be friends again. What should I do?
Apologize, thats the best thing u can do at this point. but make sure he knows ur really sorry about and never stop apologizing. if hes a good friend, then he'll forgive u
hope i helped!
.::Chelsea::.
Ok, so I'm a fourteen year old girl and to start off with, I have recently broken up with a boyfriend I had for over a year. I loved him very very much, and still do. He says he still loves me as well, but he moved and I never see him so it's too hard to be anything more than friends. Well recently, I've been hanging out with another guy a lot. He and I are both in marching band, so we see each other a whole lot. Well yesterday, we had a band compeition starting at eleven AM, and the bus got to the school at 1:30AM. Well at the compeition we were hanging out a whole lot, and on the bus ride home he started using me as a pillow again(this isn't anything new) and I subconsciously started playing with his hair. All of a sudden, my hand slipped into his and the next thing I know we're holding hands. See, what I'm wondering is, is it okay to be slowly falling in love with this new guy while I still have feelings for my ex? Is it fair to him? Help.
u can't help falling in love, it just happens.... like to me i like this guy named.... wait sorry back to u. i think there's always something u like more about one guy than the other i had to choose,... and im still together with him. just jot down sum notes of what u like best of both guys and see who has the bigger list. tell me how it works out @ cowsoink on advicenators or piggiessaymoo on aim/aol. i hope i helped in some way or another!!
.::Chelsea::.
im kind of going out with a guy now, but how do i kno when the time is right to kiss him first? Does anybody have any good ideas of when and where is the best time? lol Thanks alot!!
at night in the movies at a romantic movie :-)