Member Since: October 4, 2004
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(i'm a junior girl, the guy in question is a senior) Okay, so i went out with this guy for 3 months a while back, but i dumped him over the summer. I did it for lots of reasons- bc i didnt really like him nemore, it was getting too serious for me(mentally, emotionally, and i was a liitle worried taht it would become too much sexually although i know i could say "no" at any time and he would have totally been ok with it.) anyways, i also kinda did it bc there was this other guy i kinda liked. Afterwards, i totally regreted afterwards. He was so good to me especilly bc i was younger. We were both involved in the same extra-curricular activties. he has currently been flirting with me and recently broken up w. his g/f to try to win me back. idk what to do. i kinda want to go for it but at the same time i dont. hes not conventionally good looking but thats not important to me. he also used have a bad rep so ppl are kinda like what r u doing dating him? but thats why we worked! we were so different taht it worked! i never really trusted him fully tho. i just dont know what to do. we had so much fun.
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It seems like we went threw alot to be with you, so I dont think its fair for him, but if you dont like him, or your better off as friends, you should just tell him how you feel truthfully because you cant hide your feelings, and its hard to care about someone you dont like...so tell him how you feel or just give it time and see how everything works out, because you dont wanna give up a really nice guy for another guy that might just be a one time thing ...
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Theres this guy I like and he likes me. I am 13 and he is 15 and hes liked me for a long time and same for me but we both just found out that we liked eachother about 2 months ago. Well he was about to ask me out but thought I'd say no b/c I was 12 then and there was 3 year age diff. He gots a g/f now and he says he still likes me though and he got kinda drunk one night and was all touching me and tried to get me to kiss him but he has a gf so I said no and he kept trying to covince me but I didnt want him to get in trouble by his gf so I refused but now I wish I had kissed him and he was pretty drunk but even when he isnt he still wants me to kiss him but its hard to know if hes joking or not because he has a big sense of humor and i was like are u joking he kept saying no. But how can I tell if hes joking? and would it have been wrong if I kissed him? Sry this is so long and I appriciate you reading this and thx for your advice in advance. As long as you answer i'll rate 5 unles ur answer is ridiculous. Thankz, luv ya! (link)
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lt shouldnt matter if he has a gf or not, you like him right? So dont be afraid to tell him how you feel about this sitition and his "new" gf...you never know, he might still feel the same way back, and about the kissing part, l would just do it, because l bet it would make you feel alot better, and if his gf finds out, just deny it, hows she gunna know?
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