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hey, i'm 15 and live with a brotehr and a mom and dad. well i get in fights with my brother and parents alot but they end up in fist fights. When me and my brotehr fight, it is really bad, and i end up being the one getting hurt the worst (he's 18) and i am the one that gets in trouble and he gets in none. but me and my mom get in major fights. she hits me a lot and kicks me and hits me with just random things. i dont know what to do about it. but of course i fight back, cause who wouldnt even tho its my mom. and my dad sees it alot but he doesnt help me to get her away. I have been hit so many times and even given a black eye by my family. i dont know what to do. i have called dfacs, but they didnt do anything and the police have been called out to my hosue too. but nothing seems to work. and there are fights about everything and it ends up with me in the middle of it and in a bunch of trouble for htings i had nothing to do with! i need serious help before something major happens! please... i hope someone out there can help me!
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Well what you should do is don't start with nobody in your house try to help them as much as you can be helpful and greatful for your family dont go calling the cops or dss thats the wrong thing to do the best you could do is sit in your little corner and leave everyone alone act as if you are taking out your stress in a beach at a hot place such as florida or wherever but always respect your elders don't take them for granted if you get hit try not to hit back that's starts the whole mix so try keeping all the anger in yourself... Any more questions write back...
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if i was you i would wait until you have a mark to show and take a picture then go to child services and show them and say that if they don't do anything about it then they could seriously hurt you and if they do then you will run away they are bound to do somthing it sounds kinda childish but it could work well good luck i hope it works if you try
love always
alex000
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omq . i know a girl who hasz the same story as you and lemme tell you somethinq u should take you and your family to a psycologist and try it out , try everythinq before even thinkinq about fister bcuusz my friend (who;'s also ym cousin) was beaten by her mom and called foster care and ii havent seen her for a while now . just trsut me iits not a good life to live . just think about doing this..next time u sence a fight coming lock yourself into a room and put the music on loud or call a friend . hope i helped i reeeally care about how u turn out. qood luck
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Ariella*
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runaway to a friends house and call the cops.i'm so sorry to here your life is like that,i'd really like to help u in anyway that i can.I HATE IT WHEN PARENTS BEAT THEIR CHILDREN!!YOU NEED TO TAKE ACTION!!!!
im here ne time!!
~*Chelsea*~
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Try talking to a therapist or something that can help you with ideas to stop your family fights. Or call abuse. Your mother hitting you is horrible and I think that is something that needs to be dealt with right away.
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