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Q: see, i have a boyfriend..but i think somethings up with him, ever since his good friend started liking me, hes been acting weird lately, he usually talks to me all the time, and sits with me too..i asked my best friend..and of course she went over to him and he said she needed some space.....I dont get it..please help me understand this whole situation!

Well he is probable a little mad because his best friend like you. You should go up to him and tell him that there is no chance that you will be with his friend. you should also tell him that you are only his and always will be.

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Q: hey well last night me and my bf where talking online for like 2 hours and then he had to go and take a shower and left his away message on and while he was gone his uncle came in and saw what he was sayin to me and he got in trouble because he was sayin bad things online and for some reason i think it is my fault. is there anything i can do because now his uncle doesnt want him talkin to me so the only way i can talk to him is by email. can someone plz help me???

Hey well I would just get a new sn. But before you do that just tell the uncle that it was your falt that your didn't stop talking like that and maybe he will forgive you!

Q: How do you get your husband away from the t.v. and spend time with the children?

well tell him how u feel

Q: Ok i am really attcracted to this one girl it's just plane crazy. But she already has a bf on her hockey team that goes to a different school. Wat should i do???? i rate 5

Well All I can say is wait. Try to get to know her but dont try to take her away from him. Then when they brake up ask her out!
Always looking to help ~Made4monkeez

Q: ever since i was a baby ive had really blue eyes, and now i want to emphasize them. everyone thinks theyre really pretty, will wearing like, teal colored clothes emphasize them?

Well you should wear black and tight cloths. Blye and clack go realy well. Also you could were leather that looks nice too!
~Always looking to help Made4monkeez

Q: Hi my name is shannon bell and am 13 years old i had surgery on my back at12 and my family andn friinds say that i could never be a model with i scar in my back.I think that i can becuase i am fabulous.but when i seen americas next top model i new i would be good for runway but i did mot know if any modeling agency would won't me with a big scar on back.What should I do go on with dream or just forget.I need your help please.

I would go on with the dream. Its not like all the stuff you are going to wear is going to show your back. You should just keep trying and when you do have to wear stuff that shows your back, You could just cover it up with make-up.
~Always looking to help Made4monkeez

Q: Ok there's this girl she's my old girlfriend and i still like her but i don't know if she likes me and i like love her should i ask her back out or just let it go

I would just wait a little bit to ask her out to see if any other guys ask her out then ask!
~Always looking to help made4monkeez

Q: Okay, i've been using photobucket for a while and just recently my pictures stoped working. I'm pretty sure it's because too many people direct linked to me. Does anyone know how I can know whos using my stuff, and also when my graphics will start working again? Also are there any better sites you know of to use? Thanks if anyone can awnser this.

Well there is tons You can use These sites (http://www.picturetrail.com), (http://www.fotki.com), (http://www.piczo.com), (http://www.webshots.com)! Also put a tracker on them so you know whi is useing them. I would love to see your graphics site. I have one of my own.
~Always looking to help Made4monkeez

Q: i want to gain more confidence and have an attitude that gives the impression that i don't give a damn what they say! anyone have any advice that would help me obtain this attitude?

Well maybe join a sport that your good at were people will say "Good Job" or something. Also when people are being mean to you just say "I am too good to be mean back" Or just admit to what there saying and they will get bourd and leave
~ Always looking to help Made4monkeez

Q: i can't stop thinking about him and he keeps talking to my best friend saying he likes me and wants me to wait! but i don't feel i can but yet i can't stop talking about him! when i talk, i cannot stop talking about him! what do i do?

signed,
confusedbutinlove

Well Maybe you should talk to him. Ask him out on a date or something. And if you really can stop thinking about him then take it out on a sport or something!
~Always looking to help Made4monkeez

Q: my crush knows i like him and stuff but he always is behind in his studies and stuff! lately he's been running to me for help! is this a good thing and if so how? and if not how?

signed,
Lost-n-Love

It is Most likely a good sign because He wonts to spend time with you. Maybe invite him to your house to study if you can.
~Always looking to help made4monkeez

Q: my friend has adrinking problem and maybe even a drug problem! do you think there might be a reason he is turning to drugs and alcohol? becuz he does get teased by many for the way he acts! and if so is there any way i can comfort him or help him out?!

signed,
Friends 'til the end

Well it could be because of teasing but it also could be because of a probablem in his own house maybe someone died or he is getting hit by his parents. You should talk to him and show Him that that is not the best way. Tell him that he could talk to you if there is something wrong. He really needs help and you should do something
~Always looking to help Made4Monkeez

Q: i sometimes feel uncomfortable singing infront of people! how do i over come this fear?!

signed,
Afraid2Sing

Well you could always start by being in a chour or something then Sing to your self Like in your room then Maybe sing infront of your mom and ded. Then when your ready sing infront of your friends
~Always looking to help Made4monkeez

Q: What are some new years resolutions?!

Well My moms is to stop smoking. My dads is to stop drinking. My sisters is to lose wait. And mine is to get better grades. You could also have some like clean the house more or have more time with friends. there is tons all you have to do is think of something you wont to be better and make it a new years resolutions

Q: whenever i flirt with other guys my friend Mark seems to be bothered! he looks really sad! what's wrong with him?!

Well It could be that he likes you and he is sad that you aren't flirting with him. I would just ask him and see what he says. But if you dont wont to ask him ask one of his friends.
~Always looking to help Made4monkeez

Q: Okay I am 40 weeks pregnant. I was due xmas day. I still have not given birth! What could be taking so long? I am becoming so miserable, uncomfortable and irritated, not to mention impatient. Please if someone has any suggestions please help!

Well sometimes that happens. I myself was 1 and a half weeks late. Some times it happens and the baby should be coming aby day now. Just wait and talk to your doctor

Q: me and my friend have decided to get eachother presents. well, we are like best friends so i got her something special that took me a long time and trouble. it coct about $30 but she is my best friends, so she deserved it. today she said she would tell me what she got me if i told her wat i got. it turns out she got me a $3 key chain!!!!!! i smiled and said "thanks, can't wait to see it!" but inside i was screaming. she already knows what i am getting her so i can't return it and she said she was so excited it was a great gift. im mad, is that wrong? what should i do? i dpn't wanna hurt her feelings but c'mon! please help, i rate high.

Well first you should look at how big her family is. Maybe she had to buy them gifts too and that was all she had left. Also maybe she didn't have that much money at all. But remember its the thought that counts and you should be happy she is your friend. But maybe you should just talk to her if you feel realy mad

Q: My dad smokes. I try to make him stop by saying "please stop smoking dad" or "you should quit" or cough really loud when he lights up a cigarette. DAMN IT, I FUCKING HATE THE SMELL! He smokes when hes in the bathroom, i just hate it. When i cough and stuff around him he'll be like OH SHUT UP, YOU SHOULD BE USED TO IT ALREADY or YOUR OVERREACTING. and id be like, havent you ever heard of second hand smoke dad?? he doesn't care.. i mean hes a good dad but he needs to stop. i dont think he'd do that nicotene patch or gum thing. When i tell my mom about it, she'd be like, get used to it, or she'd do nothing about it. What should i do?

Well you should show him the stitistices of smoking realated deaths. Also at local hospitals there is a smoke free training. It is most of the time free. It doesn't teach you to quit but they talk about what could happen if you dont. Then there is a part two on quiting. Were I live tons of people do it and the usualy quit

Q: I have a twin brother and we are really close he's not spent much time with me lately and im scared i love him to death and if anything happend to him i would never forgive my self even if it wasnt my fault. He has thes friends lets call them bob and joe and they curse alot and thats not like my brother. I'm just worried. Somone pleez help me.

twin delama

Well it could just be that you too are getting older and he wonts more guy friends. But if it is realy bad maybe you should just ask like were are you going, and keep a close eye on him to make sure he doesn't do anything stupid or crazy. If his friends are really bad maybe tell your mom/dad. But besides that just let him do what he is doing and it should just fade away!

Q: What do i do when your talking to your friend online and shes kool then shes tells you this."okay, well jason is 16, and i dont like him. and he always forces me to fuck with him, when i dont want to. so im basically being raped everyday beacause we have sex everyday but sometimes i do want to, but if i dont he will get mad and start to hit me to force me i dont know wat to do, he is in the kitchen right now so i wanted to hurry up and tell u befor he came back because he is stayig over here for a few days." Then i say the best thing is the cops.Then she says "Jason told me if i called the police on him hed kill me" She asked me for help now im asking you .... Please help me

Well some how she needs to call the cops. Maybe stay at your house when doing it. This is really bad and it needs to be takin care of. Or she needs t talk to like a teacher or something. This man needs to put in jail. And if she is too scared to do anything then you need to do something for her. Also make sure he is wearing a condam so she does not have a baby by this man.

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