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He's MOVING
My boyfriend and me live right down the street from each other and we spend ALOT of time together. Well all of a sudden thier MOVING 35 to 40 minutes away! OMG im freaking out and i dont know if i should stay with him and see how things go or what?!?!
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Long distance relationships can be tough but if you really feel that strongly about each other, than keep the relationship moving forward but it will be tough and things may be awkward...Just follow your heart...Hope i helped..
CRystal_Lake
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well if he is only moving 40 min. away you could still see eachother. so i would stay with him.. if you think you can. things could still work out. i mean.. you just wont see him everyday, but that would make seeing him 10x better. right?
so i would most deff. stay with him!
relax, it will be fine.
Justine <3
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you should deffinitley stay with him. obviously you guys love eachother alot. you should see how it goes for the first couple of weeks being in a long distance relationship. if things start getting weird, then you should talk to him about it and maybe work out just being friends or work out seeing eachother every couple of weekends and see how it goes. you never know, he could be the "one" so you shouldnt break up with him just because he's moving.
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Stay with him! I mean it's not like he is moving out of state.
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You're freaking out because its half an hour away? Riiight. Kinda stupid dont cha think?
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Well it is your chose what you want.So do you have any body that can take you to his house.If it was me i would stay with him if i liked him alot.So if you like him alot stay with him and find a way to see him.
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I think you should give it a shot. Follow your heart and believe in what you guys have and you can't go wrong
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stay with him if you really like him. it mite work out but you'll never know until you try.
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Aww it's okay sweetie. 35-40 minutes apart from each other isn't that big of a deal. My best friend and her boyfriend live like 20 minutes away from each other and they've been going out for 4 months! So, I think you guys can do it. Just spend as much time as you guys can. Just arrange days on when you two can see each other and when you guys won't be able to see each other. If you two really care about each other as much as it looks like, then you guys can make it through. Good luck with everything!! And if you need anymore help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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Amen, Naomi. Seriously (first off, its 'my boyfriend and I') You are SO tripping over nothing. Ever hear of phone calls? And plus, if hes THAT far away, it should be good because when you see him again, the time you spend with him is precious and you should cherish it more. Thats what you get for taking advantage of things. Stay with him. If he cheats on you, then hes not worth your time. And if your totally gonna go balistic if he breaks it off... you can borrow my kitchen knife =]
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Wow, CHILL! It's only 30 minutes away babe, this might be a GOOD thing. Spending TOO much time with a guy can lead to problems. Maybe this little seperation is good for your relationship. Then, yall will be more eager to see each other. ;) Good luck babe!
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my boyfriend lives 45 minutes away. we've only been dating for a month but we try to see each other at least once a week. it helps if the both of you can drive so then you would be able to see each other. I guess all I can say is to try it & see how it goes...and if it doesn't get any better, you guys might have to break up.
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unfornunately your gonna have to let him go. when he moves he may wanna see other people and so will you. if you ask me, long distance relationships are just painful and they dont work. sorry hun, but your best option would be to break up when he leaves you 40 miles behind. good luck!
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35 minutes isnt that long away..hopefully you drive :) haha. as long as you see each other and keep in contact i dont see why it wouldnt work
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