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okay guys or girls this might be long but i dont know!!!! for you guys if you knew me liek as a friend would you ever go out with me(pic in profile).....Okay im very selfconsious about myself for a lot of reasons. Im 15 years old and havent had a serious boyfriend, hadnt had my first kiss yet...some of my friends treat me like shyt!!! and i really want a boyfriend!! like i had people like me before but none that i like in that way! and i liked plenty guys and they knew i liked them but hadnt done anything about it...so ovousily something is wrong me...i be my self all the time and i dont care what people think about me but i was just wondering why anyone wouldnt want to go out with me or why i hadnt have a serious boyfriend.I dont think there is anything the matter with me but ovousily guys do!!! Help Me please cause i sriously hate my life, and i cry myself to sleep everynite because of so many things thats going on in it!!

you shouldn't think that YOU are the problem...u should think that maybe the guys that like u... was just afraid that they didn't want to hurt the friendship they have with you...or you know how guys are...they don't admit to their feelings...so maybe that's why they don't say to you that they like you...i hope that'll help you

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I've been going out with this boy who's a year younger than me. He's super sweet and we've been going out for almost 3 weeks. I feel bad though because my friends (girls and guys) are making fun of him and being really mean to him. His friends are being mean to me too. I like him but maybe it'd be better if i dumped him. I don't see him very often either. I still like him but i dont know whether or not to dump him. sorry so long!!

signed, troubled

i've been in ur shoes before...it'll be ok...but all i can say is ...if u truly care about him...u shouldn't care wat other ppl thinks...listen to wat ur heart says...not other ppl

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ok i met this guy joey @ the mall in januray..i really liked him n we hav been seeing eachother for a while...now on sept 25 he officially asked me out...so we go out now....well my mom doesnt know bout him...and he always wants me to go places with him and stuff...and usuaully im able to bc my friend lives around hte block from him so i tell my mom to take me over there to her house...and we go to his...im really close with my mom but ive never told her about ne of my bf's...ive never even been close to my bf's in the past..im really close with joey n i want him to b able to come places with me too...but im scared to tell my mom we go out...his parents know me n stuff but im jsut embarased to talk bout this stuff with my mom bc she will ask soo much ??'s n im afraid she wont let me see him bc shell think we cant be alone or watever or shell wanna meet his parents...in other words shelll act lyke wer getting married or something....i just want her to know so i can b like hey mom can joey come with us or watever!!....she sed i could hav a bf and stuff but ive never told her i had one....im so sick of lying to her bc shes starting to get suspicious...i wanna tell her this wekeend....how shuld i bring it up n tell her? wat do i say?? also, joey n my friend are going to a skatepark saturday and joeys neighbor is taking them and they wanna swing by my house n pick me up so i can go...im scared my mom wont let me if she knows wer going with him but i dont want to lie again....wat do i say?? plz help...

i have been in your shoes before. i too am VERY close to my mom. she doesn't know about my past boyfriends. until one day, i was in the car with just my mom, we had this really great conversation, and we got along really well and she was telling me EVERYTHING...since she was telling me everything, i decided to tell her everything too. starting with my current boyfriend, whom is now my ex, but anyways, that night, i told my mom to come into my room cuz i wanted to tell her something, and then out of no where, she was like "you doing drugs?!" and i was like.."NO!" ok well yea...dat was how it all started, and so i was like "mom, i have a boyfriend right now" and she said, "[sigh] thank goodness it isn't something bad like i thought it would be, well now that u have a boyfriend, all i can say is u better be carful, and i don't want ur studies in skool to be bad now that u have a guy in ur life." and then all of a sudden, my mom gave me SEX ED...gosh...dat was the worst part...but it was all worth it, being truthful to my mom and letting her know that i don't keep things from her

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ok i've had a crush in this boy named Josh 4th grade and it's not just a crush i reeeeally like him for his inside too, so does like every other girl in the class too, any ways it all started when i introdused him to one of my friends and he had a crush on her and he likes her (im not sure if he still does) anywyas so one nigth we were all online talking to eachother (seperatly) and she tells him that i like him after i begged her NOT to. ne ways so she does and he IMs me saying "you like me?""really" and i kept saying yeah i think you alright. here's my Q . do u think he likes me back or he wuz just wondering if he likes me. im kind of regreting taht my ffriend told him bcusz we used to be reaslly good friends and now im shy to talk to him. what should i do? and what does he mean?

thanks,
Ariella*

PS: please dont answer telling me im to young to have a Bf!! lol i know im only 13 but still! lol

guys are guys, they sometime don't know how they feel...just act your normal self around him...that way, if he likes you, he'll like you for yourself not some shy girl that is to scared to talk to him

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