Hey all, my name is kimberly and I'm here to help. I'm just an average teen just like ya'll so feel free to ask ANYTHING and EVERYTHING and I'll try to answer it as best I possibly can... don't be afraid... ask away!!
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Okay well... my boyfriend and I are both
virgins and not sexually active what so ever.
However, when we lay down on a couch/bed and he wraps his arms around me I get a lot of VD.
Like what the heck ?
Is this normal ? or just weird ?
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hmm... you get a sexually transmitted disease from your boyfriend snuggling with you? lol... i think you mean something else besides VD, because VD means venereal disease which is like an STD.
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Okayy, SO. Everyone says your supposed to shave your vag? I don't get why. I want to but when I'm about to lets say my hair's are 'to long' so it feels like i'm pulling them when i shave it kinda hurts but gives me chills, what should i do? (link)
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you should trim it before you shave. and make sure u use a lottttt of soap and shaving cream and a new razor so u dont get those red bumps.
hope i helped!
~KiKi
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I have been getting really sad/depressed lately, and for no reason or for small reasons. I overreact to everything or just have breakdowns. I have been getting more and more of them recently, and I don't know what I should do. Sometimes I'll be really happy and then sometimes I feel like I have no friends and want to die. Is there something wrong with me? Do I have manic depression? (link)
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the good news is that no, you are not manic depressive.
the bad news is, you are a teenage girl. every single girl i know, including myself has gone through that stage.
if you were manic depressive, your depression would last between 6 monthes to a year and then the manic stage would come after and last the same amount of time and alternate back and forth. manics have a high amount of energy and it is way differant then just being happy or giddy.
hope i helped
~KiKi
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do those FREE IPOD offers really work? and at what cost? hundreds of soliciters and pop-ups? has anyone ever tried the offer? all fives (link)
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I'm pretty sure they don't work
I mean I've tried and then it says you have to subscribe to something which costs money and that's as far as i got.
hope i helped
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What does btw mean? (link)
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btw = by the way
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what shows on broadway in new york city do you recommend besides the lion king? (already saw it) (link)
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Wicked is AMAZING!
Beauty and the Beast i saw and was pretty good.
Les Miserables I saw and that was long but good music and a good story.
Fiddler on the roof that was alright.
overall i'd reccommend Wicked!
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Does anyone else think that Anikan Skywalker from starwars (episode 3) is hott? I do and so do a couple of other ppl i kno. But some of my friends think im weird i tell them that if they saw him they would think hes hott too.
Im just curious.
I rate high! (link)
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yes... wow hes really cute! don't worry if your friends dont think hes hot, you guys just have differant taste in guys.... no biggie.
xoxo
~KiKi
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Well, I have in issue with becoming a vegetarian. I really want to, but my family is Greek and they just don't understand why I won't eat perfectly good meat, and if I don't eat it they think I have an eating disorder. I really want to give it up because I love animals and it's a lot healthier, but I'm shy when it comes to telling my parents these things and I don't know if they'd understand. They'd probably make fun of me. What should I do? (link)
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hmm thats pretty tough. I've been a vegtarian now for about 3 1/2 years and my parents accepted it very well (although we arent greek) But you shouldnt keep doing something just because you don't want people to think bad of you. sit them down and have a serious talk with them. tell them you don't want to eat meat anymore. be straight-forward with them. Let me know how it goes!
~KiKi
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i keep making stupid mistakes in my relationships. i dont know how to stop! i always manage toscrew it up by being with some one else or sleeping with someone else. i cant help it. it just something inside me that make me want to do stuff. i am in a relationship now (4days) and ive already cheated on him. at the time it feels good. i dont know whether its the rik of been caught or what but now i just feel bad and dirty! how do i stop doing this? (link)
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Maybe your just not ready to be in a commited relationship? Yeah I know how it feels... it just seems wrong, but in a good way that your doing something you know you shouldn't be doing. But just know your hurting yourself and your boyfriend when you do it. Maybe you should just stay single for a while and see how that works out. I hope I helped!
~KiKi
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ok well im a 13 yr old female and i had my FIRST period on the 7th and now i am having it again on the 28 and i dont no if this is normal please help me and i am a virgin so i no im not pregnat
thx 4 ur help i ll hate 5's to EVERY1! (link)
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Well we know your not pregnant or else you wouldn't be getting your period at all :)
This is totally normal.... first of all, your just starting your period so your not going to have a schedule (I've had mine for about 2 years and I still don't have a regular schedule!) Some people don't get there's every month, some get them every 3 weeks, it all depends on you. Don't worry! and congrats on becoming a woman! hehe.
Hope I helped.
~KiKi
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My mom waon't let me have a b/f or watch some R movies. It seems like she is Overprotecting me from the outside world. What should i do? HELP!
Feelings from the inside out,
Jess P.S- I rate HIGH! (link)
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I would sit down and talk to you're mom one on one about how you feel. Point out how responsible you are (and if you aren't then start doing things around the house that'd be useful i.e.: making your bed, cleaning your room, taking out the trash etc.) explain to her that you need a little more independance and you don't feel that she is giving that to you. I hope i helped in some way!
~KiKi
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ok. theres this boy in my 2nd block class and i have never talked to him before, although i think hes waay hott. sometimes whenever the teacher says something funny or they play some weird music on the bulletin, we always turn around and look at each other and laugh. its like we have known each other for a long time and we're friends...but we have never talked before! The other night I dreamt that he talked to me and the next day he actually did talk to me for the first time! i joined in on the conversation he was having with my friend. he didn't say much to me, because I hadn't said very much, but it was a start. i don't know why though me and him look at each other a lot! and we laugh too! we don't even know each other, hes a complete stranger to me, but when he do that and look n laugh, i feel like i've known him forever! my friends think he likes me...is that even possible? i'm terribly sorry this is soo long! i'll rate VERY good i promise! sorry again!
~ Wondering if there's a "connection" ~ (link)
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Yes, it is possible to have a physical connection with someone before even talking to them! That is what it seems has happened with you and this boy. Now all you have to do is make the mental connection, which might be a little tricky. It's easy to determine if you like someone by their looks, but by their personality, it's always hard. So I'd say just go up to him and start talking to him, and see if you like the way he talks. You can tell a lot by just a small conversation (is he nice, does he curse a lot, is he funny or sarcastic etc.) I hope I helped you!
~KiKi
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if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????
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No not at all. It was just a dare. Even if it wasn't, it doesnt mean your a lesbian. Many people experiment when they're young to figure out exactly who they are and what they like and don't like. Don't worry hun!
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does anyone know any really good shampoo and/or conditioner that works well and is good for oily hair?
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Garnier Fructis or dove works well too... there are shampoos made for oily hair too. hope i helped.
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I know we really aren't supposed to ask homework questions but I really need help. I have Algebra finals next week and I do NOT understand how to do these types of problems: Factor- 2x - x + 4, x - 81, and 4x - 13x - 30 = 0. Whenever I ask my algebra teacher all he says is: "HOW CAN YOU NOT GET IT????" and then he just explains it the same way all over again and I still don't get it. I'm already at a C- in his class and I'm normally an A - B and nothing lower student so this is bad. I really need help. If I don't pass this exam I could fail. Any help would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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yeah... i don't really understand the question but if you leave me a question in my site... I can talk to you through IM and help you out because I did really good in algebra 1 and 2
~KiKi
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hey, i need help really bad but i don't have anyone to turn to, and i really mean nobody. a while ago i "went through a depression stage" i guess you might call it, and it got really bad. i was builimic [sp.?] and i cut myself. [my parents and friends were compleatly oblivious to everything because i guess i'm a "good kid" and they never had to worry about me] i don't know how it stopped, but it just did. and now i think it's starting again, my parents suddenly decided we're moving and i feel like nobody wants me around, but i guess thats my fault because iv'e been pushing away the people that mean the most to me. i always want to be alone and i started keeping to myself a lot, like not talking AT ALL during lunch, unless someone asks me a question or somthing. when i get home i got straight to my room and cry, i don't know why though. and i started cutting myself again, i dug a knife into my wrist after dinner tonight and it bled and bled. i feel like i don't belong anywhere and i want to run away, but i don't know where i'd go or how i'd get far enough away from home. iv'e also sat on my roof after everyone in my house is asleep and thought about jumping off, but i really don't want to go to hell. i really need help [i'll "rate high" or whatever, just please help] -jeanine (link)
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that's a really tough situation. I was a former cutter... so I can relate to you on some level. I've switched schools like 4 times and moved once. Everytime, it was very hard, but everytime I made new friends and you seem like a sweet person, I bet you will too. I think that if the cutting is getting out of control, you should talk to someone about this. I know it's really hard to deal with, but maybe a therapist can help you deal with what you are feeling without having to cut or be buliumic. I hope I helped
~KiKi
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What do i do when your talking to your friend online and shes kool then shes tells you this."okay, well jason is 16, and i dont like him. and he always forces me to fuck with him, when i dont want to. so im basically being raped everyday beacause we have sex everyday but sometimes i do want to, but if i dont he will get mad and start to hit me to force me i dont know wat to do, he is in the kitchen right now so i wanted to hurry up and tell u befor he came back because he is stayig over here for a few days." Then i say the best thing is the cops.Then she says "Jason told me if i called the police on him hed kill me" She asked me for help now im asking you .... Please help me
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thats so horrible! You need to call the police asap.
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one of my boobs is smaller thab the other one about a cup size smaller..im 16 will i have to have plastic sergery?or will it cach up?pleese help swn (link)
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ok my cousin had that problem... she waited till she was 18 to get the surgery to see if things even out... by 18 your vasically done growing so i'd say to wait till then to see if things even out. It could catch up, but it might not... no one knows for sure, its all hereditary. Hope I helped!
~KiKi
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Sorry if this is long. Okay i'm a 14/female and have a slight problem. I met this guy Greg at a party, and really liked him. So we talked alot and got close and ended up going out. But about a week later I broke it off because things wern't working out but I still had feelings for this guy. So one day we were talking on-line and we were joking around about having sex. So I was like "Yea i'd bang you any day!" And he calls me and was like "Are you serious?" and me being stupid I said yes because I didn't want to look dumb. So one day I went to his house and was going to tell him I was joking and all but he was peer pressured me into doing it. After that we promised each other we wern't going to tell anyone. And he was like "well I would like to tell my friend Joe" so I was like okay. So the next day I went to school and Gregs ex girlfriend comes up to me and was like did you fuck greg? and she told me that the rumor was going around and so I talked to Greg and was like why did you tell everyone and he was like "i'm sorry I didnt mean for everyone to find out" Like cheap whiskey I bought his stupid lies! So then we were friends and ended up going to homecomming. While at H.C he tells me that he loved me and everything but didn't want to go out with anyone at the time. So I was just like okay and we were just friends. Well I became good friends with a girl named Leah who was also friends with Greg. So I was talking to her (not knowing she knew about me and Greg) until she brings up what happened between me and him and she tells me that he lied to me nd wasn't a virgin! So i confronted him and he said that it was true so I was mad. and i also found out that he lied about toher thinfs too. So we deicded to not talk for a week... his dumb idea so we havent talked for some time but the thing is I stil like him even though he's caused so much pain in my life. Like the rumors I had to hear going around school and geting made fun of. I see myself getting very upset at what other people say to me like some times I come home and just cry. I started cutting my self and always find myself thing about suicide and I dont know if this has anything to do with this but lately i've been REALLY tired and falling asleep in class when I go to bed around the same time every night! I really need to get over Greg and his lies but I just dont know how! I'm emotionally attached and need to know how to let go and i'd appreciate advice! Thanx babes!
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-Kristen* (link)
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Wow... well you didnt say this but i think you were a virgin before? so if you were then the attachment is there because your first is always like such a huge deal in your life. If you werent a virgin before then just dont think about that last statement. He seems to be really unhealthy for you so I would suggest cutting off all contact with him for a little while and see how that goes. And Im not going to tell you what to do with the cutting because I have been there so many times and i know that you can only stop when you are ready... nothing anyone else says can make you do it, just know that there are people in your life who probably love you and care about you... you don't need this jerk greg, he seems really like a bad guy! You sound like such a sweet girl, you deserve so much better then this ass hole! haha. Hope I helped somewhat!
~KiKi
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I'm sorry if this is a little long...
There are three of us, me and my two friends that I'm going to call Keri and Amber.
The last few months Keri and Amber always are partners with each other for everything and leave me out, they never wait for me, and then always ignore me in many of the classes we have together. I took half an hour to tell Kari how I felt about it on the phone last night and today Amber came up to me and asked me why I was mad at them. I got really angry because I spent half an hour explaining why I was upset, and then she says to only remembers half of it, and I started yelling at her, because it doesn't seem like she cares about how I feel.
My question is what should I do about it, and am I overracting about it?
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Wow I was in a similar position last year... and then i moved schools and ended the friendship with the two girls (there was a bit more to the story then that but i wont go into it cuz im giving u advice lol). but i would suggest not doing this because i got seriously depressed after that. I would talk to them sepretley... go out to lunch with each of them sepretley and sit them down and tell them exactly how you feel. It might help you a lot. You're not overreacting about it... you should be concerned but I wouldnt let it go too longer or you might end up loosing two friends. Just my suggestion. Hope I helped!
~KiKi
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