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im 14 and my b/f's 15. He's a really sweet guy and always tells me that hes going to wait for me for when i want to lose my virginity and hes a virgin too. ive known him like my whole life and he is the sweetest guy ever and he is so nice and would never do anything to hurt anyone. all weve done is make out but everytime i come over or he comes over his older sister and older brother and older cousin will ask what we did and he just says nothing and theyre like well damn have you guys at least made out??? and they tease him sometimes n just be like oo all you guys do is make out??? and all that stuff and so lately i think its been bothering him. i know im young and all but i feel like, "pressured" to have sex with him and like i want to in a way so they stop teasing him, and i also feel that theyre gunna think im some prude kind of person and i dont want them to think that of me, i want them to like me and not talk about us. i dont really know how this is a question but i need some kind of advice, like what i should do and if i should have sex with him or not.
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well if their making fun of him and teasing him ..its just not about sex..if you think you ready..do something else like 2nd base or 3rd if ur that ready...since its january now..what happened?
spicy xo hott
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now is around dec so did you had sex with him ?
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you do w/e makes you feel right..if you wanna take the next step in the relationship then go 4 it..but don't listen to what anyone else has to say if your not ready for it..if your not ready for sex or the responsibilities ofsex you shouldn't do it..but if you know your really committed to this guy and you want him to be ur 1st and you know ur ready then i would do it..hope ihelped xO--cOurt
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fuck what other people say they seem to not have better things to do other than pick on yall .. you should have sex when you want to not when ppl tease you or whatnot
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WAIT dont have sex if you can tell him your not redy my sister had a kid at 15 and my parents were very mad and now shes 22 on wellfare cant get a job and the man she slept with left her if i were you try to wait
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i think that sex is a big decision which comes with a lot of responisbility and conswequence. its not sumthin u shud do just cuz sum1 iz pressuring u to do it. u shud find out wut ur bf iz thinking. u need to find out if he's feeling pressure or not. if u don't hav communication then there mite be a confusion w/ signals and then end up doing sumthin u'll regret cuz u think the other person wants to. (if u no wut i mean) i hope that u chose the smartest choice and not do sumthin that will ruin ur life :)
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Just because ppl r sayin stuff bout u two not havin sex N stuff doesnt mean ya have to...If ur bf really cares bout u then he will wait...Plus only being 14 is kinda young...Im only 14 too N when I think bout havin sex its like..."why would anyone wanna do it this young?"...I kno I wouldnt wanna accidentily get pregnant bc that just throws ur life away...So if I were u I wouldnt let anyone pressure u into havin sex...Do it when YOUR ready N ur bfs ready...Then it will feel a lot better...Hope I helped!
Nikki
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DO NOT have sex with him!!! just because these assholes are pressuring you to do it, is not a reason. the only person you should have sex with is your furture husband. no one else. you are 14 for goodness sakes!! why would you want to ruin your life at such a young age? as i said before do not do this. let them tease you, and if they make you mad, tell them that you're not ready. if this guy truly loved you, then he won't pressure you into doing this.
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you should most definatly NOT! sex is intended to be shared between a husband and a wife and it is best to stay pure until your married. not to mention all of the risks your are taking even if you do use protection there is still a chance of you getting pregenant or an STD. its really not something worth taking a chance about especially if your only doing it toget people to quit teasing! i hope you make the right decision and i hope i helped you!
*PuRpLoPpEr*
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have you thought about the outcomes? is he the one? i mean what if you get pregnant? what goes on from there? if it feels right then you should do it, you shouldnt do it just because someone is teasing you ... why not and tell them that you've done it and you dont do it? you should never do it if you feel pressured into it
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I think you shouldn't because once you grow up and you think about it the only reason you had sex fore the first time was because some people were teasing you.Everybody teases but that doesn't me that cause it bothers you that you should just go on and give it up that isn't right to you or even him.anywayz the people that tease you well they are older and if they keep on teasing about aving sex and they already do then they might catch STD's AID's or even scared for life if something does go wrong.But it's up to you really thins is what i think but if youy decide to all i suggest is PROTECTION.I hope i helped goood luck with your desicion.
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Don't let them cause you to have sex just because they're teasing ya'll!! Tell them you don't give a flip what they think and you'll have sex when you're ready<--NOT that it's any of their business. You don't even have to tell them that just ignore them or tell them to mind their own business. Wait for when your ready! -Hope I helped!-
*Emmy Boo*
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You shouldn't let anyone pressure you into having sex. Especially not the kind of people who would tease someone for not having had sex. I personally think that's a really childish thing to tease someone about. I'm a virgin, and I'm 20. And I don't care who knows. I'm proud of it because I'm waiting until marriage. If someone wants to call me a prude and try and make me feel bad for sticking to my values then that's their problem. I'm not going to feel ashamed for doing things my way, and you shouldn't either. Don't let peer pressure push you into something you aren't ready for.
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Ok, you should definately NOT have sex with him just to make his siblings and cousin like you. If you stick to your vlues, they will eventually respect you for practicing abstinence. If you are hanging around people who will only think you are "cool" if they know you are having sex, you need to find a new circle of friends. If your boyfriend respects you enough to wait until you are ready, then that is all that matters and you shouldnt feel the need for others approval. They arent the ones having sex, its not their body, or their virginity. ITS YOURS. You decide who you save it for, and you decide when you are ready to give it to them. Never let anyone else influence a decision as serious as this one. I hope I helped you, hun. Good luck sweetie!
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Don't have sex with him just b/c you want them to stop teasing him. Wait until you're really ready, and don't just give in b/c you're being pressured. If he really doesn't wanna hurt anyone, he'll get over the fatc that you two are being teased about it. It's just b/c they are older& love picking on younger kids..it always works that way! Just don't give into the pressure! Goodluck!
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Absolutley DO NOT have sex with this guy. NEVER EVER do something because u feel pressured. If your intentions on this arent pure, then u know your not ready to have sex with him.
Hope I helped
~Kiki
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DON'T YOU DARE HAVE SEX JUST SO THEY'LL STOP TEASING YOU!!!!!!!! Sex is a lot of fun and it'll eventually be worth it to lose your virginity, but NEVER give in to peer pressure! Don't have it unless you're SERIOUS! ~*Jenni*~
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