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Gender: Male
Member Since: October 20, 2005
Answers: 2
Last Update: October 20, 2005
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Ok, i am 20 yrs old and i have a child and a boyfriend. He is a big mamas boy. His mom lives down the street about 3 min to drive there. His sister lives across the street. So i see his family at least once a day.(no joke) My family lives across town so i dont get to see them as much. I like his family but then theres time i really dont. His mother i fell always puts me down in a nice way, but maybe thats just me. Everybody kinda aggures with me and i start not to like them. Am a person who takes things to heart and they like to joke alot and make fun of people. Im just asking is it right for me to not like them so much since i see them all the time or am i just being selfish of the love that my boyfriend has for his family? (link)
Rude is what you are being to yourself for not (tactfully ) expressing how you feel to those who would upset you. If a grown woman is making you feel less than what you know you are, she maybe doesnt know you as well as you think she should. So, let her know who you are, let her know that what she says hurts you. Another thing go directly to the source, dont let her hear it from her son or her daughter first. Remember your good upbringing and use some tact and always respect those that have been here longer than you and then simply, express yourself.


wondered if there are any advice on this topic. i don't mind players, as long as they don't play me... are there any signs to tell if a woman is looking for more than just (pretty shallow) fun? (link)
Sure, there are signs, but lets be real, everyone wants to have fun. The best thing for those that start to see more in the relationship first, is to accept them,be there for that person and let them come to understand it too. Or, until you change your mind. Is it risky? You bet your a@# it is but what in life is worth having without some risk involved..later




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