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help please
What do i do when your talking to your friend online and shes kool then shes tells you this."okay, well jason is 16, and i dont like him. and he always forces me to fuck with him, when i dont want to. so im basically being raped everyday beacause we have sex everyday but sometimes i do want to, but if i dont he will get mad and start to hit me to force me i dont know wat to do, he is in the kitchen right now so i wanted to hurry up and tell u befor he came back because he is stayig over here for a few days." Then i say the best thing is the cops.Then she says "Jason told me if i called the police on him hed kill me" She asked me for help now im asking you .... Please help me
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You should try to call the police instead so Jason doesn't try to kill her
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Well she is puttin alot on you I would maybe tell your mom.. Then let her handle the situation which will be her probably calling the police... just dont let her know that you did.. and go from there. or you could call the cops and tell them everything and about the threat and have the cops tell the kid that a guy called an reported it
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This is a situation where you definately need to notify an adult or your parents, or someone who you can go to who you trust. Your friend is being abused and needs help, he needs to get away from this guy and this guy needs help and to get away from her. Tell your parents and tthey will probably tell the police. You codl call the police yourself and tell them what your friend said, if jason is put away then he can't kill her, the cops will make sure that he doesn't kill her. But, you definately need to get help for your friend immediately! I hope everything gets worked out soon, if need n e more help just ask..tell me how everthing goes.
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Well, there's a loophole in his threat. He said he'd kill her if SHE called the cops. I usually never tell people to do things for other people, but in this case, I think you may have to be the one who calls the cops - or tell your mom and have her call the cops. Rape is serious, and so is physical abuse, which is what he's doing. That's just not cool. If you don't want to tell your mom or dad, you really should tell some adult, and have them call the cops. That way, this Jason guy can't turn on you, even though there was a loophole in his threat. Be careful, though...this guy sounds kind of...um, crazy? I hope this helps, and I hope your friend gets this sorted out.
-Siren =)
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I hope you saved the convo! You need to call the cops and tell them that your friend is being raped from her older b/f and she is to afraid to call the cops herself cause he said that he would kill her if he did!
Or get her to comeover to your house without her b/f and go to the police together or on the phone and explaine everything! Rape is not a funny or a good thing and you really need to help her out here!
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you should call the cops for her .. thats really bad sweetie - deal with it like NOW.
hope i helped
-;- jessie xo
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thats so horrible! You need to call the police asap.
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Well some how she needs to call the cops. Maybe stay at your house when doing it. This is really bad and it needs to be takin care of. Or she needs t talk to like a teacher or something. This man needs to put in jail. And if she is too scared to do anything then you need to do something for her. Also make sure he is wearing a condam so she does not have a baby by this man.
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She HAS to call the cops. They can put her in witness protection. If she doesn't call them I think that you should. How would you feel if she got pregnant from this? Do what you feel is best and if you think she should call the cops and she doesn't then I think that you should.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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call the cops. wudnt you want her to? you should save up that conversation and use it if necessary. tell ur parents and hers too *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!
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I need more information for this one. How old is your friend, does she live with parents, guardians or fosters? How come the guy is allowed to stay at her house for a few days? These are important to know to give an accurate answer. If the guy is some kind of relation or is trusted in the household it puts her in an extremely dangerous and cop scary position. There are other things that can be done, but the truth is the best meaning advise could get her killed if it's not well-informed. Expecially in a situation like this. I wish I could just give you a blanket answer, but this guy is seriously unbalanced. Your friend has a right to be afraid. Also, since she does sometimes want the attention she is feeling like this situation is her fault and may lie to the police if you report it. Please update your question.
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do her parents know thats what i would ask thats the first thing i would have done told them cause trust me when i say parents will kill that sry ass of a man
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Usuaslly I make fun of people but you do need to call the cops. They can and will stop him.
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You best call the mother fucking cops. If she's your friend, you shouldn't have no doubt in your mind of what to do. Call the police. Tell them what he does to her. Thats not right. He needs to be put in jail. Also, file a restraining order... so if he comes near her he will be arrested again. Thats really serious. Go to the police as soon as possible.
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Well..if you are really serious about this question then I think you definately need to get in touch with someone who can do something about it for your friend. Call the cops- if this guy is really serious and will really hurt her, then he can be throw in jail for a super long time. Why does this girl keep hanging around this guy if all he does is "rape" her and hit her? Tell your friend to stay away from him and not "stay over there for a few days." Good luck, and get someone involved who can make a difference.
♥Jennifer
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I dont like answering these questions but i will for u. I think you should call the cops tell them the situation about he will kill her if she does and they can work something out tell her parents or your parent about it and maybe they can help thats the best i can think of sorry. <3 American Girl
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