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What happens when the unstoppable force meets the immovable object?

Serious answers only, please. Dumb answers will be met with horrible flaming death by pyromaniac ninjas.

depends on how you look at it. From a phsyics point of view...lets say they are at the same force level...the unstoppable would just bounce off and keep going...it could break into new forces to...but also from this point of view there is no such thing as an immovable object and unstoppable force...so who knows really.

i didndt know what catagory to pick so i guess this is alright..?

Well i sweat a whole lot. like a WHOLE lot.. even in the winter i have wet under arm rings and i dont know what to do about it.. i use deoderant but it doesnt really help.. is there anything i can do? any tips?

please help.

certian dri works really well. I use the addias active brand deoderant with it. If that doesn't help after a couple of weeks go to a dermotoligist and ask him about a disease called hyperhydrosis. Before you go freaking out its nothing really serious...just really embarassing and can cause dehydration. Its easy to test for it and there are a lot of treatments to, one of them being the certian dri.

Have you noticed that everything now is sparkly belts, big sunglasses, ripped jeans, granny sweaters, oh and sparkly purses? and those BOOTS? im so sick of it all that is ALL i see in stores oh and those short lil jackets!! UGH!! Does anybody think they know what will be next, i started liking this stuff too late and im getting sick of it cuz i see it on everyone else!! I need some HOT new trends to be the FIRST with it out, i dont wanan follow i wanna LEAD!!

the best fashion trends are what ever you come up with. I go to an art school with a lot of fashion majors and the styles range from grungy to the annoying furry jeans and such. Believe it or not the fashion "experts" look at what they see teens wearing the most and thats how the lastest trends start.

ok...i have a serious boy problem...lets call my jus broke off boyfriend(tyler)and my ex before him (lee) ok tyler and i went out alil over 2 months and i fell so hard for him but lee kept coming in the way...i went out wit lee for about a year and now i just want to be friends with him nothing more but tyler cant understand that.tyler heard that i was with lee the other week and just broke up with me without wanting to talk it out but it wasnt true and i tried to tell him that but he wont listen...he told my bestfriend that we was gonna get back 2gether but he needs time 2 think...should i wait or move on?

move on...if he woudlnt talk to you over a rumor he heard and just jumped to conclusions he's not worth the stress. A good relationship involves talking things out and trusting the other person, if he can't trust you then how are you ever going to be able to be with him.

see, i have a boyfriend..but i think somethings up with him, ever since his good friend started liking me, hes been acting weird lately, he usually talks to me all the time, and sits with me too..i asked my best friend..and of course she went over to him and he said she needed some space.....I dont get it..please help me understand this whole situation!

let him know that he has nothing to worry about and just talk to him about it. It just osunds like he is really insecure right now, and thats understandable. Just talk it out...you might have to make him talk to you but only as a last resort because that could end horribly

ok, i'm in 8th grade and i'm in the orchestra and i play volleyball. next year i was really hoping to participate in the Marching Band in pit. but during school i think that orchestra and band meet at the same time, and then volleyball practice is after school but thats also when band practice is... so i dunno which to choose! i can do an extra volleyball thing besides school, but i dunno about band vs. orchestra... i was also planning on moving to a different high school in 10-12 grade for orchestra...

If you love music marching band is awesome. I was in it all 4 years of high school and I had so much fun. Andyou coudl talk to the coach of the volley ball team and see if there is something you can work out. Most people in the pit in band play a string instrument and compete on their own at UIL cometions so you can do both you just can't really perform with the orchestra unless you work something out. It has been done before but iono in your case. All I can really say is that I loved my marching experience and wouldnt trade it for anything.

marla begins walking at 3 mi/h toward the library. her friend meets her at the halfway point and drives her the rest of the way to the library. the distance to the library is 4 miles. how many hours did marla walk ?

can anyone turn that into a equation ?

2 miles at 3 mph....3/60 gives you how far she would walk in an hour...times that by two....i do believe.

What's the best kind of straightens your hair? I mean, like STICK STRAIGHT. And how could you do tiny spirals? I have a spiral, and if anyone can give me instructions. Thanks.

ceramic ones that have multiple heat settings. Pretty much any straightener you get from salley beauty supply. as for the spirals a small cruling iron. Twist the hair up normal and then hold it vertical and let the hair out. hope that helps.

when i was in 6 grade i went to a skool called AG...and then in 7 grade i switched skools....its hard for me but ive made a few friends...but friends arent the problem....in 6 grade i played violin for the AG orchestra...and at my new skool im on the orchestra also...but at AG i had a lot of friends in the orchestra and there was a bout 30 people in the class... but at my new skool...the orchestra only has 12 people and guess what...theyre geeks....its making me not like playing the violin because the class is full of geeks and its making me feel like a geek...but i wanna keep playing violin...what do i do

signed,
~confused girl~

ps....please help me...i dont know what to do...im begging you...i need your help

get over it. People always made fun of me for being in band and I got called lots of names but once i got to high school I made some awesome friends and people start to get over the fact that you are in band or orchestra. If you love it enough stick with it and tell people to get over themselves.

What's the best kinds of women's deordorant that smells good? And don't say Lady Speed Stick, because I hateee that. Thanks.

I used adidas active gel for women. I have huge sweating problems and it helps me alot.

I really wanna scrunch my hair

i have thin straight hair

Is there any possible way i can scrunch it

If So HOW?? and What can i use??

Thanks♥

I have this stuff called got2be kinky. I put that in my hair after i get outta the shower then justkinda scrunch it up into a messy bun and let it dry. Then I put a hair spray for curly hair in it. I normaly do this at night and sleep on my wet hair so it dries while i am sleeping. Hope it helps

i'm in this thing called PYO and it's an extra orchestra thing i can do. there is a lower level called PYS that i was in last spring. the new conductor makes it seem like he took two 8th graders(me and my friend) (it's really hard to get in PYO) b/c he needed people not b/c he thought we were good enough. i don't feel like i'm good enough to be in it b/c everyone else owns like at least 1-2 instruments of their own and i still have a rental. (b/c i can't find own that i like to buy) and they all can read tenor clef and i have no idea how to play it. and we have to do 3 octave G scales all the way in to the stratsphere... i'm so confused half of the time! what should i do?

p.s. i'm gonna get extra help w/the music from my teacher at school but i wont have a lot of time to do that b/c of other activities

My advice is just pracitce. I was in band when i was in school and it took a lot of practice to be able to compete at a carsity level. You can only get better if you practice and make the effort. It will take a lot but if you made into that orchestra its prolly not just because he needed people, you have to have some skill. And btw, owning your own instrument doesnt always mean much. I own one and thats only because i enjoyed playing so much that I bought it after high school. But ya just pracitce practice practice and study all your basics.

can i just ask you people a question....
how old were you when you had your first boyfriend or girlfriend and your first kiss?????

uh... i was in 9th grade for both..well the real kiss part and boy friends. other than that itwas the kind of chasing boys around the play gournd.

any ideas on plucking your eyebrows w/ less pain?? plz hurry!! thanks!

I just shave mine with an eyebrow shaver. I used to do it with a normal razor in the shower but those are too big. But shaving them doesn't hurt at all.

i have sweating problems.. i sweat when im not even hot it just happens.. i got secret deoderant bcuz its a good brand but that didnt help.. do you think i should get a strong mens unscented deoderant? or get like prescribed deoderant? HELP! i dont want to sweat during the day anymore. thanks!!

I have this problem, my doctor told me i have a nervour disease called hyperhydorsis. It bascily tells your sweat glads that you need to sweat when you dont, even if its like 40 outside. He told me to get this stuff call Certian-dri at the drug store. its an over the couter med so you dont need a doctor to get it, but it helps me a lot.

Im 15 years old and me and my boyfriend are haveing sex with out a condom and the other night he went in my twice can i still get pregnet even if im on the pill????

yes...the pill is not 100% effective.

I'm trying to defragment my c drive, but it says some file is corrupted, and will not let me continue. I also got a pop up message about a chdish utility i need to run... any help?

virus= very yes... just reformat unless you can find the corrupted file and manualy delete all of it... including hte hidden files...its prolly easier to jsut back up all your junk that you want and re format...

I'm not sure where to turn. I feel like I have run out of options and I just can't cope.

I've seen a pyschiatrist, physchologist, hypnotherapist and counseller- none helped. I recently went to my head of year when things were really too much- to the extent when it was either help or die- and she, although she said she wouldn't since she saw it wouldnt help, has just asked a counseller to speak to me. I need real help. I know it can help to talk through fears and everything but it hasn't helped me in the past and I cannot put myself through the pain of living for the date where I saw a therapist and begging them to help me. It was hell and it never really helped anything.

I need SOMETHING more now. Things are really bad at the moment. It's hard to explain but basically I have complete phobias of lots of things (certain films, accents, places, anything) that I can relate to a certain person who hurt me. I don't want to go into this since it's not overly relevent to this question.

I just want to know if there is ANYTHING else out there. I really don't know what to do. I want to die. I feel like everything is helpless and no one can help me. I'm not allowed medication as the pyschiatrist felt I was too dependant on things. I don't know where else to turn. My parents don't either.

The reason I went to my head of year was for this reason- I am totally stuck. I can't handle it. I feel like I am falling and no one can stop me. I need help so badly- I just can't see anything out there.

Please reply if you can; thankyou xxxx

look at the things that scare you, anything that makes you uncomfortable, and get used to them being around. Slowly but surely just become less dependant on people and things, try to do things for yourself. Find some way to vent, journal, draw, do abstract art. Writting things down and then reading then like a month or two later lets you reflect and see how you are doing. Just anything you can do. Music helps alot to, making your own is frustrating at first but when you are done it feels wonderful. Only you know what can really help.

What king of fruit and foods give you engry

it depends...banana's make you alert and ready, apples have lots of natural sugar, oranges are good too.

my boyfriend is pakistani and muslim. i am white and agnostic. i really care about him and he's head over heels for me but his parents wont let him do ANYTHING (were seniors in high school living w/our parents)with me (b/c of my race- wow im a victim of racism for the first time and it sucks!). he lies so much to see me but even then its not a lot. i see him at school and then occasionally after school while his parents are at work. we NEVER EVER go on real dates and it drives me nuts!!! i feel as if i deserve someone who can take me out and see me without lying or sneaking around. the situation just SUCKS. should i break up with him or just settle for seeing him barely ever? (if i broke up with him i'd still be friends with him)i really dont know what to do- i feel bad breaking it off but i'm unhappy in our current situation- its not fair to me.
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I had this situation with a mormon boy whos mother did not like me at all because I wasnt mormon. It really sucks but I figured out in the end that it is a lot less stressful to date someone that you are allowed to see. If it was meant to be you will find each other when you have control over your own lives but until then I would say dont deal with tha tmuch stress...espically since you will be graduating in a few months.

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