Member Since: October 8, 2004
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hey, i'm 15 and live with a brotehr and a mom and dad. well i get in fights with my brother and parents alot but they end up in fist fights. When me and my brotehr fight, it is really bad, and i end up being the one getting hurt the worst (he's 18) and i am the one that gets in trouble and he gets in none. but me and my mom get in major fights. she hits me a lot and kicks me and hits me with just random things. i dont know what to do about it. but of course i fight back, cause who wouldnt even tho its my mom. and my dad sees it alot but he doesnt help me to get her away. I have been hit so many times and even given a black eye by my family. i dont know what to do. i have called dfacs, but they didnt do anything and the police have been called out to my hosue too. but nothing seems to work. and there are fights about everything and it ends up with me in the middle of it and in a bunch of trouble for htings i had nothing to do with! i need serious help before something major happens! please... i hope someone out there can help me! (link)
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if i was you i would wait until you have a mark to show and take a picture then go to child services and show them and say that if they don't do anything about it then they could seriously hurt you and if they do then you will run away they are bound to do somthing it sounds kinda childish but it could work well good luck i hope it works if you try
love always
alex000
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When I was 13 I found out that I have a sister that had been put up for adoption. I had grown up thinking that I had two sisters and it was devistating to think that I had another one that I may never know and be able to love. So, I swore that one day I would find her. Back in March I did find her. I had searched for so long that I really felt that I would never find her and when I did I was afraid that since I grea up in a dysfunctional family and we weren't wealthy or anything that we wouldn't be good enough for her. Well, she is wonderful. We went through the DNA testing and when we found out it was just amazing. She came out for a visit in April and since then I have gone to see her twice. We live in seperate states. The two sisters and I that grew up together have the same father but she (2nd to the oldest) has a different father. My father is dead now (long story) but our mother is still living. Mom has a long history of drug abuse and she does not want my Sister to know about it.
This is my question. I think that she is noticing that Mom isn't as close to her as she is our oldest and youngest sisters. They e-mail and Mom calls about once a month or so but she and I talk weekly and on the internet every night. The other two sisters rarely e-mail her and they don't call her. I know that she doesn't feel as connected to the family as she would like to and I feel responsible because I was the one that went looking for her. There are times that she tells me that it really hurts her feelings and I am not sure what to say.
I love her so much, she is just fantastic and had a terrible life growing up. Her adopted Dad wound up in prison and her adopted Mom comitted suicide when she was a teenager. I know that she has abandonment issues because of all of that and now I am scared that meeting her bio family is just adding to those issues because of their distance. I wouldn't take for knowing and having the chance to be in my sister's life and her in mine but sometimes I feel so guilty for causing her even more grief.
Did I do the right thing by finding her or was I just being selfish because I missed her so much being in my life? I am just afraid that my love for her just isn't enough to make up for all of the time that she has done without and now that she has found her bio family that maybe the dream of what they were was better than what we are.
Confusing and long I know but anyone with input would be appreciated. (link)
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when she tells you it hurts her feelings then tell her about your mom and drug abuse and all the stuff that has happened to your family and then that you know her situation is worse but you want her to know that you love her and that she can start a new relationship with her mom and sisters by e-mailing them more and talk about personal things.
you did the right thing you got her one new friend and the possibility if she works for it a whole new family that could come closer because of her coming into your lifes.
love always
alex000
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ok here we qo :
i've known this boy josh since 4th grade and from the first day i like feel in love . lol and he's everything he;s hott (lol im not shallow) and he's a gr8 person and the funny thinq is he can qet ANY girl he wanted in a snap but he doesnt qet any . lol srry anywaysz back to my story . i alwaysz help him qet crushes and ii always help him wid his love life lol but everytime i do i fall mroe in like with him (not love im only 13 lol ) . anywaysz me and him are qood friends but i just wnated to know if there's any chance he'd like me one day . if not is there a way to make him like me?
Thank You ,
Ariella* (link)
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ok you are only 13 so this isn't that big of a deal but if you really like him like your head over heels 4 him and you \can still have a great time with him then you should ask him face 2 face!!! (no notes it just makes you look stupid, there locker talk about that stuff is mean) and well that's all i can tell you
love always
alex000
p.s. i had the same problem
in 7th grade. he said yes.
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