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see, i have a boyfriend..but i think somethings up with him, ever since his good friend started liking me, hes been acting weird lately, he usually talks to me all the time, and sits with me too..i asked my best friend..and of course she went over to him and he said she needed some space.....I dont get it..please help me understand this whole situation!
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Your boyfriend probably feels awkward knowing thath is buddy likes you to. Its kind of like when you hav a crash its so much fun and u feel great and then someone else likes him to and the magic is gone.... maybe him and his friend are arguing now because they both want you. Maybe talk to your boyfriend and let him know you would enver leave him for his friend. If the reason really is that he just needs a brake, give him his space and he will come around. Unfrotuanatly most poeple would choose a firned over a boyfriend or girlfriend I am sorry to say. If you want to you could possibly talk to his firned and ask if there is anything going on between the two of them. I am sorry you are stuck in the middle and I wish you the best of luck. Leave one in my inbox if you need it
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What? You have a boyfriend who is acting wierdly. His friend now likes you (friend or romantically?) You asked your best friend what? She went over to your boyfriend to say that she needed space? You don't get it? I have no idea what you are asking! My apologies, but your paragraph made NO sense.
[ *** Edit *** I was NOT trying to make you feel worse. In fact the whole idea of the website is to help. However, read your paragraph. Do you think that people who have no idea who you are and the situation you are in will have ANY idea what is going on? All I wanted was more info so I could help you better. If that deserves a 1 so be it.]
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"I need some space" usually means that he needs time to think (yes boys think!) about where he stands with you now or it could be he's having second thoughts about being your boo. It's kinda like, ok whoah, back up and look at the big picture.
Since his good friend adores you, too, he probably doesn't want to spoil his friendship with him over you. This is not to say he doesn't think you're his world, it just means he doesnt want a messy encounter. Your boyfriend probably has talked to his friend already and is just giving him time. It takes a lot of guts to admit you like your bud's girl ;)
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Well he is probable a little mad because his best friend like you. You should go up to him and tell him that there is no chance that you will be with his friend. you should also tell him that you are only his and always will be.
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let him know that he has nothing to worry about and just talk to him about it. It just osunds like he is really insecure right now, and thats understandable. Just talk it out...you might have to make him talk to you but only as a last resort because that could end horribly
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Talk to him about it.
That is the only way you will understand what is really going on. No matter how much you trust your best friend, this really isn't the place to be relying on her. Whatever is going on in your relationship it's about you and him, not your friend, or any other guy who might like you.
If your boy says he needs space and you can deal with that, alright, but don't just back off without some sort of explanation about how he is feeling and just how long this break is going to be.
If you want to be with this guy, take the initiative to speak to him directly about what you want to have happen and what he wants too.
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Hey!
Basically, you're boyfriend is jealous that someone else likes you. This is perfectly normal, and you should feel pretty flattered.
However, you should talk to him about it and say you need to know what's going on.
Reassure him by letting him know that you like him and that you want him and no one else.
Make sure you talk to him yourself and if he acts odd, ask him what is up.
You shouldn't be left in the dark, so talk to him!
Good luck xxx
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