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Well, I'm a very quiet, shy person when you first meet me. But, once you get to know me, I become more talkative & hopefully fun to be around! If I come off as a bitch, I definitely don't mean it. I'm just working on trying to get over my shyness. But, I love listening to other people & trying to help with their problems. I love giving advice.

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About every 3 minutes or so, my computer opens up the calculator from windows! i used it once the other day, but i didnt do anything that would give me a virus. i dont know whats going on. any ideas on what it is and how to get rid of it? ALL FIVES

thats crazy. mine just started doing it today too! I don't know what to do about it. I am going to scan my computer to see if that helps but we will see.

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Yesterday I had my first attempt at scrunching my hair. I used the product 'Sprunch' by Aussie, but I'm not so sure I did it right. I got out of the shower, and dried my hair until it was just damp, and not soaking wet. Then I sprayed in the stuff and scrunched itttt. It only took like 8 minutes, so do you guys think I went to fast and wasn't patient enough or something? Because my hair didn't come out really scrunched by the time it dried, it was just likee my natural wavy hair, but I want it scrunched. Can anyone who scrunches their hair tell me how long to scrunch it for, and maybe some other tips to get it looking really good. I would like to wear my hair to school tmorrow scrunched, but I need to know the right way to do it first.

THANK YOUU.

Hm...I've never used that stuff before. I use regular gel. The best kind of gel is Biolage. I normally put it in my hair after I let it towel dry for awhile. Otherwise its too dry & doesn't look right. Then I also spray it with hairspray it after the gel. I don't know, maybe try hairspray after you use that stuff?

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Anyone have experience with wisdom teeth?

Well, my appointment for getting my wisdom teeth surgically removed is on August 2nd. No, my wisdom teeth have not sprouted, they're still hidden inside of my gums. I'd kind of like to know what to expect. I don't want to be too freaked out but then again I don't want to be unprepared. If you or someone you know has gotten their wisdom teeth out, could you please tell me the procedures before, during, and after? I'm not too worried about the after, I know it will be painful, but I can deal with it...just not the before and during. Don't give me a website, I've already done my share of researching, I just want to hear from real people that have experienced it. Here are some questions buzzing around in my head and I would be VERY GRATEFUL if these are answered:

- Will I get a shot for anesthesia? Knowing my dentist...I don't think I will get sleeping gas. Many people say they just got sleeping gas. My last bad experience at the dentist was when I had my four permanent teeth removed. And for that they gave me shots. Boy did it hurt. I still remember my eyes watering from the pain and the blood squirting...I am really scared of shots.
- How do they keep your mouth open? My brother said they stuck a big block into his mouth. Eek. I'm not to comfortable with that either. I have pretty bad gag reflexes.
- How can I keep the empty sockets that will be there after it's all done clean? I heard about salt and water?
- Any foods you would recommend? I know I'm going to miss eating "real" food.

Thank you VERY much for your help. It really does ease my nerves a little.

I got my wisdom teeth out last summer...exactly a year ago on aug. 2nd too! I had them surgically removed at an office. I didn't have sleeping gas or anything like that but the put a needle in my arm & shot some sort of anesthetic in it to put me to sleep. Which I felt really dizzy at first & then I was out. I have no idea how they kept my mouth open...if you're asleep, you won't even know it. Because then I woke up an hour later and went to a really dark room and slept some more.

I couldn't eat or drink anything for the rest of the night because my entire mouth & tongue were numb. Dry sockets won't be a problem as long as you keep rinsing your mouth. They give you a syringe to put water in to rinse out the back of your mouth. After that first day, you will probably swell up like a chipmunk...I also had bruises on the sides of my cheeks but thats because I'm so fair-skinned.

As for other foods, I don't think you'll have a problem...as long as you rinse after you eat so the food isn't caught. Don't be nervous! Its not the greatest thing to experience but I'm sure it could be worse.

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I have a myspace website, and I want to put music on the webpage, does anyone know a website, where i could get some music to put on it ??
Thanks

musicfeet.com
urbnmix.com
musicvideocodes.com

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ok well i have a really hard time getting a tan..so i bout the SPRAY on tan not the stuff u rub and now its darker in places and i want it off

does anyone know how to get it off by tomorrow bc i have to wear a bathing suit and it look really stupid

thanks in advance

I've never used the spray from a can but I buy the foam from Bath & Body works and the only way I am able to get most of it off...its pretty time consuming so make sure you have awhile...it to just sit in the bathtub for awhile and take a washcloth & just scrub what you want off. the warm water helps it come off easier.

thats the only way I know how. Good luck!

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i was wondering, what are some websites, for like teenage girls. that we can find like quotes, and like stories of breaking up, where ypu can find poems and stuff like that.
thanks so much

try...

http://www.lovingyou.com

they have quotes & poems.

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wheres a good place to get cute cheap underwear [if u can list the styles they sell too thnx]

Gordman's. They have the cheapest thongs & boy short underwear.

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My boyfriend and me live right down the street from each other and we spend ALOT of time together. Well all of a sudden thier MOVING 35 to 40 minutes away! OMG im freaking out and i dont know if i should stay with him and see how things go or what?!?!

my boyfriend lives 45 minutes away. we've only been dating for a month but we try to see each other at least once a week. it helps if the both of you can drive so then you would be able to see each other. I guess all I can say is to try it & see how it goes...and if it doesn't get any better, you guys might have to break up.

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i straighten my hair EVERYDAY untill its straight enough..but the girls at my school have the hair thats perfectly flat..and straight ends..like pointy straight and it looks really cute..all their frizzys are hairsprayed down or something, did they fri their hair..or how do i get my hair like that?

I have the same problem. I use a cheapo ceramic straightener every day & I still end up with some wavy-ness though. It just could be the way your hair is. If its wavy, you're not going to get it perfectly straight like that no matter how much you straighten it. I also use Rusk Str8 which is a straightening cream after you wash your hair & it helps. But, if you want to try & get really straight hair, definitely invest in a ceramic straightener. They work alot better than a curling iron or just an iron straightener. But you might have to spend a good chunk of money on it though.

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Does Mystic Tan actually work? How much does it cost? Tell me everything!! Thank you soo much!

I used MysticTan for homecoming this year & it was bad. It cost me $30 for the first time but it turned out to be one of the worst spray tannings I've ever had. I guess you could try it & see how it goes for you. But I ended up being streaky & just very un-even colored.

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Does anyone know where I could get some myspace layouts?Don't say they don't have any because I know for a fact they do, but I already checked out those sites.Your help is appreciated!

Have you tried those sites where you just type in what you want & it generates the code for you? I'm not sure what kind of layout you're looking for but thats what I used for my page.

http://www.pimpwebpage.com works if thats what you're looking for.

And musicfeet.com for a video.

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This fight all started on this site called "Kiwibox"...

Okay this fight has been going on for days and I don't know how to end it. See she started this," Hoebags Club" with a couple of other friends of mine and I felt left out and it turns out that she started this club after I responded with a JOKE in another friends journal and I didn't say "j/k"

Well I ranted about it in my Random journal and Things got out of hand and now 2 of the "Hoebags" are calling me a "2 year old" and " A Bitch" and I don't know how to stop the fight. I appologized and everything.

Well...Kiwibox....very interesting site. I'm a member but I'm not much on it anymore because of how the people have been on there. Alot of things like that go on there & most people like to start over on a different name & forget all about the other things.

Or...you could find another site? Idk, Kiwibox is fun but it defintely gets out of hand sometimes.

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does anyone know any jobs you can get when your 14...?


14/f/ct

Not very many places around here hire 14-year-olds. They barely hire 15-year-olds because you are so limited to the things you can do. I guess you could try a fast food place but you won't get very many hours because of what you can/can't do. I'm guessing they don't have detasseling in CT. Thats one thing you could do, but I kind of doubt they have that up there.

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ok so i'm 15 and i really like this guy and he liked me too, for a while, then he changed his mind about me, i still like him though and i want to have a relationship with him. How can i get him to like me again?

I don't think there's really a whole lot you can do to change his mind again. But if you really want to try to get him to like you again, don't rush into things because that will just scare him away even more.

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Ok so heres the story, me n my bf broke up like over 7 months ago. I know its sad but I'm still in love with him and cant come over the fact that I'm not the love of his life anymore. See we dated for over 9 months and he even asked me to marry him and gave me a ring...this guy had me believe we actually were gonna spend the rest of our lives together. I went away for the summer and we still talked none-stop and then he started talking to his ex gf and he started having feelings for her again and so we "took a break" then somehow it turned into a break up. I dont know what I did wrong, and now we barly talk and he says hes in love with someother girl who already has a bf and doesnt love him back...I dont understand, he knows I still love him , or I least I hope he does, so he knows that if he ever feels alone I'll be here. But she doesnt love him so why cant he just stop trying so hard on here and give me another chance. I'm a different person now I have friends now and I do everything with them, not like when we dated I only had him and so we did everything together, but now I just want another chance. Is this bad for me thinking that I'm still in love with a guy that treats me like crap? Is it bad I cry about 3 times a day and probably cry about 4 out of the 7 days? Should I like see a shrink or somthing? Please help

Ooo, this is tough. I know what you are going through because I'm kind of going through the same thing. But I know that we aren't ever going to get back together because we've been broken up for 7 months also but we've both changed & don't have the same interests anymore. I think since you guys haven't been together for 7 months, it would be hard to get back together because you both have changed & maybe have different interests than you did when you guys were still going out. You definitely shouldn't see a shrink but maybe you could try being friends with him again. Maybe you guys could pick up where you left off because he's not magically going to fall in love with you right away.

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I am 14 and a freshen in high school. I live in a small town where girls have been friends since they first started school and they dont really like to hang out with anybody but their crew. The popular girls share a lot of the same interests as I do and I really want to become friends with them but they seem as if they could care less. Most guys say I am wicked hot and thats what I though it took to become popular.I want to know how to become close friends with the popular girls also want to know how to become popular.
Sincerly,
Danigurl

The same thing happened when I started middle school in this small town. Everyone had been friends since kindergarten & didn't really care about new people coming in. Of course, the people I hang out with share the same interests as they do but I'm not really sure there's a whole lot you can do about it. I guess just start up a conversation with one of the popular girls about something you both have in common. But being popular isn't everything, just a social status.

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How do i move on? i broke up with my boyfriend because i was pissssed off at him cuz i found out shit about him that he didnt tell me himself. He was trying to get back with me but i didnt want to even though i still have feelings for him. Now we dont talk and i want him back!!! but i cant, so how do i move on? what are things that i can do to heal my broken heart?

I've just been going through the same thing. Honestly, your better off without him. If he's been doing stuff behind your back & not telling you about it, thats just wrong. Hm...to heal your broken heart, just start doing things you enjoy & don't dwell about your break-up with him. There are other guys out there who will treat you better.

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13/f
Does anyone know any really good books about stuff like romance, death,depression, all that fun stuff. i have already read the lovely bones and it is my absolute FAVORITE book. nothing to happy...but does anyone know a really good book that has the same kind of mood as the lovely bones.
Oh yeah...and P.S. there is this one book my friend was telling me about where this woman loses all her money and sells her daughter to this prostitute house. its called like "reading me love" but i could never find it...i dont even know if thats the title!! Thanks.

Go Ask Alice is an awesome book. I recommend that for you to read.

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Hey MiSSc here,
I'm kinda bored with my hair. It's layered, brown, thick, and maybe 2 inches off my shoulder. What can I do to make it more like a celebrities hair but something fast and easy but looks good? Lately I've been wearing pulled up because I don't know what to do with it. I want it beautiful, full, but fast and easy to do. Any advice?

Do you have a flat-iron? I say get a ceramic straightener. I have really thick hair & I use that every day to get straight hair. Or if you aren't into the straight hair thing, what about flipping your hair out? It would look cute especially with the layers. I also do that with my hair. You can flip your hair out with a flat-iron too to get smaller flips or use just a round-barrel one.

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