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can you help?
okay here is what is going on..me and this guy ben have been going out for about 2 weeks or so and i really like the kid and he says that he likes me to, but it really dont show..we have only hung out once and the first time i tryed to kiss him he gave me a hug so i was waiting for him to kiss me n he hasent..we go to the same school and everything, we dont talk at school n when i call him not all the time he calls me back..i understand he has football everyday but i mean on the weekends he says he has to do something n then he goes n hangs out wit his boys..but yah i seem like im sounding like a 10 year old about this but we dont ever talk or hang out and your suppose to be wit your special someone alot and everything...what should i do?? please help.thanks
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2weeks is a pretty short time, maybe hes unsure about everything and his feelings for ya. perhaps he found this relationship going a bit too fast for him that hes unable to catch up? the next time u manage to get him on the phone or at school make ur thoughts and feelings known to him. listen to what he has to say, and from there, we shall see what do to next..
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yeah it would help if iknew you age too, but to tell the truth a guy is going to be a guy, and they cany help it guys really like hanging out with the homeboys thats like half of there life, theyre afraid they will miss somthing, and i know thats hard to except when you really like someone but its something you have to do when in a relationship, also about the kissing maybe he is the shy type or maybe he thinks its to soon, the firt step to a new relationship is to be open, tell him how your feeling.
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i think u might just wanna tlk to him, tell him wht u r feelin and u might even want to say r u ever gunna kiss me he might be feelin the same way as u. he prolly is to shy to kiss u cuz he thinks u dont want to or somthin
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umm it would really help if I knew how old you were, umm first of all if he's not willing to make a little time for you and he doesn't talk to you something is up. I would tell him how you feel, and if he doesn't change dump him. Everything happens for a reason. Maybe there is another guy who would probably treat you better than this one.
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well maybe hes just busy or maybe he wants to take it slow i mean u have ONLY been going out for 2 weeks theres no need to rush into things like its a little early for kissing already i mean you have your whole life to do that! and why dont you go up to him and try to hang out with him and his friends at lunch or something i mean if you really wanna hang out with him that much! and about the phone call things why not just staright out ask him why hes not returning your calls then youll get a real answer and not just a guess from and advice collumn ~.^
hope i helped
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