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I have a twin brother and we are really close he's not spent much time with me lately and im scared i love him to death and if anything happend to him i would never forgive my self even if it wasnt my fault. He has thes friends lets call them bob and joe and they curse alot and thats not like my brother. I'm just worried. Somone pleez help me.
twin delama
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hmm...i curse but i'm breaking away from the habit so i thnk i can help. Try to tell your parents or some guardian to help U wit your problem. myB they'll try to get your brother away from them.
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Sit your brothe rdown and talk to him. Make sure that it is just you and him. Don't let his friends in on the conversation. Express your feelings and tell him that you want to spennd some time with him, because you miss the old him. OY u have to remember that he is growing up and maybe you aren't his best intrest right now-~Luara~
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SOme times twins need time apart to breathe. But if your really worried that something might happen tell him that! He will listen and hopefully respect what you think and fix things
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Talk to him about it and be like "Wow, we haven't hung out in a long time, what have you been up to lately?" he'll probably just say "Nothing" so be like, "Have you been hanging out w.bob and joe" and he'll probably say yes and then you can ask about where they go and what they do and bring up the fact that you don't really like bob and joe and you think he shouldn't hang out w.him. If he just says its none of your buisness, tell him what you just told us, that you're scared and if anything ever happened to him, you wouldn't forgive yourself. If hes like "No I'll hang out w.whoever I want to" then tell your mom that you think he has some bad friends. Or you could go hang out w.bob and joe and your brother and see if they're really bad people or they just say bad things. I don't consider myself a "bad" person but when I'm alone or around my friends, cuss words just kinda...slip out sometimes. It's not part of my normal vocabulary but it just happens sometimes. Guys tend to cuss a LOT...so you should really find out if they do bad things, or just talk badly...bc they mite actually be really nice! But talk to your brother and then your mom or someone if he refuses to admit bob and joe are bad and he shouldn't hang out w.them. But before making a big deal out of it w.your mom involved, find out what bob and joe are really like
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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Hey twin delama ,
let him no why you think that isnt him.. tell him that he has never been like that and since he has been hanging out with them hes been changing - in a bad way...
hope i helped
-;- jessie xo
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Well it could just be that you too are getting older and he wonts more guy friends. But if it is realy bad maybe you should just ask like were are you going, and keep a close eye on him to make sure he doesn't do anything stupid or crazy. If his friends are really bad maybe tell your mom/dad. But besides that just let him do what he is doing and it should just fade away!
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Well i think its best to talk to your mom about it tell her whats up. And talk to your brother tell him that bob and joe are bad kids. Im sure he'll listen to you if he loves you as I'm sure he does. <3 American Girl
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Talk to him. Tell him how you feel.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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Just tell your brother that you are worried about him because he isnt spending as much itme with you and instead spending time with people you tihink are not good. If it keeps getting worse maybe go tell someone that you are worried about your brother
hope i helped
sam
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youre bro neeeds space give him a little no matter what dont say u dont like his friends hell get so pissed at you just find out were he goes and stuff like that ask is u can hang with um too
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Theres many things you can do try to make toyr brother stop. Try talking to him, and asking if anything is bothering him, and things like that. If he gets mad an raging like other teens, try to do simple things for him like say bye in the morning, or affectionate things to show you really care. But if nothing seems to work, you have to talk to your parents, and tell them whats bothering you, and what may be bothering your brother-Julia
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twin delama,
maybe this is your brother's way of getting his space! yes he may hangout with "bob" and "joe" and they curse a lot but that shouldn't matter because if it makes him happy you should support him on that! maybe sit him down and tell him that you feel you 2 don't spend enough times together and that maybe you should! see what he says! good luck! happy holidays!
*BeSs*
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he has his own life with new friends you may not like them but you need to accept it.Try to talk yo him about what he is doing and interests he will see for himself if his friend are bad which they may not be
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If your concerned, talk to him. His friends could get him into serious trouble, as you very well know already. If your brothers friends just cuss... then I would leave it alone. He's growing up, and he couldn't be sheltered from those types of things forever. But you should still talk to him about it anyways. Tell him how you feel.
If his friends are into vandilism, drugs, and such... deffinately TALK TO HIM. Also, you might want to mention something to your parents. I'm sure they're just as concerned as you are, and they probably have no clue whats going on behind their backs.
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Well the older you get the more people are going to swear around you. If they swear it doesnt mean he will to. You just have to talk to him about this sort of stuff. You sound young so just to let you know that there will be drugs, swearing, sluts, and ect., first loves coming up and you guys need to stick by eachother.-trix
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