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popped cherry.


Question Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 10:17 pm

so my boyfriend fingered me last friday and he was kinda ruff, but i got home a i had blood on my underwear and i woke up on monday and it hurt to pee.
well it only hurts at the end when i'm almost done.
but what could it be.
i thought it was a Urinary Tract Infection..
but i have noo idea.
anything would be extra great.
thanks.
f/16

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thelaura answered Wednesday May 14 2008, 9:01 am:
It could be the start of a UTI, yes. Or perhaps you have small cuts down there for some reason - maybe from him being a little rough?
Do you have any other noticeable symptoms at all?
Frequent need to urinate, pain/burning when urinating, fever, cloudy urine, blood in urine... They all point to some form of bladder infection. Sometimes, people don't get symptoms, though.
So I urge you to go to a doctor if it doesn't go away within 3 days, as you may need antibiotics.
What you don't want to do is leave it (if it is a UTI), because it can spread to your kidneys making you very sick.
If it is a UTI, don't worry because they're very common - especially amongst girls and women who are just becoming sexually active.
If there's a next time, make sure he has clean hands and don't be afraid to tell him if he's being too rough.

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AEangel589 answered Wednesday May 14 2008, 2:46 am:
Hey girl! I'm 19/f. Been there, done that! So.. he may or may not have "popped your cherry" but one thing you should know.. this does not mean he de-virginized you, and it is certainly nothing to worry about.

About the pain you are having when you pee.. Don't stress just yet. This happens a lot of the time because when a guy fingers you, it's most likely he didn't wash his hands before he did it. (I'm just assuming.) SO it might be a minor UTI, but even if, it's no biggie. Girls are very prone to this. So just drink a lot of cranberry juice, and be very careful not to irritate it anymore for a little while.

Don't worry too much! It'll all be fine, I promise!!

<3 x0x

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yourstruly answered Wednesday May 14 2008, 2:44 am:
It might be. The best idea is to go to a gyno though. You can never be too safe with your vagina.

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