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I am a girl and 13 and i'm obsessed with a 41 year old actor, (Johnny Depp). Is this a bad thing to want to be with a man that much older than I am?
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Omgosh. Hunny, everyone is obsessed with that man. He could be my father, I don't think he's acceptionally cute though. I think he's an awesome actor. He's so gifted when it comes to acting, and you can continue thinking he's cute. But don't think want him that badly.
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im going up to New York for christmas and new years eve. Me and my friend want to do something awesome for new years eve because its the first year that were able to actually hang out with friends on new years eve, but then thing is we dont know what we want to do.. or what to do lol. what my question is, is does anyone have any ideas on what i can do for new years eve? thanks (link)
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Go watch the ball drop. That's always exciting.
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okay..theres this 1 spot on my head thats hurting like really badly!! its swollen and hurts whenever i touch it just like when my hair hits it, it starts to hurt. Any 1 have any idea what it might be??And should i ask my mom to take me to the doctor? thanx
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If you itch your scalp a lot, you could have a rash or a red spot on your scalp. If you can part your hair directly on the spot, and look in a mirror, you can probably see it, and figure out if its in need of medical care.
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Hi i need something to say (quite frankly im a little scared) to this girl who keeps telling everyone in school that im a lesbian..which im not! i wanna be a total bitch and say something to her face that will make people go "OOooh!" or give me something to tell her off with!! All i have so far is "Grr". Haha, helP! (link)
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Well, obvioulsy she's just saying it to make you mad, and it's worked pretty well. Ignore her and don't start a rumor about her because everyone will probably figure it was you. Just be cool, and don't worry about it. Soon it will be gone and you will have nothing to worry about.
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My friend has has some things happen to her this year, and she cut herself afew days ago! She is the nicest person I have ever met in my entire life and I'm not even exaderating. What should I do? (link)
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Talk to her, don't tell anyone else. Cutting is a really serious thing and it's also a very private thing.
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i didnt no which one i shud put this under illness or relationships/school well anyways.... my friend rachel has 9 bros and sis's and her mom just found out that she had cancer! rachel is the oldest and is only 12! if i try to talk to her about it she just acts like she doesnt care that much and shes telling everyone! if it is possible i want to get her on extreme makeover home edition bc her family deserves it! and if her mother dies then there will b a widow father who has to raise 9 children on his own.
~*****please help*****~
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Just act cool. Maybe she doesn't want to think about it because it makes her feel bad or something? Try and thing of fun things to do with her and try not to say anything about it.
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should i lose weight to make a guy like me? i mean i AM little overweight and my parents think so too and ive gained like 10 pounds, so im like 15 pound overweight! so i am wondering because i think guys havent asked me out yet is becuase of this! i know 2 guys who already liked me but they thought i was funny and nice and everything.. im not wow fat, but should i lose weight now? because is this the last straw? (link)
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Um. I wouldnt care about that right now. I would care about succeeding in life. Are guys really all that matter?
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okay has anyone ever like put on coverup or something and it looks all flakey? is there anyway to make them go away or a certain way to put it on without it looking like that? (link)
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To tell you the truth, I don't wear foundation. I don't see a point for it, unless you have really bad acne, i wouldnt worry about foundation.
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Whenever im cold, whether im outside or whether im inside, my nose gets so red..and it looks like ive been crying or something so its really annoying. how do i prevent this? I dont wanna start wearing foundation so if u have any other ideas they would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks!! (link)
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Maybe you just have a cold. That type of thing happens to everyone at somepoint.
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ok so,i play like every sport there is except rugby and football...cuz im a girl...all my friends say that im amazimg cuz when i get home from school iu do my homework get online then sports the rest of the night..but sometimes i goto basketball then to soccer then to lacrosse then to swimming. everyone says that i should quiet mayb 3 sports and only havge like 3 sports to do...should i quit? but i always have time for them...i rate REALLY high..*but it has to be good please!) (link)
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I'm exactly like you, and I play tons of sports, being a girl. I think you should continue playing sports as many as you want as long as you want. Do whatever makes you happy, not what makes your friends happy. Any other questions send one to my inbox.
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i just got my period any advice on pads, tampons
ill apreciate any advice!! ill rate! (link)
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Start with pads. Don't go right into tampons, unless you're going into water or swimming. Pads will get you ready and after about 4 months or so, if you think you're ready, then go for it.
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Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help. (link)
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Buy little sprays and put them in little goodie bags for all the people.
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i still have not gotten my period and all my friends that are even smaller and shorter then me already got theirs if it helps im in 7th grade and im almost 13 (link)
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Don't worry. I got mine 4 months before I turned 14. All girls bodies are different. I got mine in the summer before 9th grade. It's not a big deal.
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Does anyone know where i can get some great clothes for low prices? (Im really into jeans, sweatshirts, long sleeve shirts, knee high socks and accecories!)
14/f
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Um. Go to stores like TJ Maxx and Ross Dress for Less.
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ok well i started liking a guy and he found out and he likes me too but i told him now that i just wanna be friends wut should i do tommrow? i think hes really pissed! please help! ill rate :( (link)
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Just move on. He'll get over just as fast as you did.
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Hi ! well tomorrow at school is like a big day sorta because my schools football team is undefeated and so is the other team they are undefeated to and tomorrow during 5th period is a pep rally and then the state football game and like tomorrow i want to wear like crazy clothes and stuff to show my school spirit! any ideas? our colors are black and grey! please help! (link)
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If you have old pants that fit you still but are crappy and have holes in them, maybe decorate them with your school colors. Or you can make a shirt all dedicated to your team and make it like school colors.
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does anyone have any good hairstyles i could use because im really tired of the regular pony tail,bun,or just leaving my hair down. I would like to wear my hair up tho so any ideas? also if it helps any my hair is dirty blonde!.Ive alreadi tryed scrunching my hair but it doesnt really look to good. Thanx! (link)
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Okay, well, you can wear it down, which is what i do, but i do different stuff with it. Like, after I get out of the shower, I'll blow dry it, straighten it and then flip out the bottom with a curling iron. And my bangs go to one side of my hair, so i straighten those sometimes and scrunch the rest of my hair. It looks really cute.
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14/f my friend lately has kinda been ignoring me like not talkin to me online, not talkin to me on the bus or at lunch and things like that. We have been friends for like our whole lives basically and she tells me that it annoys her that when i stare at things or people that i stare with my mouth open and i cant help it its a rele bad habit. so why is she ignoring me and what should i do to get more attention from her? (link)
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Leave her alone for a while. Maybe shes going through a stage.
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what is a good black eyeliner? im useing mac right now and in school im in swim class and even when im not wet it seems 2 run down my face.. Does ne one know a good black eyeliner that does not run when i get wet or ne thing.. THANKS (link)
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I use Physicians Formula and it works great.
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ok my hair has bin really really fruzzy latly and i dont no how too make it stop i go new shampoo that is supposot too help but it doesnt HELP?!?!
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Well, I have the same problem. And you can buy Friz Ease and it helps a lot. And all you need is a dot about the size of a dime, and you rub it in your hands till its hot, and you put it in your hair. It really works, and it's not very expensive.
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