Hey ya'll whats up?
We'll if your reading this you probably know me already, but yeah. umm I'm just here to help yall. you dont have to tell me who you are, you can just ask me anything. i've been told i was good at giving advice and helping, so you can jsut ask me anything.
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Member Since: November 18, 2004
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Last Update: December 26, 2004
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i dont know why but i have really low self-esteem and almost no confidence and i feel worthless i guess but i dont know what to do to get it.... (link)
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i used to feel like this. i always though looks were everything, and i knew i wasnt gorgeous. so i tried with my looks. but honestly, everyone is gorgeous in their own way. so what i did was find something that i LOVED to do...aka DANCE!dancing made me feel like everything, it may not be your sport, but maybe finding a sport and working really whard in it will make you feel best!also, if you're SERIOUS about it..look into going into a pshycologist, they can persribe you medications is you REALLY think you have depression, check with me first before you do though, i'll make sure you do. i take meds for my depression, but medication can't heal everything. you just need to find out what you do best, and what makes you feel good, and if you want throw in a little change of looks here and there. ask me if you need any help with changing your hair, or your make-up if you're a girl. if your a guy, get muscles, i KNOW the girls love that, and i know it makes you feel good too. lol. i work out all the time, and i love knowing everyone thinks im tough!well. good luckk!;)
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wow youre not that pretty with your hair down, wear it up for heaven's sake! hmm also consider covering up those zits of yours *shivers*. a little bit of advice too, lose a little bit of weight ;=) you need it. youre not that popular honey, don't try to be someone youre not. youre reputation is going to stay that same =) guys don't like you, and neither do your "friends". (link)
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harsh...i dont find this very hurtful though..because i can tell you right now..if you ACTUALLY wanted it to hurt me, you would put your name. and not be a pussy...anyone agree?
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is it ok to date someone whos only like a fourth of an inch taller than me? i really like him him and hes almost my height. rumor has it he is going to ask me out...help! (link)
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yeah!hieght is NOTHING!!!it's all about personality!!you need to go with the personality and if you realy liek him..looks aren't everything...good luck babe!
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hey, to whoever said that about tyler L, i know he has a gf, but i can get you a hook up w/ him..if you just call me 4315028 or im me coopatroopa4o7, good lcuk w/ everything with him : ) im here, and lauren im here for you too: ) (link)
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uhhhh...idk what this is about..but coop gave me permission to put it up...
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ok life long question...how do you keep clear skin for cheap? (link)
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hmm, well wash it. twice a day. try to avoid a lot of makeup. and DONT PICK AT THEM!!!trust me, i KNOW how tempting it is to not wanna pick at them, but what i would do is if you really think you need to ge rid of it, then go to like walmart or somethign nd get over night acne patches. they work like a charm, no joke i have some myself. and USE A BENZOYL PEROXIDE CLEANER!!!!salasycic acid cleaner dry out your skin, and pretty much kill it if you have fragile skin like i do. and try avoiding going to bed with wet hair i you do. and if you wash your face with a washcloth change it every day because it carries bacteria that can attactch back onto your face if you're not careful. and when you shower, and your rinsing your hair to get the shampoo out then let it run down your back, and make sure you get it FULLY off your back and yoru hair. or it can accually create acne along your hairline. and you dont wanna go there. lol. and every time you wear make-up make sure you take it off before you go to bed..dont EVER go to bed with make-up on its just a way to clog up your pores, which is horrible. and avoid touching your face!!the oils on your hands and arms mix with the oils in your skin and clogs them and makes them oily. so yeah do that. hmm what else...well..chaneg your pillow case like..4 times a month, one time a week to be sure bacterica doesnt stick to it. and EAT HEALTHY!!!!what you eat pretty much reflects your skin. if you eat greasy foods then your skin will be greasy...and if you eat healthy then your skin will be too:) something that really works good is this Clean and clear, and Persa gel. good luck!
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i have no self confidence...i have no reason not to i mean my life is great but i think like everything about me is wrong and whenever someone says something bad about me it just gets worse...help! (link)
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ohh lord, i know EXASCCTLLYYYY how that is..i know this sounds gay, but find your inner-beauty.its amazing what you become when you know who you are, and how great you accually are. and ignore what people say. your probably beautiful, and they are just jealous. so many people give other people crap because they think they are gorgeous. self-confidence is what makes you attractive, but not too much. its kinda like make-up i guess. no self-confidence, wont bring out yoru beauty as much as it could, too much self-confidence makes you look fake, anf the perfect amount of self confidence gives you the looks everyone wants. it makes everyone wanna belike you. so what i would do is look in the mirror, and ee yourself how you are, and if you really think you need improovements in your looks. let me know and i'll giv eyou some make-up tips or w/e you want. but i think you just need to find who you really are. and also IGNORE THAT PEOPLE SAY. this world is full of jerks, they are a dime a dozen.good luck!i'm here if you need anymroe help!!
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so...im a total band nerd..and i like this one guy...named tyler L...but...hes to hot for me. and im really depressed because i KNOW i can never get him, and plus he has a girlfriend. what.DO I DO?!
- inlovewithjock (link)
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In love with jock,
being a band nerd really doesnt matter...at all..and he should like you for who you are.anyways. never think anyone is too hott for you, because it lowers yoru esteem, and that is what makes you attractive. and im sure you are, you just need to see it. and if you want to make him notice you more, look nice often. im not saying wear a dress or anything, im saying like put on extra make-up if you dont usually wear any, and make your hair press, and wear something that shows off your curves, but is'nt TOO revealing. and talk to him more. but i would NOT move in too much since he has a girlfriend. hint you want more than a friendship. but don't tell him straight up, (that will just get you in trouble),but dont make it TOO obveious. since he has a girlfriend you dont want to move in too much, it can cause sooo much drama you cant even IMAGINE!alright well good luck love!!
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k i love to have sex alot but i have like 2 std's but their is this girl that im goin out with and i dont know if i sould tell her... But if i tell her about my conditions she probly wont want to have sex..... what should i do......... (link)
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wow. omgosh. you NEED to tell her. you need to think of what wcould happen to her. listen, STDS are an EXTREME thing, and are very very serious!do not have sex with her. do not do not, DO NOT. it is not a good idea at ALL. and you need to think of what could happen to her, what i would do is try to find out someway to treat the stds but WOW dooo nnoootttttt have sex with her!!!
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okay well i wrote you the last message i broke up with him but i still like him and to top it off his best friend has a girlfriend who i hate..............HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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lol ok well, i'm not going to make you feel bad, but i said to research about the best friend and see who your feeligns are for. but since you can't redo it you need to talk to he best friend and ask him what the deal is. and to keep it on the down load about the talk. and then you need to talk to the ex boyfriend. and be like...maybe i made a mistake of breaking up with you...and if he doesnt take you back then you need to hang out with him a lot and just see what the deal is. honey my guess is that you need to try to get the boyfriend back, and forget the best friend. and then find someone new.sorry about the mix up. let me know if you need more help.
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ok i have a boyfriend and i like him but i also like his best friend and i know there both in to me but i duunno what to do b cuz i realy like them both the same but some times they seem like they like be but then sometimes they dont what should i do??
** i agree with the person who wrote about ppl needing to get off her ass!**
thanx (link)
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haha aww thanks!!
well you need to probably break up with your boyfriend if you have feeligns for his best friend. i know EXASCTLY how you feel!this EXASCT same thign happened to me. you need to break it with your boyfriend. and se ehow his best friend feels. my guess is that they are messing with you since they act like they like you only off and on. and you personally need to figure out which one would work with your personality and you just in general better. for once thinka bout yourself. haha. but be caring, dont let your boyfriend know that you like his best friend...UNLESS UNLESS UNLESS YOU THINK YOU WANNA STAY WITH YOU BOYFRIEND!!!!if you really really really like your boyfriend then you need to stay with him. but if your only so-so with your bf, then break it. and same with the bf's best friend...mail me back if you need more help love!
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okai i like this guy and we r good friends and i think he likes me 2 but nothings happened yet what should i do?
thx!! * * * * (link)
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well find out if he likes you. you need to try to actl ike you want more then friendship. and take it form there. but joke aroudn with him first and be like. do you love me?because im madly in love with you!!haha and just mess aorudn with him. and then be like..well am i the kind girl you would want more than friends with?and jsut ask him like that..and then if he sounds like hes into you, tell him thatyou are KIND of into him, and then see where that goes. ask me when things get heated!;)
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well this is for all the people giving lauren bullshit about this your fucking gay find something else to do with you time how fucking immature can you be especiallly the bitch who wrote the internet 40 yr old guy one you have no fuckin balls bitch if you wanna talk shit fuckin say you name and dont try to be all this bull shit by fucking talking shit your fuckin lucky lauren takes time to answer the questions soo quit fuckin talking shit and if you fuckin do say your fuckin names but juss gett off her ass already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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haha awww i love you who ever wrote this!
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hey, since you already know who this is..lol it didnt work the first time so hey, my so called "friends" are being really gay and making up stupid bs that isnt true, got any ideas on how to stop it? (link)
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hey damn i know EXASCTLY how that is. friends can be a pain in the ass sometimes. but what you shoudl do is talk to them and tell them straight up that you think it's stupid that they are making up stuff. but dont be mean!!!!they are your friends after all. well they should be. be like "i love yall guys so much, but please. i mean why?and please dont say you didnt do it, because i know you are. but please guys..can you stop?i dont wanna make a huge drama scene." or somethinglike that. be nice. but then let people know that what they are hearing IS NOT true, and provide it with proove!
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Hey lauren!Well, this one might be hard for you because i KNOW its hard for me..and i hope youve expierenced this..but here it goes.. i've known you for a while but we've never been great friends..i don't go to the same school as you, but my friend just showed me this website of yours and its really cute, im not gunna ask you about make-up tips or fancy restaurants, this is really important to me..like REALLY important, and i need help QUICK..i have a boyfriend and hes wonderful to me, im happy when im with him and hes such a cool person to hang out with..but i feel like i dont know him as well as i should, and i've also liked another guy for a long time (ie: 7 months or more) we've never really gone out because i've always been with someone, but its not a sexual relationship, its like we connect on a higher level than that..like its whats meant to be, im not asking for the type of advice like pick who you like more (because either way one gets hurt) i need some serious help please help soon, thank you sweetie!
P.S sorry about those people who gave you trouble they're probly only jealous.. (link)
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aww yeah this is a tough one,
well what i would do first is figure out if boys is really want you want in yourlife. like boyfriends i mean. you need to figure out if you ened to be focusing more on other stuff than just boys. i mean, i think that you need to decide weather or not it's somethignt hat means THAT much to you, that you are stressing over it like you said you are.
second, if you decide boyfriends are what you want right now, then you need to figure out which one would be a better match for you. and decide which one would work with your personality best..it might take a while.maybe a few months, but it's worth it. if you think you are leaning a little more toward your other friend, take a little break from your bf, or just kinda..avoid talking to him, or dont talk to him as muchm just to give him a little signal. if you your leaning toward your boyfriend a little more, then lay off your friend, and try to spend more time with the boyfriend.
third, what you need to do it i guess kind of take a little break if you think that you want the other guy more. there is no point of leading on a guy that is already connected to you as more than a friend. if you think that you could do better than both of them,, or you dont want to be with either of the,. lay off BOTH of them, and see what happens.
most important, if you decide to break it with the bf,then tell him that you still care about him, and you jsut want to get to know him better.
but if you decide to go with the friend then tell him that you have a boyfriend, and your sorry, but he is going to have to wait because you wanna be withyour boyfriend. they both need to understand because it is YOUR decision.
well, i hope i helped any?tell me if i didnt, i'll try again!good luck babe!
thanks about the people. yeah, they piss me off. but it's all good. i guess i will have to deal with it lol.
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hey lauren i wrote to you before about the friend who smoked and i forgot to say that i kinda have a crush on him and i want to go out with him but he smokes, i dont like to date people who smoke. shoud i stop or what? (link)
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oh wow, well what i would do is talk to him about the smoking thing. and tell him you like him. and that you wanna to be with him, but you dont like that he smokes. and that you really want him to stop, because you dont like that hes smoking, and you dont want anythign bad to happen to him!be like caring and sweet, and tell him that you realy wished he would stop smoking. he should understand babe!
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OH MY GOD BABE! i so need your help! people keep instant messaging me and calling me telling me im a slut, and that i SHOULDNT go for more mature guys, i actually hooked up with this one guy over the internet (and hes 19 but i've never actually met him) and all my friends tell me im a slut for it, but i found out a few days ago, that he was a 40 year old man that got arrested by the fbi :( i want to cRy babe! please help me, oh yeah, can you get me drugs =) (link)
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LIKE OH MY GOD HONEY!!yes you surely, surely do. YOU SEEM LIKE AN AWESOME PERSON, but you see, when i fall in love with 19 year old guys on the inernet that I have never met, and then they turn out to be a 40 year old guy who got aressted, i wouldnt be like "OH EM GEE MY LIFE LIKE SUCKS, LIKE TOTALLY HELP ME." I would say "I like totally love him, even if he is a 40 year old guy who got aressted by the FBI, he was liek my first love. like oh my gosh guys. my first love..ohh mmyy ggoossshhh!!!!I'm just growing up too fast..but not fast enough to realize that im askign the wrong person for adviiccceee, what an idiot of me.haha i think im gunna go find myself another guy who is 40 year old so he can get aressted again, like omgosh i love this life, maybe i WONT go suicidal!!??" yeah. well. guess what honey?i'm smarter than you think..and thats a load of bullshit. i'm not going to help you out with that. wtf do you think i am. and next time you try to get me pissed. find out the true information and oh yeah, hes not 40. and oh yeah, hes not my first love. but listen here you little bitch, i dont knwo who the fuck this is, and i dont care. and yeah it pisses me off because you think of me that way..well guess what..THIS IS FOR EVERYONE GIVING ME SHIT LIKE THIS...I DONT HAVE A FUCKING RAT'S ASS..I DONT GIVE A SHIT WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT ME...I HAVE A FUCKING LIFE. I'M NOT GOING AROUND MAKING FUN OF YOU BEHIND YOUR BACK. INFACT, IF I HATE YOU I'LL STRAIGHT UP TELL YOU. SO BE A MOTHER FUCKING MAN, AND GIVE IT UP ALREADY, THIS IS BULLSHIT, PURE FUCKIGN BULLSHIT. this is so lame..
so cry bitch
cry me a fucking river, no one cares..
have a nice day..
shit head
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When eating in a fancy restraunt..which for do you start with and where should you put the cup after the first sip? Do you put your napkin on the chair or on the table when you leave for the bathroon? Is it more polite to finish your meal of leave a little bit of food? what should i wear?
**im going tonight to a fancy restraunt and i dont really know what to do!
also:
1)i need make-up tips..got any? ex. colors, styles..ect
2)what are the fashions for winter? i need to buy some new winter clothes and im totally clueless!!! (link)
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haha ok well, you usually take the cup from the right side of you. and then jsut set it back down where the waiter/waitress put it. and if you end up going to the bathroom put it on the table on the rightside of the plate, but dont drape it in your food. i've made that mistakes plenty of times haha. and it doesnt matter how much food you leave on your plate. eat how ever much you want. but if you arent sure if what your ordering is going to be enough, then order more than you think you can eat, but not A LOT MORE. because that just makes you look stupid. and it depends what kind of resaurante your going to. i would mostly wear is a skirt, and a nice blouse. and your makeup should match what your wearing. and fasions for winter are probably going to be..hmm..i would say..long sleeves. haha it doesnt matter what color really, i'm sticking with the pinks and blues though.
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Ok, here it goes...
Everytime I babysit..I get really nervous and don't know what to say to the parents. They try and talk to me and I just kind of nod and you can tell they are getting mad. I never get invited to babysit again and I'm afraid this is why!! Do you ever babysit? If so, what do you talk about with the parents? Babysitting is seriously my LIFE. I love it!! I LoVe kids!! but i dunno..i feel like this communication barrior is keeping me from what i love to do. :-\ can you help me please babe?? thanks!!!!!!!
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aww ok, well what you need to do is loosing up. and talk to them. be like. so where are ya'll going tonight? and dont just agree, act like yoru interested. i babysit all the time, and if you interact with the parents more they will mostly be more willing to pay you, and give you more jobs. so jsut relax!!if you need more help just let me know;)
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do you ever think that any of these questions are about you? jw (link)
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yes, yes i do infact. but i'm not going to judge people if they arent. so i answer them. and i k now some have been mimicing me and i have been rejecting them too. but i dont let it get to me. infact, i frankly dont give a rat's ass what people think of me. i really don't. and you can tell me i'm a slut, you can tell me im a whore, you can tell me i'm ugly, you can call me w/e the hell you think will make you look good, and me look stupid. so, if you mail me an advice thing, and i think it's about me, and it's pure bullshit, then i WILL NOT answer it. but i will know what people think of me. does it mean im going to cry myself a river?no. it doesnt, because like i said i dont give a shit what people think of me. so if your tryign to get me down, i would suggest you don't email me through here, because it's not going to get me down, what so ever. i'm smarter than you think. don't under estimate me. no body knows me. so i wouldn't judge me either..so yeah.
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Ok, everytime i click start on my compuer it says : Error\12Wind32.admin.exe is not responding
should i go to the main administration menu or just click crl+alt+esc+12?? And THEN whenever my HB drive isnt connected my computer goes HAYWIRE and says that the external A:\ drive isnt connected when it REALLY IS!!!??? I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO!!!
please help me sTar!!!
=^)
p.s. youre so great at giving advice and you just really brighten up my day =^) i hope that you can help!! (link)
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haha thanks. i enjoy reading them. though this is off most of the topics...haha. umm i think wqhat you need to do is restart your computer. and then maybe re-format your hard drive. your whole system might be messed up, so you might wanna take it into like best buy or something and have them look at it. good luck babe. haha
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