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DuNnO wUt To PuT tHiS uNdEr!
Sorry if this is long. Okay i'm a 14/female and have a slight problem. I met this guy Greg at a party, and really liked him. So we talked alot and got close and ended up going out. But about a week later I broke it off because things wern't working out but I still had feelings for this guy. So one day we were talking on-line and we were joking around about having sex. So I was like "Yea i'd bang you any day!" And he calls me and was like "Are you serious?" and me being stupid I said yes because I didn't want to look dumb. So one day I went to his house and was going to tell him I was joking and all but he was peer pressured me into doing it. After that we promised each other we wern't going to tell anyone. And he was like "well I would like to tell my friend Joe" so I was like okay. So the next day I went to school and Gregs ex girlfriend comes up to me and was like did you fuck greg? and she told me that the rumor was going around and so I talked to Greg and was like why did you tell everyone and he was like "i'm sorry I didnt mean for everyone to find out" Like cheap whiskey I bought his stupid lies! So then we were friends and ended up going to homecomming. While at H.C he tells me that he loved me and everything but didn't want to go out with anyone at the time. So I was just like okay and we were just friends. Well I became good friends with a girl named Leah who was also friends with Greg. So I was talking to her (not knowing she knew about me and Greg) until she brings up what happened between me and him and she tells me that he lied to me nd wasn't a virgin! So i confronted him and he said that it was true so I was mad. and i also found out that he lied about toher thinfs too. So we deicded to not talk for a week... his dumb idea so we havent talked for some time but the thing is I stil like him even though he's caused so much pain in my life. Like the rumors I had to hear going around school and geting made fun of. I see myself getting very upset at what other people say to me like some times I come home and just cry. I started cutting my self and always find myself thing about suicide and I dont know if this has anything to do with this but lately i've been REALLY tired and falling asleep in class when I go to bed around the same time every night! I really need to get over Greg and his lies but I just dont know how! I'm emotionally attached and need to know how to let go and i'd appreciate advice! Thanx babes!
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-Kristen*
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This guy is definatly not worth it. He only said he loved you to get in bed w/ u. It would be easier to get over him if you just dont talk to him ever again. Plus why would you want to be friends with or even like someone who did that to you. Tell him that he shouldnt of never dont that. and you dont even want to be his friend. Theres nothing you can really do about people talking about you. probably the only thing you can do is stick up for yourself. The rumors will get old eventually and people will stop talking about you.
hope i helped
sk8terbabe019*
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OK you are still here becuase GOD wants you here. Think about that, god WANTS you here. You need to get over greg becuase he is obviously a loser and think of all the fish in the ocean! he's just a big fat shark that kills sea horses!
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Wow... well you didnt say this but i think you were a virgin before? so if you were then the attachment is there because your first is always like such a huge deal in your life. If you werent a virgin before then just dont think about that last statement. He seems to be really unhealthy for you so I would suggest cutting off all contact with him for a little while and see how that goes. And Im not going to tell you what to do with the cutting because I have been there so many times and i know that you can only stop when you are ready... nothing anyone else says can make you do it, just know that there are people in your life who probably love you and care about you... you don't need this jerk greg, he seems really like a bad guy! You sound like such a sweet girl, you deserve so much better then this ass hole! haha. Hope I helped somewhat!
~KiKi
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Ok sweety, this guy is NOT worth cutting yourself over! YOur depressed and as much as I'd hate to admit it myself, i think you should tell a teacher adult friend parent or somthing, get some help, that's not safe at all and honestly I'm scared for you! I don't know you except for this little connection but i don't like people hurting themselves over anything, especially a relationship! I'm sorry things got so bad for you but your parents can help so can any adult or older friend you have. I'm sorry to sound so "parental" and all but I'm 14 and I think you need to tell someone. I hope you get better and don't hurt yourself any more!-Krista
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Well it seems that you have been moving along but first off cutting isnt something that you want to do.. its not cool and your only hurting yourself and not giving yourself any credit. but sounds to me as if greg is a a*hole so you shouldnt let him get to you but crushes can be hard to get over... and thats why they call them crushes ... cuz they end up crushing you anyways. So maybe your not getting "good" sleep you maybe getting alot of sleep but you might not being sleeping good so that may be why you are always falling asleep just try to think of something else before you go to sleep something happy or whatever you want to happan but just nothing to do with him and maybe you will get better sleep it helped me getting over my X-bf Jamie and that was extremely hard being that he asked out my sister and my best friend 3 weeks later! So i hope you get over this crush and move on to someone who will treat you so much better!!
-trix
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dear kristen,
i just recently had a boyfriend and there r rumors going around saying tht he dont wnat another fuckin thing to do with me so after about.. almost a month it has been i finally got over him it was hard i was heartbroken i cried in my room everyday and still dont no y he was worth my long cry if he did tht to me..
all im saying is tht u will get over him and then tht means u can find better.
everything happens for a reasno right?
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hey, umm look you'll get over him TRUST me..i thought i wouldent get over this guy, cuz i "loved" him and after a few weeks he was no big deal...you just need to find new guys to like..and just keep on teling yourself that he was just using you and he hurt you..
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Oh hunni you dont deserev that!! you should just tell everyone that hes lieing and you shouldnt get that upset over it that u want to end ur life..something like that happened to me adn i transfered to an all girls school lol.. it will take a while to get over it, maybe talk and hang around with your friends who stuck with you this whole time a lot more and have fun, and learn from this mistake
sorry im not a very good advice-er!!
xo connie!
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