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my life!! HELP
okay guys or girls this might be long but i dont know!!!! for you guys if you knew me liek as a friend would you ever go out with me(pic in profile).....Okay im very selfconsious about myself for a lot of reasons. Im 15 years old and havent had a serious boyfriend, hadnt had my first kiss yet...some of my friends treat me like shyt!!! and i really want a boyfriend!! like i had people like me before but none that i like in that way! and i liked plenty guys and they knew i liked them but hadnt done anything about it...so ovousily something is wrong me...i be my self all the time and i dont care what people think about me but i was just wondering why anyone wouldnt want to go out with me or why i hadnt have a serious boyfriend.I dont think there is anything the matter with me but ovousily guys do!!! Help Me please cause i sriously hate my life, and i cry myself to sleep everynite because of so many things thats going on in it!!
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look deary, im 15 too and i havent had a serious boyfriend nor my first kiss. so whats wrong with that? does that make me and you an alien? we still eat and sleep like every normal human being. heck to those friends who treat u like shyt, they dun deserve to be called 'friends'. the more u feel the need to have a bf, ask ur self is it really neccessary? im glad to know that u do not think theres anything wrong with you, and how do u know guys obviously have? have u asked them? or is because u were too shy to approach a guy. u cant always expect a guy to make the first move on you, that way no guys will see the good substance in you. crying is good way to let things out, but deary its not worth it. thinking too much of problems creates all these tensions in ur mind and makes u feel hatred all the time. seriously trust me, its unhealthy and bad for complexion. lol i hope everything goes well for you. <3 remember to take things one at a time. ur only 15, still young. everything that u dreamt of will slowly fall into place when the time comes.. it is just that the time isnt now.
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honestly you sound just like me last year when i was 15, i never had a boyfriend but boy liked to look at me and tell other people how they like me but never me, i thought there was something wrong wit me to but really thats jsut the way life is, my bestfriend always had a boyfriend a new ne every month but not me i was always single, then when i hit sixteen i met my boyfriend ive been dating now for 7 months and we are very much in love, and to think hes my 1st B/F. i think you just need to give it a lil time, if you wanna talk more hit me up.
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ok i totally knw how u feel!if u wanna tlk to me mor IM me on my sn ditzybrunett341 i think i can help u but for this i really dont think tht there is anything wrong with u though. u were sayin tht the guys dont approach u well u knw thts one of the things, u gotta have confidents, and guts to go up to the guy u lik u knw! and theres alot of people who havnt had a serious bf yet or there first kiss yet. look at jessica simpson, her first kiss was in lik 200o or 2002 with nick lachey and shes beautiful.
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Your only 15!!! I know it suxs to hear that but you dont need a serious boyfriend yet save that for when your 16 and older. But in the mean time play the field so when you get to those ages you'll know exactly what you want in a guy.
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I'm sure there is nothing wrong with you, talk to someone else about it, VENTING always helps, don't bottle it in, approach some guys, talk to them, put yourself out there. Don't put it all on yourself. It's not like you are going to marry any of these guys so it's not a big deal I promise. I know people have boyfriends and stuff, but maybe it is just a sign that you were meant to play the field, and maybe by playing it you will find someone. It's just highschool you won't remember half these people anyway.
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you shouldn't think that YOU are the problem...u should think that maybe the guys that like u... was just afraid that they didn't want to hurt the friendship they have with you...or you know how guys are...they don't admit to their feelings...so maybe that's why they don't say to you that they like you...i hope that'll help you
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