Member Since: October 10, 2004
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Last Update: February 28, 2005
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what exactly is a orgasm?and how do you get one? (link)
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you shouldnt get one unless youre married...and you shouldnt try unless youre married either.
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ok, ive been having a hard time latley. ive been getting really depressed and i felt like i wanted to die. so i started cutting. at first i just scratchd myslef till i bled now ivebeen using razors and knives and scizzors to cut my hands and my legs and my wrists. i dont kno why exactly that i do it but my frends at school found out and they started to treat me differently and that made me want to cut more.i started to think alot about suicide and i would have comited it already if i havent been so chicken. i dont want my mom and dad to blame themselvs cuz i kno they would if i killd myself.i told my frends that i wanted to comit suicide and no one even cared at all. i just dont know what to do. i just feel so alone in the world and i always feel like i want to die. it seems like no one cares and i relly dont want to live anymore. i dont kno what your gonna tell me to do i just need some help, please. (link)
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i know you posted this in like october..but just so you know...i care. you might not believe me because i dont know you...but i do care. you could change many peoples lives depending on your actions and rather than wasting alife such as your own you should put it to good use. possibly go to church, that would at least help. maybe give community service to some services or people that need it. and also, cutting does nothing. it wont help even if it seems like it does, in the end it will just make things worse...
sorry im a little..okay a lot late on replying i havent bene on the site in a while, i hope things get better for you.
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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think.. (link)
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wait til your married!!! i dont wanna be like rude or nothing but like if u and your bf wanna baby that bad get a cabbage patch kid or like take care of an egg! i dunno just dont i think u should wait til marriage bcuz yeah
i hope u make the right decision!
PuRpLoPpEr
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im 14 and my b/f's 15. He's a really sweet guy and always tells me that hes going to wait for me for when i want to lose my virginity and hes a virgin too. ive known him like my whole life and he is the sweetest guy ever and he is so nice and would never do anything to hurt anyone. all weve done is make out but everytime i come over or he comes over his older sister and older brother and older cousin will ask what we did and he just says nothing and theyre like well damn have you guys at least made out??? and they tease him sometimes n just be like oo all you guys do is make out??? and all that stuff and so lately i think its been bothering him. i know im young and all but i feel like, "pressured" to have sex with him and like i want to in a way so they stop teasing him, and i also feel that theyre gunna think im some prude kind of person and i dont want them to think that of me, i want them to like me and not talk about us. i dont really know how this is a question but i need some kind of advice, like what i should do and if i should have sex with him or not. (link)
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you should most definatly NOT! sex is intended to be shared between a husband and a wife and it is best to stay pure until your married. not to mention all of the risks your are taking even if you do use protection there is still a chance of you getting pregenant or an STD. its really not something worth taking a chance about especially if your only doing it toget people to quit teasing! i hope you make the right decision and i hope i helped you!
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this kid i like b4 i met him seemed like this reeally nice kid really umm perfect...he still seems that way he just swears alot...dont get me wrong im notlik goodie tooshoes...but i didnt think he would so im kinda shaky about everything else unless hes changing to sound tough to impress me..idk..? help please (link)
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well i hate cussing also but prehapes if you jsut dont cuss at all aruond him it will rub off on him or you can jsut tell him how you feel like tell him that you dont like that he swears so much and that theres really no reason why he should be swearing in the first place and if it makes him look dumb or something u might wanna add that in there too :b
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well, i live in miami, and lately, these have been the trends: yoyo balls with water inside, converse sneakers, nike gym bags, those lil rubber bracelets in a bunch of colors like black and red with meanings(if u pop this color, u do this), plastic pasifiers with lights in them, and thats pretty much it so far...any ideas on what might be next or how u start a trend? (link)
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well i would have to say the best way to start a trend is to forget about trendyness and just be yourself if your creative and dont care what others think of you who knows maybe some of what you do will become a trend out in miami!
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ok so there's this kid who goes to my school who is 13, and he is really funny, and i kinda liked him, until my friend told me that he wasn't a virgin and had done it like 5 times and i just can't look at him the same way anymore. I can't even talk to him. what should i do? (link)
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well theres not much you can do i mean you cant change the past but then again are you posotive what your friend says is true u have to think about whther what you hear is the truth or a vicous rumor
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I play tennis and i have a bad tan line on my feet.. its like im wearing white socks when i have no socks on!! I need help! Should i wear skirts.. or should i stick to jeans?
p.s.-taning cream doesnt work! (link)
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well in your spare time you could always do whats obvious and go outside and tan with out socks on aka bare foot then it wouldnt be quite so bad that or wear regular shoes with skirts and not like flip flops
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my cousin is in my school, he made it so easy for me to fit in there and im soo happy for it..he has so much going for him and now he smokes pot like alotttt he didnt as much before..but i really want him to stop b.c my mom and sister are messed up like that and i dont want it to happen to him, hes an amazing soccer player and everything...how can i talk to him or get him to stop w.o sounding like a health freak? (link)
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who cares about sounding like a health freak?! TALK TO HIM BEFORE THIS BECOMES A SERIOUS PROBLEM AND HE DIES!
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ok, i named the brown puppy Brownie, i named one of the black ones Walker, cuz its always walking around, and i named another black one Tiny, cuz its the smallest of the litter...there are still two unnamed black ones who are fat and always together, as if their twins....any ideas for THEIR names? (link)
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godzilla and king kong ;) hehe
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I have short legs which look even more stumpy with my fat calves . i know i can't do anything about the length of my legs , but how do i get my calves smaller ?i don't wear skirts anymore ,cuz it's embarassing .my thighs are fine , but my calves are really rounded and fat . not muscular . FAT > please help ! (link)
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im sure your calves are fine! but if your realy that insecure about them then i suggest that you excercise them! calve raises are excellent calf excercises, you simply go on you tipping toes and back down again repetishously (cant spell that word)
hope i helped you!
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i have two best friends. one i've known since middle school...so that's about 4 yrs now. and now i also have a new best friend...whom i met in high shcool. they're both wonderful and i'm so glad i have them but there's one problem. they can't stand each other for anything! when i'm with one, she's talking shit about the other. and when i'm with the other one, she's talking shit about her. they both want me to take their own sides and be more loyal to one then the other. ahhhh! what do i do!?!??! HELP! (link)
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i would suggest taht tell them your not taking sides and also tell them that its not cool to talk bout eachother and thats its very not cool that theyre making you take sides! i was in the same posistion as you when i was like five so yeah its kinda of childish for them to be acting like that...
hope i helped you!
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okay here is what is going on..me and this guy ben have been going out for about 2 weeks or so and i really like the kid and he says that he likes me to, but it really dont show..we have only hung out once and the first time i tryed to kiss him he gave me a hug so i was waiting for him to kiss me n he hasent..we go to the same school and everything, we dont talk at school n when i call him not all the time he calls me back..i understand he has football everyday but i mean on the weekends he says he has to do something n then he goes n hangs out wit his boys..but yah i seem like im sounding like a 10 year old about this but we dont ever talk or hang out and your suppose to be wit your special someone alot and everything...what should i do?? please help.thanks (link)
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well maybe hes just busy or maybe he wants to take it slow i mean u have ONLY been going out for 2 weeks theres no need to rush into things like its a little early for kissing already i mean you have your whole life to do that! and why dont you go up to him and try to hang out with him and his friends at lunch or something i mean if you really wanna hang out with him that much! and about the phone call things why not just staright out ask him why hes not returning your calls then youll get a real answer and not just a guess from and advice collumn ~.^
hope i helped
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This seems to constantly occur for me. I was hoping someone could help me. There's this guy who shall remain nameless and just recently I realized that I have liked him for awhile. Lets just say he's been on my mind a lot. Everytime I like a guy, one of my friends always has a crush on him too but I never say anything, I always remain silent on guys I like. I have a hard time. This time I think I blew it because there have been times where I would think that we both liked each other a lot and neither of us would say anything. It just sucks because I was finally going to tell him how I feel and one of my friends revealed that she had liked him for awhile. Now they are going to an event together and I don't know what to do? (link)
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my advice to you is to jsut tell him already! you never know i mean the worst that could happen is that he doesnt like you which couldnt be any worse than what your going through right now! as for your friend i think its all the more reason to tel him because youd want him to know before him and your friend get "serious". if your afriad that your friend will get mad well i think if she/he is really a true friend then she/he shouldnt care and sould understand however i dont know them either and i also dont know what theyre personaity is like but you never know he may like you too so its worth telling him isnt it?
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i know what im about to say is soooooooooo slutty and i know i shouldnt have done it but this guy payed me $50 to go out with him but after a couple of days i started to like him alot so i was going to give the money back anyways so when i did he told every1 that i payed him to have sex with me and im not like that but whenever im around a guy like in the mall i see guys waving money at me and i want them all to stop and i dont know why i would take his money in the first place!
by the way im 15 years old and im a girl (link)
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k well nothing like that has never happened to me and im not sure i could be be of much help to you but ill sure try... see what i would do is totally make fun of myself (laugh at myself) i mean it seems to me like they know its not true and i dont think they do stuff like wave money at you if they didnt think it bugged you so much but of course if they all think its true then im not so sure what you should do im sorry im probably no help at all but well i tried
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i really need help see i can't get in front of people to present a project in front of my class i start sweating and feel like throwing up and i can't breath and everytime i go up to present a project everybody could see that i am nervous because the way my voice sounds if anybody could give me good advice i really really need it or i will be stuck like this forever. i rate high help a person that is in need PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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i understand how you feel i had to say a speech in front of 400 kids when i ran for office at my school its very nerve racking i know but its really not THAT bad when u think about it though! i mean there could be worse things anyways just try to focus on something else and try to stay calm youve gotta focus more on your performance (e.i. poster, voice, breathing etc) rather than how nervous you are, the more you think about it the more nervous youll get WHATEVER YOU DO DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT IMAGINE PEOPLE IN THERE UNDERWEAR it will just make you blush or laugh you also wanna watch out about your hand movments u dont wanna look like youre crazy! ;b and as for the sweating thing just be sure to wear lots of deoderent ;) i hope i helped you but if not... im sorry!
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