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breaking up
I've been going out with my boyfriend for a little over two months and everything seemed great, but for the past week or so it just feels like I don't love him anymore. We mostly talk online and when we do I don't say much to him and I get aggervated a lot with him. When I do get to see him it's basically the same, I don't feel anything for him. I don't know how to tell him I wanna break up with him cause I think it would hurt him because he tells my best friend that he loves me so much and would hate it if we ever broke up.. so I'm not sure what to do. Any suggestions would be helpful. Thanks.
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before thinking of breaking up with him, you have to think to yourself if it's really worth the loss. a lotta relationships have their moments when you feel uninterested with the other. it's all a part of love. Even when one says they hate the other and things might even get physical with some, but this seems like a minor problem. just think how it would be without him in your life. if it seems like it'll be the same and if it'll feel like you haven't lost anything important, then it's your decision to break up with him and remain friends. sometimes when you lose someone, it's hard to get them back. so you have to realize what you're about to lose. good luck with it (;
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As hard as it may be for him since he does love you, in your case though, if you feel like you're only holding on for his sake...you should break it off now before he gets too attached and either A: it will hurt him even worse if you were to put it off, or B: you'll let it get even more serious and you still aren't AS HAPPY as you could be in the future with someone else. It will hurt him if you break up, but what's not there, isn't there. My last b/f broke up w/ me cause he didn't "feel the spark anymore". But, even though I was really bummed when he broke it off, we were almost at 3 months, so he didn't wait forever, and I'm okay now. It was 2 months ago that we broke up and I'm fine. He may be different but you have to expect every relationships is different. Just tell him that you want to be friends (if you do want to, and if you say so, act on it), and that you just don't feel that chemistry you used to. Good luck and I hope that helped.
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From experiece i know that it is a lot easier o deal with rejection after 2 months than 3 months..so do both of you guys a favour and get it over with, in the long run it will save him from greater grief, and yourself from being with some one you have no feelings for. Good luck
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Perhaps you should try talking things through with him first and see if you can solve your problems before you resort to dumping him. Try to work out the reasons behind why you are so aggrevated and try to work through them with him. Perhaps subconciously it is because you dont see each other as much that you are getting annoyed, perhaps you wish you could see him more. Whatever it is, do try to sort it out as if you dump him, afterwards you may end up regretting it.
Hope everything turns out okay
Sapphire Lily xxx
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Well would you be happy sticking with someone you can no longer say you "love." Think about it, you're unhappy.. to make him happy? The longer you wait, the harder it'll get. Trust me, just get it over with. He'll get over it, and you'll be able to move on. Sometimes you gotta think about yourself you know? Hope I helped kiddo.
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