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My dad has been going over his brothers. Lately and he has been taking pills and stuff while he is their. I didn't find out this out until today. My other uncle says they really messed him up when he was younger and doesn't want to see it happen again. Well today he told me he was leaving because my mom and him were arguing he said he'd be back in a few days but I don't want him to leave at all. This really upsets me because I love my dad with all my heart. And my mom says their taking a break which usually means divorce and I don't want them to separate because I love them equally. My dad says this is because my mom drinks (not heavily) and stuff. I think I am a cause for this to because last week my mom and I were arguing and the cops came (for disorderly conduct or something) and as soon as my dad came home she told him. I'm really confused because I love both of my parents. Last night when they were arguing I cried myself to sleep and thought of suicide. This is the first time I thought of this in a few years. I don't think I would really do it thought. What should I do for my family and myself?
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im so sorry..for what your going through..you never put your self in the middle of this...and plese never kill your self!!!god put you here for a reason..and please just dont kill your self..im sure that your dad loves you very much..but sometimes divorce is the right thing to do..and if your mom drinks to much then you shouild have a talk with her to slow it down with the drinks..im so sorry whats going on right now..my parents got a divorce when i was 3..now i have a step dad..but you need to talk to your dad..and maybe you shouild talk to a school counsler!!!
im so sorry..
*hope i heplped*
~Love Always~
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dont even think about killing your self! Just sit down sometime and talk with your parents. It is not your fault if they seperate. But tell your parents that you feel upset that they are fighting alot. And that u think the whole thing is your fault. even though its not. I hope this is helpful!
mwahh! allie
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Don't even think about taking your own life! This problem is not your fault. Although you may place the blame on your self it is deifnatly nothing that you did! Moms and dads fight all the time. Divorce rate keeps going up unfortunatly. Although my paretns are still married, they have had some pretty bad fights and I no it is tough. Talk to your mom and dad seperatly tell them that you feel terrible about the whole situation. Say that although they may not love each other anymore, you still love them both equally and that its ok for them to have there problems but ask them nicely if they can try to take it easy on you because you do not deserve the pain of your parents problems. Just please don't d anything such as taking oyur life because everything happens for a reason. If you were to commit suicide you never no your mom and dad could get back together again. Just please listen to this and don't hurt oyurself in anyway. Its ok if u dont have a lot of close friends but find someone to confide one and you can alwya sleave me something in my inbox I'l help you anytime you need it
♥ barbiegirl
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Okay, first of all, none of this is your fault!! You have nothing to do with your parents' relationship. Don't even let yourself think that.
Nothing is worth killing yourself over!! The only thing killing yourself would do would make it worse, because your parents would blame themselves, and possible each other.
Call a teen hotline or talk to a school consoler if this is too much for you. You shouldn't have to deal with this alone. Get help!
!~*becca*~!
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well your parents have to realize that if they break up how it will affect you, but sometimes you have to just let life go on. If they break up, yes you will be upset at first, but after some time you will realize that they are much happier without being togehter all the time. they will still love you the same, just not eachother. unfortunately these things do happen but we just have to forget about it and move on. hope everything works out. nellie <33
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Okay, this is something that is pretty much completely between your parents. It's not your fault in any way. There isn't anything that you can really do for your parents. Your parents can probably work this out. If not though and they end up getting a divorce, it may not be as bad as you think. One of my friends went through a divorce and she is much happier than she was. Her parents aren't fighting all the time, are much happier, and she gets to spend time with both of them. They both got remarried too, so she has a huge family now, which she likes a lot. I know that this is a really hard time for you. The best thing that you can do is find someone that you can talk about this with. Someone that has been through a divorce, or has a lot of problems at home, a sibling if you have one, a school nurse, counselor, or even a hotline might be able to help you. It's also a good idea to let your parents know exactly how you feel. Another one of my friends' parents ended up staying together just because they didn't want to hurt their children. There's always a chance that your parents will work everything out. Try not to worry so much. I want you to remember that suicide is never the answer to anything. I'm sure that you will get through this. Good luck! <3
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Dont ever think you're the problem! That isnt ever true! Not in any case! I think you shouldnt try and commit suicide. This is just a phase that you have to get threw. But dont do it alone, hang out with your friends alot. I'm not saying to aviod the situation completely, but just until it sinks in...then just try and sort it out with your friend(s) ((if you want to talk to just one and not them all))
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