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Hey lauren!Well, this one might be hard for you because i KNOW its hard for me..and i hope youve expierenced this..but here it goes.. i've known you for a while but we've never been great friends..i don't go to the same school as you, but my friend just showed me this website of yours and its really cute, im not gunna ask you about make-up tips or fancy restaurants, this is really important to me..like REALLY important, and i need help QUICK..i have a boyfriend and hes wonderful to me, im happy when im with him and hes such a cool person to hang out with..but i feel like i dont know him as well as i should, and i've also liked another guy for a long time (ie: 7 months or more) we've never really gone out because i've always been with someone, but its not a sexual relationship, its like we connect on a higher level than that..like its whats meant to be, im not asking for the type of advice like pick who you like more (because either way one gets hurt) i need some serious help please help soon, thank you sweetie!
P.S sorry about those people who gave you trouble they're probly only jealous..
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aww yeah this is a tough one,
well what i would do first is figure out if boys is really want you want in yourlife. like boyfriends i mean. you need to figure out if you ened to be focusing more on other stuff than just boys. i mean, i think that you need to decide weather or not it's somethignt hat means THAT much to you, that you are stressing over it like you said you are.
second, if you decide boyfriends are what you want right now, then you need to figure out which one would be a better match for you. and decide which one would work with your personality best..it might take a while.maybe a few months, but it's worth it. if you think you are leaning a little more toward your other friend, take a little break from your bf, or just kinda..avoid talking to him, or dont talk to him as muchm just to give him a little signal. if you your leaning toward your boyfriend a little more, then lay off your friend, and try to spend more time with the boyfriend.
third, what you need to do it i guess kind of take a little break if you think that you want the other guy more. there is no point of leading on a guy that is already connected to you as more than a friend. if you think that you could do better than both of them,, or you dont want to be with either of the,. lay off BOTH of them, and see what happens.
most important, if you decide to break it with the bf,then tell him that you still care about him, and you jsut want to get to know him better.
but if you decide to go with the friend then tell him that you have a boyfriend, and your sorry, but he is going to have to wait because you wanna be withyour boyfriend. they both need to understand because it is YOUR decision.
well, i hope i helped any?tell me if i didnt, i'll try again!good luck babe!
thanks about the people. yeah, they piss me off. but it's all good. i guess i will have to deal with it lol.
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