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hey wus up you guys im MISS_J06, im 16 i live in california and i love giving advice to anyone who needs it.
I like basketball, softball , and swimming , but the main thing i love to do is hang out wit my famil,friends,and boyfriend who i love very much.

I specialize in love but anything is actually ok to ask i love when people are open with there problems,i also love helping people to the best of my ability, its a habit i picked a couple of years ago.

All my friends come to me for advice,so i thought maybe i could do it for a hobby, so dont be afraid to ask and i cant wait tto answer all of you questions peace,and im out.

Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: School
Age: 16
Member Since: October 16, 2004
Answers: 5
Last Update: October 16, 2004
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okay, i have this REALLY good guy friend named "jon"..hes in my grade we have 3 classes together, hes totalllly gorgeous..he just got outta a 9 month relationship about a month agO..he was inlove with that girl and naturally he prolly isnt over her yet and still is inlove with her..she lives like 45 mins away from where we live though..anywayz so me and jon ALWAYS flirt with eachother, act like brother and sister, punch eachother, etc, ya know like flirty stuff like that..we ALWAYS talk bout our problems with eachother, etc..i never ever thought that he would eveer like me cause we are so close friends but then his cousins gf told me that she asked him if he liked me and he said, "yeah i do actually..but im not gunna do anything about it cause i dont want our friendship to get ruined"..i thought that was so sweet of him to say...im kinda stuck cause i like him too..should i just continue on being really good friends? or should i bring out that i like him? (link)
YOU ARE GONNA KILL YOURSELF GIRL!!! you better talk to hime even if he says hes not going to do anything about it, so you do something about it, if you dont say anything to him youll probly get emotionally frustrated and we dont want that.


hey everyone ok im gay for starters and i have been made fun of my whole life for it and now people at work are starting too and i think im going to kill myself so please talk to me.:( (link)
ok first off you have to realize this is the lifestyle you chose so you better wave it like a banner who care what people think at work, you gotta make your money just like they do, ignor them thats just there sense of imatureness,and also dont be ashamed of who you are , cause if you werent ashamed this wouldnt bother you, hit me up if you wanna talk more.


okay here is what is going on..me and this guy ben have been going out for about 2 weeks or so and i really like the kid and he says that he likes me to, but it really dont show..we have only hung out once and the first time i tryed to kiss him he gave me a hug so i was waiting for him to kiss me n he hasent..we go to the same school and everything, we dont talk at school n when i call him not all the time he calls me back..i understand he has football everyday but i mean on the weekends he says he has to do something n then he goes n hangs out wit his boys..but yah i seem like im sounding like a 10 year old about this but we dont ever talk or hang out and your suppose to be wit your special someone alot and everything...what should i do?? please help.thanks (link)
yeah it would help if iknew you age too, but to tell the truth a guy is going to be a guy, and they cany help it guys really like hanging out with the homeboys thats like half of there life, theyre afraid they will miss somthing, and i know thats hard to except when you really like someone but its something you have to do when in a relationship, also about the kissing maybe he is the shy type or maybe he thinks its to soon, the firt step to a new relationship is to be open, tell him how your feeling.


okay guys or girls this might be long but i dont know!!!! for you guys if you knew me liek as a friend would you ever go out with me(pic in profile).....Okay im very selfconsious about myself for a lot of reasons. Im 15 years old and havent had a serious boyfriend, hadnt had my first kiss yet...some of my friends treat me like shyt!!! and i really want a boyfriend!! like i had people like me before but none that i like in that way! and i liked plenty guys and they knew i liked them but hadnt done anything about it...so ovousily something is wrong me...i be my self all the time and i dont care what people think about me but i was just wondering why anyone wouldnt want to go out with me or why i hadnt have a serious boyfriend.I dont think there is anything the matter with me but ovousily guys do!!! Help Me please cause i sriously hate my life, and i cry myself to sleep everynite because of so many things thats going on in it!! (link)
honestly you sound just like me last year when i was 15, i never had a boyfriend but boy liked to look at me and tell other people how they like me but never me, i thought there was something wrong wit me to but really thats jsut the way life is, my bestfriend always had a boyfriend a new ne every month but not me i was always single, then when i hit sixteen i met my boyfriend ive been dating now for 7 months and we are very much in love, and to think hes my 1st B/F. i think you just need to give it a lil time, if you wanna talk more hit me up.


okay, this question is to guys (and gurls, but mostly guys). theres this guy who i have feelings for (he has feelings for me too), we used to date but not anymore. he tells me he cares about me, sometimes he really shows it and sometimes he acts like a jerk. when i show him i care, he acts like he doesnt care, if i give him "attitude", he shows he cares a lot. why does he do the opposite of what im doing??? what is wrong with him? does he really care about me or is he just playing games? (link)
It sounds to me like he likes to play games i say give him a little taste of his own medicine, when he asks as if he doesnt care then you ack like you dont either, maybe this will show him your tired of his games.
If this doesnt work then he might just be a little on the imature side.




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