Hey I am Kelli. I am a girlygirl who loves doing anything fun. I love giving advice and I've been told I'm good at it. I luckily have not had many tragic things happen to me but I've seen enough to know that there are a lot of problems in this world. I am a very easygoing person and will do my best to answer any question that is asked. I do not give out any sarcastic or rude answers simply because the whole point of this site is to help and I'm not here to make you feel any worse then you may already be feeling. At any point leave one in my inbox and I will respond to it within a day or two. I would just like to shout out to all of my friends and especially my best firends Jules Rachel Heather Kathleen and Jessi I love you all and I don't know what I would do without you! Check out my column and remember that no question is turned away ♥
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okay i made out with on of my best friends, now he likes me, and i dont cos i didnt really want to.. but idk cos i like this kid billy now and then last night i made out with this kid chris now billy will probably never like me cos i made out with 2 people who werent him when i say i like him :/
wat do i do kelli? (link)
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your question confused me a lil bit but I think this might help. Tell billy the truth. If he asks why you made out with two people simply tell him that you didn't want to that you were pressured into it ( if that is what happened )if he thinks its slutty your just going to have to let him know that he is the one that you really want. Hopefully he will listen to you. If this didn't answer your question ask me in a different way i hope this works and im sorry if i didnt answer it quite right
♥ barbiegirl
p.s do what your heartt says which sounds stupid but o well
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um..ya this is someone in your grade i want to go out with you but theb ppl will think im weird so i don't think i can ask you out so bye (link)
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hey missa not funny your with me rite now so i no its u lol try harder next time
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im the best on my soccer team. but this girl always picks on me and i start to cry and ive told her to stop and i cant ignore her it gets worse. what should i do. (link)
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Hmmm... congrats on being a good soccer player. I'm sorry this is happening to you some people are terrible you know? Well if this girl knows this is bugging you thats probably why she is at your back. Who knows whats going through her mind. Maybe she is jealous because you are so good ;-) no matter what you do just don't cry when she gets you down instead either give it back to her or laugh and turn your head hang out with other kids maybe bring them to practice.... when she realizes she can't get to you she will stop good luck with the rest of the season and with this girl leave on in my inbox for further help
♥ barbie girl
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Ok. I'm turning 14 and this year i want to have a really fun birthday party. My birthday is in the winter and so i couldn't do anything outside. I have a pretty large basement where the party would be. What are some good party ideas other than spin the bottle. Are there any kind of themes i could have and what are some decorations and food that i could get? I also have a pool table if that could do anything for the party. What is some good music that people like? And what else can i do so my party isin't boring. (What could i do for my party so people have something to do) (link)
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If your basement is big maybe your mom and dad can hire a dj and you can have all your friends over (girls and guys maybe?) You guys can dance and then he can take requests so you don't have to worry about the music type. Have your parents order pizza's and just set them on a table with sodas so people can eat when they want to. Maybe if your birthday is in the winter you can have a tropical theme to get everyone out of the winter fog. You could use bright colors and get blow up plam trees, hawaiin flowers, neony streamers and you could give everyone lays. I'm sorry if this doesn't help leave on in my inbox for further information
xoxo barbie girl
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Ok, well, I got a role in an upcoming production of Oliver in Foxboro. Now there is this guy that I think is pretty cute. He is so nice and really funny, and I can't stop thinking about him. He acts like he is flirting with me and that he likes me, but how can I be sure if it's flirting or just common kindness. I mean come on, the guy sits on my lap for Pete's sake. we have so much in common, and I don't want to riuin anything by asking him out if then I realise that he dosen't fell the same. I described how he acts twards me to all my friends, and the y think that he is flirting. But I can not be sure. Do you think this is the real thing or is he just acting. And if it's real , should I tell him what I think?
One confused actress (link)
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Hey!! Congrats for being in the play. My friends little brother is in oliver i think. Don't you hate how guys are so un obvious? You have a couple of things you could do. One, you could have someone ask him if he likes you. Say another guy around your age is in the play. When your in another room maybe he could say to this kid hey I have seen you and --------- hanging out a lot. Do you like her? If you do I won't tell anybody it just seems like ya do. See most guys will tell each other anything and he can probably get it out of him. If not you could also write him a note. Like say " hey -----, we have been hanging out a lot and its been really fun? Now I know this sounds really funny coming from me but it just has to be asked. Is there something between us?" and he can either right you back or talk to you in person. Last but not least if you want to be bold and take a risk you could have a friend ask him out for you or you could ask him out yourself! If you do say "I do not in anyway want this to ruin our friendship." I am sorry this isn't the best advice but leave on in my inbox if you need further help. Also good luck in the play :-)
♥ barbie girl
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i am on crutches =( and will be for halloween. I really wanna go trick or treating. What should i do? Even if someone like pushed me around in a wagon or something, i still hafta walk up stairs, and it will be so hard doing that all night. Please help me! (link)
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Aww... I am so sorry that must stink. As for what to be... unless you already planned it maybe you could go as like something with injuries like an ex gang member or something you can get ace bandages and like fake blood and purple for bruises that way the crutched will look like they were meant to be there not by accident. As for getting up stairs take it slow remind your friends its tough when you only have the mobility of one leg and i am sure they will help you out. Just practice going up and down you front stairs or something and you will get the hang on if ;) if you really think it is going to be a problem, maybe your firneds can alternate brining your pillow case bucket etc up to the door and saying can I have one for my friends so I am helping her out. Goodluck and I hope this helps and I hope your leg foot or ankel ( dont no which lol) gets better soon
♥ barbie girl
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My homecoming dance is on Saturday and my dress is black, just plain black with like a ruffle around the waist. I want to add more color to my dress so i was thinking of buying a ribbon to tie on my dress or something. Does anyone have any good ideas what color ribbon i should get to match my black dress? And where could i get a ribbon that i can wear? I rate high for good answers. (link)
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Oh that sounds so pretty! I think a light pink ribbon would look so cut ewith that. Then maybe you could get a pink sandal or dress shoes( heel or no heel your choice) pink and black can never go wrong. As for where to buy it? Hmm maybe Joanne fabrics or claires. Any place that sells cltohes will probably have one. Hope I helped and have fun at homecoming!!
♥ barbie girl
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see, i have a boyfriend..but i think somethings up with him, ever since his good friend started liking me, hes been acting weird lately, he usually talks to me all the time, and sits with me too..i asked my best friend..and of course she went over to him and he said she needed some space.....I dont get it..please help me understand this whole situation! (link)
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Your boyfriend probably feels awkward knowing thath is buddy likes you to. Its kind of like when you hav a crash its so much fun and u feel great and then someone else likes him to and the magic is gone.... maybe him and his friend are arguing now because they both want you. Maybe talk to your boyfriend and let him know you would enver leave him for his friend. If the reason really is that he just needs a brake, give him his space and he will come around. Unfrotuanatly most poeple would choose a firned over a boyfriend or girlfriend I am sorry to say. If you want to you could possibly talk to his firned and ask if there is anything going on between the two of them. I am sorry you are stuck in the middle and I wish you the best of luck. Leave one in my inbox if you need it
♥ barbie girl
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i cut....
it's so addicting and i can't stop. i love everything about cutting but i know i have to stop this...
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Oh god this isn't good. Ok first things first think about why you are cutting? Is something going on at home or at school? Figure out what is making you hurt yourself and try to fix the problem. Before you hurt your self think why should i be doing this is this really going to help me? the answer is no it is just causing you even more pain. Instead of cutting maybe whenever your upset you could scream in to a pillow or something i dont raeally no what a good alternative is but i just dont think you are being fair to yourself. If you don't think you can stop on your own mayb tell an adult you trust. Main thing is you can't continue hurting yourself. PLease get some help im here if u need any more addvice
♥ barbie girl
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Sorry if it's long I'll rate 5's to serious answers.
My dad has been going over his brothers. Lately and he has been taking pills and stuff while he is their. I didn't find out this out until today. My other uncle says they really messed him up when he was younger and doesn't want to see it happen again. Well today he told me he was leaving because my mom and him were arguing he said he'd be back in a few days but I don't want him to leave at all. This really upsets me because I love my dad with all my heart. And my mom says their taking a break which usually means divorce and I don't want them to separate because I love them equally. My dad says this is because my mom drinks (not heavily) and stuff. I think I am a cause for this to because last week my mom and I were arguing and the cops came (for disorderly conduct or something) and as soon as my dad came home she told him. I'm really confused because I love both of my parents. Last night when they were arguing I cried myself to sleep and thought of suicide. This is the first time I thought of this in a few years. I don't think I would really do it thought. What should I do for my family and myself? (link)
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Don't even think about taking your own life! This problem is not your fault. Although you may place the blame on your self it is deifnatly nothing that you did! Moms and dads fight all the time. Divorce rate keeps going up unfortunatly. Although my paretns are still married, they have had some pretty bad fights and I no it is tough. Talk to your mom and dad seperatly tell them that you feel terrible about the whole situation. Say that although they may not love each other anymore, you still love them both equally and that its ok for them to have there problems but ask them nicely if they can try to take it easy on you because you do not deserve the pain of your parents problems. Just please don't d anything such as taking oyur life because everything happens for a reason. If you were to commit suicide you never no your mom and dad could get back together again. Just please listen to this and don't hurt oyurself in anyway. Its ok if u dont have a lot of close friends but find someone to confide one and you can alwya sleave me something in my inbox I'l help you anytime you need it
♥ barbiegirl
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