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for spirit week me and my best friend want to be a movie duo for the celebrity look-a-like day. what are some cool girl duos? we have to make t-shirts so people know who we are (link)
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If you watch Gossip Girl, Serena and Blair would be awesome!
Rachel and Monica from Friends.
Portia de Rossi and Ellen Degeneres.
Britney Spears and Christina Aguilera (not duos, but you still think of one, you think the other).
I can't think of any more right now, haha.
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i need a song about liking someone alotttt buut being too afraid to tell them.
thx. :] (link)
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Teardrops On My Guitar- Taylor Swift
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Hi, I really hope you can help; i've gotten mixed responses from others...
Basically, my BF discovered that in my senior year of college (I graduated last year) I had taken two semesters worth of judo classes and he thought this was really funny b/c I don't look like, I guess, a "typical" jock chick--that is i'm not muscular or buff or whatever...i'm your stereotypical "girly girl" in appearance--tall, skinny, blond hair, blah blah blah and I'm like 125 lbs....so he's laughing at me, calling me "judogirl", etc., and I was fine w/all that, if a little annoyed, but then he made a mistake: he challenged me to a wrestling match...and I beat him.
He outweighs me by like 40 lbs. and is pretty strong but he didn't understand that my judo skills would use his strength against him and he just couldn't believe I won. I figured it was a one-time deal, but he was so bent out of shape that he's challenged me several times since then, and I've defeated him every time. It would be OK if he didn't take it so seriously, but he just becomes this mean pouty jerk when he loses and keeps challenging me and now i've refused to wrestle him b/c it's no fun and I hate his sexist attitude as well. But refusing to wrestle just makes him angrier and he says stuff like "you're just afraid i'll figure out your 'tricks' and win...it's so annoying!
I've considered just faking it and letting him win but I don't REALLY want to do that b/c I'm proud of my skills, and just wish he would be too...plus when he baits me w/all this "you're just a girl" crap, it gets my goat and i'm more than happy to throw him to the floor and pin him when he gets too tired to fight me off...
Have you ever beaten a boy at something athletic--whether martial arts or sports--or know a girl who has? B/c maybe if I can tell him he's not the only one he won't feel so bad... (link)
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First off, thank you!
Well your boyfriend needs to realize that even though he's bigger and that he's a male, it's okay lose to a girl. Times are changing, and both sexes are equal now, EVEN physically (sometimes). Girls can be athletic, strong, do judo, wrestle, etc. Why is it such a big deal when you beat him!? Maybe you should remind him that you have experience in judo, so you know how to kick pretty much anyone's butt.. not just his. Maybe go further to remind him that he's better at baseball then you are, or that he kicks ass in card games (these are just examples). Remind him you may be better at this, but he is still better than you at other things.
And yes- I've beaten guys in a few things.. maybe not wrestling, not gonna lie.. my boyfriend is way bigger than me, and he pins me like it's not even a lift of his finger. But I've beaten guys at sports.. football, volleyball, etc. They get peeved, but they really need to learn- girls CAN win too!!
Hope this helps hun!
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Ok so this is a stupid question and some people will probably make fun of me for saying this. But I am a HUGE fan of the Jonas Brothers! I have been a fan for a long time! They aren't going back on tour for a while and I would really want to communicate with them! I'm thinking about sending them a letter and I just want to know if anybody else has ever sent them one and if they know if they get it or not. dumb question I know, but I'm a crazy fan! haha. (link)
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A picture of you in a red dress, and high heels. =P Haha just kidding. I'm also a fan, so good luck! Hope they write back!!
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15/f
i got this dress for homecoming
http://www.charlotterusse.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3227253
what color should i paint my nails and toe nails? (link)
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French manicure with a silver and black line. So pretty! Or a nice shade of red would look awesome! =]
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16/F
I'm taking a driver's ed class. I got my class portion done with, and now I have to go through four driving sessions to pass and get my license. I took one of my sessions almost two weeks ago and it didn't go so well. I was really nervous. I kept using the brake and was so nervous being around the instructer. I'm fine when Im in the car with my parents, but when I was with the driving instructer (knowing he was watching my ever move and how well i was doing) I got really nervous. My next session is on Monday and Im extremely paranoid about it. I know im good enough to pass the class because I know the basics and drive all the time, but I have some issues with driving and being graded on my driving. Does anyone have any advice on how to be more relaxed while im with the instructer? Please...any advice will be greatly appreciated =] (link)
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We all go through it, and I know nerves can get the best of us. You're right, it's kinda scary when someone's watching your every move. But you said yourself, you know what you're doing! Just be confident in front of the instructor too! Trust me, he understands that the students get a little bit nervous. As long as you aren't veering off the roads, you can't be that bad! As far as hitting the brakes a lot, I did that! Just stay calm, breathe easy, and try not to stress! Cuz it's your nerves making you hit the brakes, not your driving skills. Good luck hun!! =]
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okk so what does an orgaism for a girl feel like?? and i dont want any of that, "oh it feels really good." ya, ik it feels good. i want details. like, what you actually feel. (link)
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It's so hard to explain. Like for a guy to orgasm, it's just BOOM cum, and you're done. But for a girl, in my opinion, it is SO much better. Like, your whole body goes into the orgasm. Of course it starts from your clit or g-spot, but it seriously works its way up through your entire body. It's amazing. It's like a tingling, warm sensation, and you just explode. And the good thing about our orgasms, is that it lasts for like a good 30 or more seconds, and we can orgasm more than once. =]
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okay well me and my boyfriend have sex alot but we had sex while i was on my period then right when i came off of my period and both of those times he cummed a little inside me beacuse he didnt pull out in time .
i cant remember if your more likely to get pregnant while your on your period , right before or right after your period ? some people say you cant get pregnant if you have sex during your period ? i need to know when your most likely and least likely to get pregnant ! (link)
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The idea of being less likely to get pregnant while on your period, is nothing more than a myth. I advise you get a pregnancy test as soon as possible. If you aren't pregnant, make sure you use a condom next time, and everytime, whether you are on your period or not.
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Ok so Im a 18/f
umm well I like this guy hes 22 and he seems to like me back. we have a lot in common, we go to the same church and for me thats a big plus.
the thing is that well sometimes i get the impression that he really likes me and this kinda worries me sometimes because of the age gap.im afraid that hed either play me because im younger or want a super serious relationship because of his age. i really dont know what i would do if he ask me out. my friends tell me that guys his age already think of marriage and Im definitely not ready for that but I do have feelings for this guy but I dont know what I should do
any advice anyone? (link)
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If you really like this guy, and you have so much in common, go for it! All my guy friends are around that age, none of them are planning on marrying anytime soon. I think this generation raised the age of marriage bar way higher than it used to be. I'd say late 20s.. so you guys might have a way to go. Bottom line, if you see yourself with this man, and he asks you out.. why wouldn't you say yes? Be true to yourself, and don't let what your friends say influence that.
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so my boyfriend fingered me last friday and he was kinda ruff, but i got home a i had blood on my underwear and i woke up on monday and it hurt to pee.
well it only hurts at the end when i'm almost done.
but what could it be.
i thought it was a Urinary Tract Infection..
but i have noo idea.
anything would be extra great.
thanks.
f/16 (link)
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Hey girl! I'm 19/f. Been there, done that! So.. he may or may not have "popped your cherry" but one thing you should know.. this does not mean he de-virginized you, and it is certainly nothing to worry about.
About the pain you are having when you pee.. Don't stress just yet. This happens a lot of the time because when a guy fingers you, it's most likely he didn't wash his hands before he did it. (I'm just assuming.) SO it might be a minor UTI, but even if, it's no biggie. Girls are very prone to this. So just drink a lot of cranberry juice, and be very careful not to irritate it anymore for a little while.
Don't worry too much! It'll all be fine, I promise!!
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hi,
I am 26 year old female from Texas, USA, My current weight is 145 pounds,I want to loose 15 pounds by march end for my brothers marriage?
I am vegetarian and stopped eating fatty and junk food since 2 months. Still I am not able to loose weight inspite of doing 2 times hworkout in a week.
please advice me how should i achive my target weight which is 135 by march end?
thanks
Hema (link)
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Exercise more. Trust me, 2 times a week is not nearly enough. Since your goal isn't that much, try maybe 4 times a week, and work out for at least 30 minutes each time.
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This guy that I've been friends with for a couple of years just got divorced. He told me that he wants to get married to me. He has never had children and said he wants to start a family with me. My concern is that he is 45, 17 years older then me. If we started to have children, by the time my child was 18 he would be in his 60's!! I am also concerned because he is quite old fashioned, and would want me to be a stay at home mom. I just got a promotion at work, and I don't want to have to quit it so soon. I've only been with the company for 4 months. He also has a tendancy to treat me like a child, has a bad temper, and is very tight with his money. He's also very possesive of me. I don't know what to do. He would be a good father, and I know I'd be a good mother, but I don't think I'm ready to start a family. My job is too important to me right now. And he seems really desperate to have a child, he's not getting any younger. Does anyone have any advice? (link)
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If you're having these thoughts hun, obviously he's not the one. He's just a friend, tell him that. You can't "settle" into something that you can't picture happening. Don't pressure yourself either, wait for when it feels right.
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i want to dance like to hip hop music, is there a website i can go to? ( dont tell me to google search it ) but my friends tell me i need to loosen up and stuff and idk how to do that lol thanks!
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well.. http://www.pfunkonline.com/ is a site to buy tapes. and another one is http://rap.about.com/library/blbreakdancecoverpage.htm i didnt study it but it looks pretty cool!
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what do you guys think of sweatpants?? in er out?? i have these maroon ones that say basketball on the butt & idk if i should wear em with like a white hollister hoodie.
any ideas?? i'm tired of wearing jeans (link)
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That's definitely cute. I think it's *in.* I love my sweatpants
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Heyy,i just want to know....
is there anything i could do to stop split ends from the straitener? or any srpay to put on befor/after straitening hair?
thanks! :] (link)
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Ugh I have the saaaaame problem. Go to like an A&P or something, they have plenty of hair stuff, like frizz eaze, and whatnot. Spread it through your hair while it's damp, then blowdry. And straighten. It works for the most part. Oh and take breaks from this, don't straighten everyday or you'll be fried! Maybe after you finish straightening it, put just a little hair spray in your palm and smooth it onto the ends. Don't go overboard!
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for a little over two months and everything seemed great, but for the past week or so it just feels like I don't love him anymore. We mostly talk online and when we do I don't say much to him and I get aggervated a lot with him. When I do get to see him it's basically the same, I don't feel anything for him. I don't know how to tell him I wanna break up with him cause I think it would hurt him because he tells my best friend that he loves me so much and would hate it if we ever broke up.. so I'm not sure what to do. Any suggestions would be helpful. Thanks. (link)
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Well would you be happy sticking with someone you can no longer say you "love." Think about it, you're unhappy.. to make him happy? The longer you wait, the harder it'll get. Trust me, just get it over with. He'll get over it, and you'll be able to move on. Sometimes you gotta think about yourself you know? Hope I helped kiddo.
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So apparently you are 17 now huh?? i didnt realize that May 11th passed already. you little nerd.
~love
your one and only, irreplaceable
sis (link)
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lol i put that cuz im gonna be soon, i'll be too lazy to change it or i'll forget when the time comes.
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Yeah.. I basically love your guts.. (link)
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Aww I love you too!!! Thanks
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Okay I'll be direct with the question, I've been with my girlfriend for about a month now and we wanted to take it to the next level. When we were doing the deed one night I asked if I could give it to her anally. She said no right away and made me leave. My problem is, how can I convince her to have anal sex with me? Is it possible? Have you had anal sex?
Anyways, your help would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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Anyone who wants anal should go for guys, they like that. So basically just go gay. Obviously you don't wanna be straight, anal is for the males and.. males only. Besides 1/1000 girls would actually say yes.. so uhm good luck. I'd stick with the coochie.
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Okay, basically. I have a HUGE crush right now. i'm a sophomore, he's a junior. He hangs out with a different crowd than i do and the only time i see him is in band and jazzband afterschool. I came up with an excuse to talk to him online, and we've been talking more and more through aim. It's almost gotten to the point where i might call him a friend. Everytime i see him, or think of him, i get butterflies in my stomach, and every time he smiles so do i. I just think he's amazing. Smart, funny, talented, unique... but i don't know what to do next. I think we may need to get to know eachother a bit more before we actually date or something but i'm not sure how to go about that. And i'm afraid if i ask him out and he says no, that things will be even more akward. I'm always thinking about him. I don't know what to do.
Any suggestions? (link)
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Well since you both are in the band that's amazing, and a perfect start. Do you guys play together, maybe on AIM (or while in band class) you can invite him over. Just be like "You know it'd be cool if we practiced together sometime." Take the AIM convos to the next step, like ask about what's going on in his life. Become his friend, and when that's achieved, start casually flirting, like mess up his hair (don't go overboard) tell him you love the feeling of his hair. Stuff like that, maybe he'll catch feelings for you. Just go with your instincts. Wait awhile though before if you work up the courage to ask him out. Way too soon, may look you look desperate. GOOD LUCK, hope I helped.
xxManda
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