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But he has a g/f!


Question Posted Monday October 4 2004, 8:21 pm

Theres this guy I like and he likes me. I am 13 and he is 15 and hes liked me for a long time and same for me but we both just found out that we liked eachother about 2 months ago. Well he was about to ask me out but thought I'd say no b/c I was 12 then and there was 3 year age diff. He gots a g/f now and he says he still likes me though and he got kinda drunk one night and was all touching me and tried to get me to kiss him but he has a gf so I said no and he kept trying to covince me but I didnt want him to get in trouble by his gf so I refused but now I wish I had kissed him and he was pretty drunk but even when he isnt he still wants me to kiss him but its hard to know if hes joking or not because he has a big sense of humor and i was like are u joking he kept saying no. But how can I tell if hes joking? and would it have been wrong if I kissed him? Sry this is so long and I appriciate you reading this and thx for your advice in advance. As long as you answer i'll rate 5 unles ur answer is ridiculous. Thankz, luv ya!

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~*Annie*~ answered Tuesday October 5 2004, 4:48 pm:
Well, first of all, if a boy is really drunk, then it's not like he's really going to make much sense. Try picturing yourself with him: Him getting drunk every weekend and smelling like beer, while wanting to make out with you. He might even manipulate you into start underage drinking as well, which is extremely dangerous! Later on in life, he might get in trouble for even worse crimes than underage drinking, and he might pressure you into things you don't want to do. Honestly, I don't think that he deserves you. Simply tell him you're not interested anymore. And P.S. if you even witnessed him cheating on his current girlfriend, how loyal do you think he'll be as your boyfriend?

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xjustaskmex answered Monday October 4 2004, 8:59 pm:
if you like him.. and he likes you.. whats the problem? i mean i understand where your coming from.. u dont want a bad reputation if he has a gf.. but u could always say D0Nt YEll At ME YEll At HiM ;D .. u must be nervous because the guy you like wants to like.. cheat on his gf with you so i think u should talk to him.. it would be more embaressing to think/assume something and mess up than to ask what the hell is going on!

i hope i helped!
x____ jjuulliiaannaa

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GeorgiaGirl1010 answered Monday October 4 2004, 8:35 pm:
lt shouldnt matter if he has a gf or not, you like him right? So dont be afraid to tell him how you feel about this sitition and his "new" gf...you never know, he might still feel the same way back, and about the kissing part, l would just do it, because l bet it would make you feel alot better, and if his gf finds out, just deny it, hows she gunna know?

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cowsoink answered Monday October 4 2004, 8:34 pm:
Well, sorry to say this but u gotta go with your gut feeling. This is your decision.Good luck!
~*Chelsea*~

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