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A Fight between online friends...
This fight all started on this site called "Kiwibox"...
Okay this fight has been going on for days and I don't know how to end it. See she started this," Hoebags Club" with a couple of other friends of mine and I felt left out and it turns out that she started this club after I responded with a JOKE in another friends journal and I didn't say "j/k"
Well I ranted about it in my Random journal and Things got out of hand and now 2 of the "Hoebags" are calling me a "2 year old" and " A Bitch" and I don't know how to stop the fight. I appologized and everything.
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If you've all ready apologized...There is really not much more that you can do about it. You can try talking to them one more time, explaining that it was just a joke, that you didn't mean to hurt anyone's feelings...You get the point. They can either listen and get over it, or they can continue to act like 2 year olds and bitches themselves.
If they don't get over it...Hey, it's not your fault that they have the maturity of a toddler. I know I sound terribly insensitive, but I just think that the whole situation is ridiculous. Why they are upset is ridiculous, that they haven't gotten over it is ridiculous...Ridiculous, ridiculous...I think that you are the only adult in the group, and shouldn't feel bad for it. If you're the only adult in your online circle, find some new online friends. You've probably got more important things to think about than this anyway...Ja! ;)
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Let them cool down, they are just mad for now. You apologized, what else is there to do?! Good luck.
-Brianna
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what the hell are you talking about? who cares? are you a girl?
are you hot?
-htiler
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If they are online friends, then block them from your computer. And if you see them at school or in some part of your daily life, then find a friend that is really big and scary and tell them if they dont stop bothering you, then you will have your friend beat them up. lol.
~WestsideAngel~
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Just ignore them!!!!! You have said your sorry you dont need to say anymore if they start saying stuff about you just drop in a message that your not wasting your time on them and tell them that there acting childish. Dont say your sorry again because it just sounds like your giving up.
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You have to really talk to these people. Tell them you're sorry about everything that happened. It was just a joke, and you didn't mean for it to be taken offensively. If they do't accept the apology, then just wait for it to blow over. If it never blows over, are those friends you want to have? Real friends shouldn't hold grudges. ♥ Kristen
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that's happened to me before...okay...you just need to PrAy about it....and ask GOD for forgiveness FIRST....then what you need to do...is you need to talk to your friend...and even if she acts like she doesnt want to listen, she does...so if she trys to walk away or something, DONT let her! then you need to tell her that youre sorry and you would NEVER do something to hurt her feelings, and you didn't mean what you said the journal and that it was meant to be a complete joke and you weren't serious....and at first, she might not believe/forgive you...but just give it time...in the end she'll get over it...but if she doesn't...she isn't worth your time...a true friend will believe you over time...and forgive you...they will be waiting for you to speak up and tell her you're sorry... but if that's not what happens...then it's for the better, and yeah that sucks when it happens....but everything happens for a reason!
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Well...Kiwibox....very interesting site. I'm a member but I'm not much on it anymore because of how the people have been on there. Alot of things like that go on there & most people like to start over on a different name & forget all about the other things.
Or...you could find another site? Idk, Kiwibox is fun but it defintely gets out of hand sometimes.
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Chances are, if you just let it be for a while, it'll just blow over.
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OOOOOH! Send me the site. I love online arguments!
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