Question Posted Wednesday December 8 2004, 10:36 pm
How do i move on? i broke up with my boyfriend because i was pissssed off at him cuz i found out shit about him that he didnt tell me himself. He was trying to get back with me but i didnt want to even though i still have feelings for him. Now we dont talk and i want him back!!! but i cant, so how do i move on? what are things that i can do to heal my broken heart?
lollypopgurl769 answered Thursday December 9 2004, 9:35 pm: aww, i can totally relate! i know it sucks, but like you said he kept stuff from you, and thats not good. but it seems like you still like him. i mean, you said it yourself that you still have feelings for him and he wants to get back with you... so maybe why won't you just maybe try things out again? me and my x bf went out for like a week, lol, sad isn't it, and then the second time it was for like 2 months... lol but you know what i mean. but if you really want to get over him, then well yeah its gonna be hard but just reminf yourself all the bad shit he did and talk to other guys. thats the best advice i can give you. i mean just go out and have fun! [ lollypopgurl769's advice column | Ask lollypopgurl769 A Question ]
xXBlondieXx answered Thursday December 9 2004, 5:25 pm: okay well he sounds like a fucking loser so just take my advice and say SCREW YOU!! if he cant be honest with you then whats the point of wasting your preciose time wishing you can have him back. there are plenty other guys out there waiting for you and your hotness!*!*!
Courtney answered Thursday December 9 2004, 8:26 am: Well, there's really not a way to move on quickly if the fling wasn't really intense and passionate in a good way . It comes with time and time you'll have . You mature with time and time will show you that you two just aren't meant to be although you could except those differences which show you that you two weren't meant to be . But why do that ? It'll be sort of like sacrificing your beliefs . SO I know it's not a brilliant answer , but I do hope that I was some help .Have a nice day . [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
Daisy answered Thursday December 9 2004, 8:23 am: Hi there. People always say that the time it takes to mend a broken heart is half the amount of time you went out with him for. But I don't know how long you went out with him for! If you still like him and think you want to get back with him then you have to think about the fact that if he has kept things from you before then he might well do again. You need to start talking to him again cos the main reason you aren't talking is because you said know when he tried to get back with you again. When this happens, guys will always block you out and not want to talk toyou because that's their way of dealing with getting over you. Could you start by emailing or texting him if you find it too difficult talking face to face? If you do talk face to face don't do it if he is with his mates because he will be acting up in front of them. If you really do want to get back with him then you have to try hard at becoming friends with him first, getting the trust back and telling him that in a relationship you have to be honest with one another. If you don't want to get back with him the best thing to do is go out with your mates and spend time with them going to the cinema or other things that will take your mind off him and your feelings. I have been in your situation and it is tough to begin with but every day gets a little bit better I promise. [ Daisy's advice column | Ask Daisy A Question ]
PleaseHelpMe answered Thursday December 9 2004, 2:29 am: Try spending time with your friend and doing things to take him off your mind. Remember if he did something wrong you shoulnt take him back, other guys will treat you better. Also try getting to know different guys. Maybe you'll find another one you like and you'll forget about your ex. And by talking to him it's only going to make you want him more, and if thats not what you want, then I sugjest not talking to him at all, or atleast until you've gotten over him. I know it's hard, but good luck! [ PleaseHelpMe's advice column | Ask PleaseHelpMe A Question ]
foreverxserene answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 11:32 pm: I've just been going through the same thing. Honestly, your better off without him. If he's been doing stuff behind your back & not telling you about it, thats just wrong. Hm...to heal your broken heart, just start doing things you enjoy & don't dwell about your break-up with him. There are other guys out there who will treat you better. [ foreverxserene's advice column | Ask foreverxserene A Question ]
Been_There_Done_That answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 11:26 pm: awe i been there! either find a new man or cut ur self off from him me an my bf of 3 years jus broke up cuz he cheated an then didn tell me himself.. i tried to stay frieneds with him it wont work jus drop everything dont talk to each other until ur over the feelings i kno its hard but i did it u can too! good luck to ya! and remember theres other fishes in the sea [ Been_There_Done_That's advice column | Ask Been_There_Done_That A Question ]
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